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ok there is my two best friends we'll call them A and B! ok i have been best friends with A for a loooooong time and with B since 5th grade. ok my friends A and B have been hanging out a lot and im getting REALLY jelous b/c they dont really include me in a lot of things now. so my questions are... (i rate high)
1)Is this wrong for being jelous?...(and)
2)How can i tell them without them getting mad?
Thanks a bunch!
-*Marissa*- (link)
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1) Being jealous is perfectly normal.
2.)You just tell them.Tell them it kinda hurts your feelings. Don't say it all mad like, just calmly tell them. I doubt they will be mad.
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ok i have a really good friend and she is hurting herself by like throwing herself into walls durring school because i think she is depressed. It seems like she really doesn't want to talk about it to anyone. The other day she almost cracked her head open. (she kind of did or maybe she just got a cut on it and it started bleeding because she was banging her head on the lockers) ya i know it sound phsyco...but i don't want her 2 be like this! i mean 2day she was slamming her head against the concrete until i made her stop! what should i do to get her to either tell me whats going on or to stop her from hurting herself????? (i rate high)
ThAnKs A BuNcH!
-*Marissa*- (link)
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Tell her mom.Tell a trusted teacher, Just tell someone older who has an authority over her before she does some real damage.
She will be mad at you at first but will get over it someday. If first person doesn't cure the problem, keep it up until someone does.
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Okay there was this one kid that said he liked me. he'd alwyas say he loves me too, but i thought he had a girlfriend.. One day at my friend's house he tried to kiss me and i said no i cant do this.. he asked why and i said because your going out with amy..he said, no im not dont worry about it. About a month later his Girlfriend found out about what happened and he told her that I CAME ONTO HIM! She wants to beat me up for something i did not do and she thinks that I am lying about all this.. what can i doo!? (link)
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Tell her exactly what happened.She will side with her idiot boyfriend but it will put doubt in her mind.You can't make her believe you but I sure wouldn't hold back any details either.
If she comes after you double up youor fist and go for the nose.:)
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help...
my friend is in a clique of mean girls who you can tell have a say of something mean about everyone in school. it mite not be true but i can easily believe it-anyone can. well anyway, she carries around this stupid picture of a little boy she adores. problem is, she doesn't even know him. hes the nephew of a kid in our class. i thought the picture was cute for a while until my friend (jessica) started carrying him (robbie) around EVERYWHERE. then one day my friend decided to play a trick on her and take robbie at lunch. she did it when jessica went to throw away her trash at lunch. jessica came back furious, practically crying wondering where robbie is. she was officially attached. ive asked her why she carries it around with her everywhere and she just says because you can tell a picture things and it wont blab like a human does. i want to RIP APART robbie. i want to smak him to the ground, i want to BURN HIM. its getting way too out of hand because she talks to it and tells it how hes so cute and adorable and no one can hurt him (yeah rite) one day my friend accidentaly ripped robbie at least a centimeter. jessica didn't talk to her until she apologized 500 times. he got ripped again a few weeks later and jessica came to school with him in a plastic baggie. now it was geting wayyyyyyyy too out of hand. i kept tellin her it was a waist of time to talk and spend 99.9% of her time with robbie but she wouldn't listen. a few months before that she became a vegitarian. i don't know why but i kept getting into this whole argument about why being a vegitarian is WRONG. of course i learned to respect her rights and i gave up trying to get her to stop being a vegitarian. i still sort of have an urge deep down inside to yell at her and say veggie eater! veggies have feelings too! and crap like that but ive learned to control it. robbie is still a pain though. what do i do? shes starting to act all "mature" on me and shes saying how much i act like a kid (yeah rite) i don't mind that but what do i do if she starts coming up with other weird habits?! shes getting on my case that im starting to not like her although im trying to be as nice as i can. what do i do? (link)
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I think you'd better go tell her mom how weird she's acting.
I'm not saying she's got this problem but I do know a guy who is probaby in his late 50's. He has a stuffed dog named cuddles. He think's cuddles is real too. Buy's him pepsi...the whole deal! HE is schizophrenic.So, she could be having some sort of meltdown. She's a little old for imaginary friends. Tell her mom about it. Get her some help.
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Where can i get im sorry greeting cards? (link)
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Probably hallmark. Have you seen the commercial where the kid cut his hair off.I think he was asking about a sorry card! Try hallmark. Online or off.:)
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HELP! well i broke up with my b/f recently ans i was a bit down. all my friends have been really supportive and decided that it would cheer me up to find me someone else. well i dated this lad about three years ago and he did my head in. but we became friends afterwards and now we are so close. he is amazing totally ace and i love him to bits! well anyway he has liked me ever since we dated and kept asking me out. my friends persuaded me that he was just what i nneded and that he would look after me, as i as a bit hurt by my last b/f. well we ended up making out one night and now he thinks everything is back to the way it was but i think i have made the biggest mistake because he already annoying me. i feel like im so much more mature than him. and now i find out that this lad that i absolutely fancy the pants off (lets call him sam) likes me. so wat do i do? and if i dump him for sam (which i really want to do)how do i do it and still remain friends? (link)
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Well first off if you're going to dump him do it now before the other guy asks you out. Don't want to hurt him more.Just explain to him that it isn't working for you but you really do like him as a friend. He may be upset at first but he will eventually get over it.:)
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I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good (link)
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You broke up with him. That doesn't mean he doesn't still want to be your friend. He may have decided not to ask you out again because he was afraid you'd break up with him again.
