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A Girl I like
I am a guy who has liked the same girl for a very very long time. We used to be real close, but then she found out that I liked her and things got weird between us. She would never talk to me, ignore me, that kinda thing. So I made up a lie, I posted on my xanga that I didnt like her anymore although I think she still suspects. Anyway, we've been getting along ALOT better ever since I said that. Should I just go ahead and come out? If I do come out, should I ask her out?
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Here's how this type of thing goes. You like her but she may not feel the same way so she was avoiding you for a while, until you said that you don't like her and now everything is better because she isn't afraid you'll ask her out and she'll have to hurt your feelings and possibily ruin the friendship. So if you really wanna tell her you should go for it but make sure to add in there that if she doesn't feel the same about you then things will still be the same, you can remain friends and such.
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last time you told her it didn't go well, try again it will probably be worse
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I'd give it a little time. Rekindle the friendship more first. I imagine the thought that you might have more feelings for her than she has for you probably scared her off the first time.
Just be yourself. Treat her kinda special without putting pressure on her to be your "girlfriend" and her feeling may just change after awhile. They may not. But, it's certainly worth a try. Good luck! :)
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sure, the worst thing she can say is no!
if you dont ask, you'll never know!!
those 6little words could change your life.
*(6words= will you go out with me)*
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KELS
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Of CoUrSe YoU ShOuLd TeLl HeR! Tell her that you don't want anything weird going on because you don't want it to ruin your relationship! But, that you REALLY do like her and you were wondering if she wanted to go out with you! If she says no, than just tell her that you hope things don't get weird between you guys now! If she says yes, well...than she does!!! haha! Just make sure whenever you ask her, she knows you like her A LOT!*
*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*
P.S.-Inbox me whenever you get the results
-*Marissa*-
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Do what you think is the right thing because if you do tell her that you like her, then she may ignore you again but she may have changed. You can casually ask her what she would do or say if you told her that you liked her and if she said anything that wasn't along the lines of ignoring you or not talking to you, then tell her that you do and ask her out. If she says no, then she isn't worth your time because you don't deserve to be let down again and not be spoken to and ignored by this girl.
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I think thats cute!! yea u should come out and tell her. and tell her that you dont wanna lose her friendship like you almost did the last time she found. see how it goes for like a week and see if she kinda likes you mare than a friend. you shouldn't hesitate to tell. I hope it works out and i hope i helped!
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