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is it to early for me to be in a new relationship?
i'm 13 and a girl.i really need help.in 7 grade i went out with this boy named russ we liked each other since 6 grade but in 7 he asked me out. we fell in love with each other after 5 months we went out for 6 months. when summer vacation came we broke up. we did't talk for the whole summer untill in august he called. then when we went back to school we went back to talking like the best friends we were.then we both went out with different people. and he would come to my house to hang out but on day we kissed(we both were with somone).then he broke up with his girlfrined and i broke up with my man.then we went back out we promised each other that nothing was going to happen and we would be the best couple.so then i felt like i did't want to be in a nother relationship with him so i broke up with him. he never saw it comming and he felt soooo bad. then couple months later he went out with this other girl and he said he loved her after 2 months but i know he did't because the way he acted. i think he said that because he was missing me.then he cheated on her with me . he said he would do anything for me.and he still see me in his life for ever.now him and his girlfriend are not together. this boy named jay is talking to me now we have been talking for 3 weeks now and he wants us to go out. but i'm scared he might hurt me just like russ did.and jay and i are really close and i think i might fell in love with him.jay and i are going though changing . he gonna stop being a player. he just got of a relationship 3 months ago and he loved the girl. so i need your help please.
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well it seems that you broke up with russ b/c you didnt care for him any more but i wouldnt hold myself back from begin in a better relationship just remeber the thing that where afrid of most could be the thing that are worth the while
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U were never "in" love!!!!!!!!!11
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Well i think you should go for it you dont need to be scared because everyone goes out at one point. If you want to wait awhile thats cool but dont leave it to long if you like him because he might not be there when you feel your ready to accept and have a boyfriend. and as for russ
you can continune to be friends and some day it might turn out better than that but for now you can handle one boy friend not more than one.
luv roxie
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First off dont listen to them other people....YOU CAN BE IN LOVE AT ANY AGE!!!! im 13 tooo
ive been in love and i know how it feels....give jay a try it might work out for the best.......russ is in the past.......i know you never get over your first love but you just need to put it in the back of your head dont think about it for a while...hope i helped.....post back in my column if you need anything else!
Kaycee
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Number one, you are not "in love" with anyone. Trust me. You are thirteen. Come on. Think about it.
Number two. You cheated on your boyfriend with him. And a while after, you made him cheat on his girlfriend. You're thinking your older than you really are and you need to come back to being thirteen.
There's a lot more to say, but I just can't put it into words. You need a therapist or something to bring you back to being a thirteen year old.
~K~
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Okay, for one your only 13 your not 'in love' with anyone.
Second, your a total bitch because you let him cheat on his girl friend with you, and that is fucked up.
Third, like the other person said, just shut the fuck up, most of your question didn't make any since, you were just rambling on and on about shit.
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Just date them both if you want.Why be tied to one guy at your age? Sooner or later you'll like one more than the other.
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i think that you should worry about whoes feelings your gonna hurt by who you choose to go out with.. as long as you are making responsible choices and making yourself happy you will be fine.. but honey take it from me you will go through alot of boyfriends in middle school and in high school.. you may say you love the person but a few months later you will be in love with someone else.. it happens to everygirl as they grow up and its totally normal.. hope everything works out well <3
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