The thing is you were broke up, and he was fair game. I know you won't want to hear that but its true. You'll need to decide if you want to say something and break them up, and probably lose your friend. Is he trustworthy enough to risk that? Up to you.:)
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I've had a crash on this one guy for the last 2 years but we never talk. I see hem only in the summer and his cousin is my best friend so she's been telling me things about him and from what I gather he is a nice guy. I took a small photograph of him last summer and now I am drawing a portrait of him (I am good at art and it really looks like him) so I think I will show it to him this summer. He is shy around people he doesn't know but is two years older then me. I am really shy and I can’t flirt. I can’t get a guy’s attention even thought I am not ugly. I’ve never had a boyfriend partially because of that and I don’t have any real guy friends ether. What should I do? How can I change that? Can you give me some tips? I rate high! Please help! (link)
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I'd show it to him. Just be yourself and forget the flirting thing. Talk to him. The more you talk the easier it will get. You can always have your cousin start the conversation.
As for boys attention.You just have to talk to them. They are the same as you. Some of them are shy too. You don't really get over being shy, you just have to learn to overcome it somehow.
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To anyone who wants to answer,
This girl I like is absolutely amazing. Funny, great personality, smart, and just a great all-around person. She is also very hot. Until just recently I thought she may have feelings for me...till I said I liked her. I didn't say it directly to her but she did hear about it. Ever since she hasnt really talked to me. Anybody got advice for a guy whos crazy about an awsome girl?
Signed,
HereWithOpenEars (link)
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You need to ask her out. How else are you gonna find out if she likes you. Any school dances coming up? Just ask her and see. Maybe she's shy now that she know you like her. Good luck!:)
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How do I ask a very popular boy (Im not that popular) to slow dance with me? I really like him and we flirt alot, Im just so afraid of rejection! Hes popular but hes never had a gf (And ive never had a bf) Should I ask him to dance? What do i do if he says no??? WHat do i say? (link)
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You just go up and ask he'd dance with you. If he flirts with you then I don't know why he would turn you down.
If he says no well you tried.Try to notice if he's dancing the slow ones...he may say no just because he isn't a slow dancer. So check that out ahead of time! Good luck, I think he'll say yes.:)
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well where do i start? im going out with this boy right,(let call him sam) anyway. and of course im atracted to him. but we sed that we were going to try and have an open relationship to bring us closer because weve done everything with each other and he suggested that if we got with other people then it would make us appreciate each other more. and so far its working. we dont share what we have done but we tell each other that we are doing it. so far it working. when we het back together its amazing (just thinking about it and im short of breath if you know what i mean? lol!) nyway ppl found out about it and keep telling us that we dont care bout each other and that its disgusting. we have tried explaining but no-one else seems to understand. what do you think? is it right? (link)
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Unless you are having sex with all these diffrent people I don't see a problem with it.I think it's great.
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ok...theres a school dance on friday and i really like this guy and he knows that i like him and im trying to find some way to get him to ask me out because i think he kinda likes me too. i would ask him out, but im way to shy...any ways to boost my confidence? is there any way that i can flirt in a way that will convey what i want/think? i dont want help like just flirt with him because to me, this is really serious because all of my friends have dates except for me... thanks!!! (link)
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Do you have any friends in common who could maybe drop him a hint for you? Something like yourname doesn't have a date for the dance yet,why don't you ask her?
I don't care for flirting much so I don't have anything to offer there. Maybe you could just ask him if he's going to the dance. Bring it up. If he say's I don't know or something, then you could say I'd really like a dance with you. Good luck :)
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Me and my girlfriend had been goin out for a while but then the other day she broke up with me i asked her why and i found out she wasnt goin outr wit this other guy already. Please tell me what to do!
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Find a new girlfriend. It may take a while to get over her but the best way is just to jump right in there and find a new one.
I really wouldn't try and get the old one back. she's already proven to be untrustworthy. Why have to worry about that all the time.
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Sorry this is long, but I rate high.
Im moving soon, August to be exact. But there is this guy where i live now that Ive had a crush on since Feb. of 2004. I guess it's more than a crush now. Anyways, some people say he likes me but he never tells anyone who he likes so they just assume he does. Well, now that I'm moving I want to truly find out if he likes me so I can possibly make a move or I know to flirt more and w/e. Im so confused. I don't want to leave wishing I had done something. What do I do? Sorry this might be a little confusing...but Im just as confused. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Here's the thing, if you find out he does like you are you going to happy with a relationship that only has months to live? Long distance romance doesn't work very well.
