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I really need advice rite now. I have been going out with This guy for about 8 months (on and off) and I really love him. But all that I end up getting out pf this relationship is MORE drama and Hurt. I really like him but sometimes it seems like it wasnt meant to be. Ever since I met him and His buddies ITs all been He** and drama and HatE. I haven't cried sooo much in the last 5 years than I have these several months with him. He already cheated on me twice...and there is also this girl that likes him and He has Liked her Forever and I'm scared that he will go out wit her....she is such a bit** too...is it because I'm jelous of her...of what she can have or do?? i really dont know..MY LIFE IS jUST ALL Drama and I want it all to go away. please help me..
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I doesn't sound that he loves you- no offense. I'd definitely talk to him and if you think he's going to cheat then break up. He wouldn't do this if he loved you. ♥
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im sorry to say but this guy probly isn't for yoo. i have a friend that WILL NOT get over this one guy... and shes so pretty and a lot of guys like her, but she always falls for this one guy. theres plenty of fish in the sea! but this guy is just not for yoo!
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Prove to this man how much you love him, and what you can give him. He is probably blinded from the love. All he needs is to turn off all thay love and just focus on you.
I love you,
TarA
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I think you should end it now because there is no point in been with someone who makes you cry and who are always having arguements as for that other girl, ignore her shes a idiot. you dont deserve to be cheated on! that guy your dating is a jerk and you need to get rid of him now do it in frount of all his mates then he wont feels so good! i hate him already
luv roxie
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if all thats happening in this relationship is fighting and alot of drama there is no point being in it but if you really like him and its just other ppl and his friends and stuff talk to him about talk about how your feeling and what needs to happen find out if he still likes this other girl and if he does theres no point staying with him If you think he likes her give him a choice name all the really good things you can be and what good things you portray and tell him its either you (and all the things you said{the good things}) or the other girl and be in hell, Make him want to stay with you not by giving him all the sexual pleasure he wants but by showing him why he should be with you but dont tell him thats what your doing
hope i helped!!! :)
Kelsey
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If you want to get away from all this drama then why don't you try getting rid of him because it seems he's the one with the issues.You might think you don't want to throw away 8 months but sooner or later it will end and the longer you wait the more it will hurt.Don't put yourself in a tough situation and there is many other guys out there with less problems.I hope I helped but introduce yourself to new people and a different crowd maybe something good will come of it.GOOD LUCK!
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dump him. if he cheats on you and likes another girl he's not right for you. Trust me, you'll get over him. It might take time but it'll all be better in the end.
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anonymous -
The only way to really get rid of all this drama is to break up with him.
Think about what has this relationship has to offer you? To me it seems like the cons outnumber the pros. To cheat on you he is not considerate of your feelings and shows great disrespect. The fact that there's another girl involved is increasing the chance of another incident with you getting hurt again.
I know it's going to be hard, and don't listen to all of the other people who say "get over him" like it's a piece of cake. If it helps any, he'll get what's coming to him in the end, oh how I love karma.
He really isn't worth your time, you need a guy that deserves you and you, him. Also, life is too short to spend it with a guy who will make it hell for you. Go out and mingle, dating is really fun! You can talk to other guys and flirt without having to worry about a guy back home :) Have fun and enjoy your life!
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Get out of the relationship. He has cheated on you twice before, there might be a girl in the way, and you need to get out of the relationship before your hurt anymore. You need to move on and even though it might take a while to get over him..its better than being in a relationship and crying 24-7. If you want the drama to go away then leave him alone. Dont even be friends, that will cause more hurt. Just break all ties with him and start over. I'm sure there are plenty of guys that would love to go out with you and they wont make you cry! Even though it might suck getting over him, it will be worth it. Good luck!
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Make it go away then! If he lies to you etc. he is not worth the effort, and it's making you miserable. You may love him but, you already know what you have to do. You have my vote. Get rid of him and find someone new.
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