I've had a crash on this one guy for the last 2 years but we never talk. I see hem only in the summer and his cousin is my best friend so she's been telling me things about him and from what I gather he is a nice guy. I took a small photograph of him last summer and now I am drawing a portrait of him (I am good at art and it really looks like him) so I think I will show it to him this summer. He is shy around people he doesn't know but is two years older then me. I am really shy and I can’t flirt. I can’t get a guy’s attention even thought I am not ugly. I’ve never had a boyfriend partially because of that and I don’t have any real guy friends ether. What should I do? How can I change that? Can you give me some tips? I rate high! Please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? googlyeyes answered Friday April 8 2005, 10:23 pm: well i say you have in's with this guy; i mean you are bestfriends w/his cousin, so you can ask her to get a group of friens including him and hang out. then show him the pic...maybe he'll be flattered?just talk to him like hes special..i mean like say 'whats up hottie' and like give him a hug when you see him and little things like that, he'll get the idea of you liking him, then make your move and maybe give him a kiss on the lips and ask him to the movies or something!
xOtWiXi answered Thursday April 7 2005, 4:35 pm: Honestly, I wouldn't show him the picture. He might think your a stalker [you're not]. I know you said your shy, but I'd just give it a shot. You could always start off as friends =] and even if you've never had a boyfriend or guy friends, it's no big deal -you have to sstart somewhere! Hope I've Helped. ♥ [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday April 7 2005, 12:57 am: I'd show it to him. Just be yourself and forget the flirting thing. Talk to him. The more you talk the easier it will get. You can always have your cousin start the conversation.
As for boys attention.You just have to talk to them. They are the same as you. Some of them are shy too. You don't really get over being shy, you just have to learn to overcome it somehow. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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