Of course you don't say how far you are going. If not far then it wouldn't be a problem.
The descision is your's to make, just giving you something to think about :)
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omg. ok like when i walk around all the guys like 15 to 16 ask me to get in a car with them or try to get me 2 hang out with them and stuff im 13 but they think im older but i mean you have to addmit that 13 year old guys are really inmature some arent even into girls yet. well at laest in my world. id want a bf older but then it seems like theyd just use me or try to have sex with me.like one tryied..... do yeah i dont no what to do i dont want to go out with a guy my age i want one older. and like where do i meet them? ok sry if this is really dumb im leaving before i make a bigger fool of myself (link)
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Sounds like you're already meeting them!
You are to young for sex. Dating doesn't have to mean sex. Just say no. Don't let them pressure you into it. They will all try you at some point, just let them know you aren't ready for that yet. The good ones will ask you out again.:)
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ok, so i imed this guy i liked 2 days ago, and he was talking a lot and asking me stuff..and he usually never does this so i was excited. And i wanted to ask him to this dance for friday..my friend talked to him at lunch and asked him if he wud say yes if i aksed him and she sed that he sed "prolly yes", and that he seemed enthusiastic about it. So then today, i imed him and he didnt say word...and then put an away up.. Should i not ask him, and do you think that he doesnt like me? Thanks. (link)
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I think I would ask him. He probably had someone interuppt his conversation earlier.Don't read to much into that. Go ask! :)
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okay theres this guy named ryan. i love ryan. ryan says he loves me.. but me nd him get inalot of fights.. not big ones though they last like 1 hour. soo today is my birthday.. me and him were gonna hang out and i walked really far to hang out with him and then he callz my cell and says he is hangin out with (people i hate) kansa and victorea... (there on drugs) i got mad.. very mad.. nd started to walk home.. then when i get home he callz my cell again and says wanna hang out.. and it was like 8 so i was like no and blah blah then i notice he was ingoreing me.. i got mad.. and i told my friends the story. he hurts me.ditchs me.. they think i should forget about him but idk what i should do i really love him.. i cry myself to sleep every night thinking about him.. every mintue of my class i cant stop thinking about him! should i leave him or no?
p.s me and him are not going out .. we love eachother though.
please help i rate high! (link)
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I think you know you should forget about him.
You already cry about him every night. He hurts you everytime he turns around, and hangs out with druggies. He will bring you nothing but heartache.
Find someone who puts you first for a change and it won't take long to put him behind you.:)
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ok well my bf and i have been going out for about 2 mounths. well a couple days ago i found out that about a day after we were going out he made out w/ my best friend(brigitte) at my other friends house(austin). well b4 i knew this my bf and i were at a party and we made out and stuff and it made my friend(brigitte) that had madeout w/ him a couple weeks b4 really mad at me and i had no clue wut was going on! and so i found out wut had happened and i was mad too for a while but i got over it but my other freind kinda hasnt and she is like my best friend!!!!! i dont kno wut to do... dump my boyfriend or dump my best freind? HELP! (link)
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You shouldn't have to dump either one. What did you do? Your boyfriend made out with your girlfriend. She is the one who should be apologising to you. You forgave them, you did your part. I think she may be jealous that you are the one he chose. There isn't much you can do about that. You know if you break up with your guy she is gonna move right in on him. I guess what i'm trying to say is this. Don't punish yourself to make your friend happy.You are not at fault here so why should you do all the paying?
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My boyfriend took this test that was like "20 questions to a better girlfriend" and I took one that was "20 questions to a better boyfriend" Well, in the end result I got a 55, which is horrible and he got a 91, which is pretty close to ask high as you can get. At first he told me he answered the questions unhonestly, but soon changed his mind when I asked him again. What I need help on is why I got a 55. I've always told him I'm a bad girlfriend, but he'd never listen and now my point is proven to me. (link)
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I wouldn't put much into believing those kinds of tests. They really don't tell you a whole lot. They are fun though. They can be helpful sometimes too. Just start fixing the answers you got wrong. If you haven't met his parents...do it. As far as you being a good or bad girlfriend though...just forget the stupid test. To much room for error.
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I am a guy who has liked the same girl for a very very long time. We used to be real close, but then she found out that I liked her and things got weird between us. She would never talk to me, ignore me, that kinda thing. So I made up a lie, I posted on my xanga that I didnt like her anymore although I think she still suspects. Anyway, we've been getting along ALOT better ever since I said that. Should I just go ahead and come out? If I do come out, should I ask her out? (link)
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I'd give it a little time. Rekindle the friendship more first. I imagine the thought that you might have more feelings for her than she has for you probably scared her off the first time.
Just be yourself. Treat her kinda special without putting pressure on her to be your "girlfriend" and her feeling may just change after awhile. They may not. But, it's certainly worth a try. Good luck! :)
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