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Question Posted Wednesday April 6 2005, 5:47 pm

theres this guy in one of my classes and i sorta like(d) him... im not sure if i still do or not... btu today in class he was totally flirting with me and i thoght he was gonna ask me out... ive never had sex before but ive done a lot of things... he told me he just recently had sex with this chick hes sorta been "dating" i guess u call it... but i dunno like i thoght he was gonna ask me out and i got really flipped out... so i dunno!! hes kinda cute and all my friends like him... but i dunno what i shuld do... any ideas?

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karenR answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 11:49 pm:
You can certainly go out with a guy without having sex with him. That part I wouldn't even worry about yet. He may have told you that story to get your reaction, I'd let him know that you would have to get to know a guy really good before you'd do that kind of thing. Then you'd know that isn't why he asked you out.

If he asks you out, and you like the guy give him a chance. Just don't be pressured into having sex until you are ready and until you've known him a while.:)

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BeautifulMadness answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 6:42 pm:
Hmm...
Well on one hand, it sounds like he WASN'T going to ask you out. Bragging about the girl you've just screwed to your future girlfriend is hardly the usual way to go about it.
On the other hand, he could have just been bragging or even trying to making you jealous.
If he's going to ask you out, he will. Just let it happen :)
If he hasn't in a couple of weeks though, and still seems interested, then do something yourself - at least ask him for his number or email addy (so you can IM him) if you don't want to ask him out.
And don't rush into having sex with him...do you really want to be the next one he's bragging about? You're worth more than that.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx

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