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Keenan was an 8th grader last year and i was a 7ie. We were good friends and were both really good singers. Anyway, this year he is in 9th now. Well i had to do a solo for a choir concert so i asked him if he would do a song with me. We got permission from my director and started to practice. Now that the song has progressed i think im starting to like him. He is the sweetest thing in the world. The problem is i wont be going to his school for another 4 months. I really like him and i think he likes me. My question...... should i risk telling him how i feel?
thnx! (link)
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You can if you want too. I think I'd just get as close to him as posible and wait for him to ask you out.
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ok i need help yesterday 4/14/05 i was baby sitting my best friends little 4 year old brother because she went on vacation and we were playing hide and seek in my woods and after a few minets i could not finde him then i herd him scream!! i finally found him crying and screming on the ground a stick got poked rite in his eye im not sure how far back it got i pulled it out but half of the stick broke off into his eye he is getting very sick and i can't get any thing done with out his parents permission and they don't even kno their coming back on 4/19/05 in 5 day and i don't kno wut to do HELP ME PLEAS!!! (link)
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call 911......next time leave stick in eye and call 911. Not kidding
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I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out
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Missed period is first. Breasts may be sore. May or may not get nausea (not always in morning).
Get a home pregnancy test if you want to, but going to a health clinic will give you a more accurate answer.If you are a teen prenatal care is very important, so see a doctor or go to a clinic asap.
Missed periods are not uncommon for teenagers. So, if you are a teen...wait a bit before panicking.
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There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female (link)
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Stop saying no. Go ask him what he thinks about all the gossip about you two. Good excuse to start a conversation.
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I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for along time and this year I can tell he is starting to like me a lot more then as just a friend. I like him as more then just a friend too and my BFF says she can tell that we like each other. I am afraid to bring it up and so it he, because we are afraid we might ruin our friendship. Could stay friends if we broke up? Should we take the plunge? Like this morning when me teacher was handing out scrach paper for the cst's She said we could use it for anything, drawings, doodels, notes, or even love leders. I saw him looking at me when she said this and I was looking at him too. I really don't know what to do!!! (link)
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Look at it like this. When you go to find a husband one of these days what are you looking for? A best friend! So, I think it is worth a shot. Can you remain friends? Sure you can. If you decide it doesn't work romantically, you talk about it and move on. BEFORE one or the other of you get's hurt. Be honest and talk a lot and things will work out either way you go.
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My bf of over six months is really sweet and kind and I love him so much and I know he feels the same for me. But he is just to nice and he doesn't notice that his friendliness is kinda flirty but it doesn't bother me because I am the same way. Though lately theres this one girl that likes him and she hits on him all the time and he doesn't notice it and it's really bothering me so what do I tell him becasue he dumped me before for not telling guys to get off me so what should I tell him. I will rate high! (link)
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Go ahead and tell him. He probably does notice it but is to nice to say anything. I would say something but, let him deal with it.
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i think i like my friend, but im not sure, and i think he might like me too. we live in different towns but we went to camp together. He has been much more social and like IMs me right away wehn i sign on. help! im 14 and female fyi! (link)
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I think I'd stay friends for now. You don't live close enough for a true relationship at the moment. Once the driving begins though the distance may not be as far. In the mean time stay friends.
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ok...my boyfriend is moving 13 miles away from me and he is going to be going to a different school and i trust him and love him with all my heart and life and all but im afraid that we are going to slowly stop talking then we are never going to see each other again. should i break up with him now and save both of us or just one of us the grief or should i stay with him and try real hard to keep intouch what should i do? (link)
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13 miles isn't all that far. I don't think it will be to hard to keep in touch. You could slowly stop communicating but, if you both put some effort in it...not impossible. The desicion is yours to make. You shouold talk to him about it and see what he thinks.
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ok well all i want to know is how do i get a guy to like me aor better yet how do i know when a guy likes me im tierd of beging alone and the worst part is the people im most attracted to are usually the ones who i'll have a very slim chance so help me please how do i know when he likes me and how do i know how to get them to likes me (link)
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If he pay's attention to you he likes you. Does he smile at you? Talk to you? etc.
Put yourself in his path and get a conversation going.
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ok well theres this kid that i like and what i hear is that he likes me too so what want to know is how do i shoew him i like him without spilling my heart out and well how to i keep the small talk i need examples (link)
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Find some common intrest to talk about. Music is a good one. School work, could ask him a question about an assignment or something. Any talk is good.
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hi well i just broke up with my ex about 2 going on 3 months and he quit school the day after we broke up well his bestfriend and him is saying that i am bisexual and i need to leave his sister alone b/c i dont need her or something like that. well my boyfriend now got told about it and now he dont know who to believe i never wrote a note about saying stuff like that what shhould i do i think he is trying to ruin my life at school he is physco and nuts well get back with thanks (link)
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Hopefully your new guy will realize that the old one is just making the whole thing up. He has to trust you.
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I can't work. Yes, you heard me.
School work. I have a hella load of it to do, and I just can't motivate myself to do it. I get out the paper and the pens and the work and I look at it, form the answers in my head, but then just can't seem to write it down.
I want to work. I need to work. But I can't seem to do it. Also, I'm stressed to hell.
Can I have some solutions for stress? But not "listen to relaxing music" and not "take a long hot bath" because music doesn't relax me, and I don't own a bath.
Also, please if you could give me some ways to motivate myself, in general, but to do school work mostly? Drinking water seems to help a little, but I need a lot of "get up and go" attitude right now. Merci. ^_^ (link)
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Take a deep breath, count to ten. Then get up and get your ass to work ! :)
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OK ive been on a diet for about 5 days and i have been really goo about eating no junk. I even lost 2 pounds when i went on the scale today...roblem is..im a typical overweight american : I love my junkfood..Its getting so0o hard to turn down the junk..im afraid im going to give in and ruin my diet. My weight has been fluctuating..i might be 2 lbs lighter, then maybe 1, then back to my beginning weight.
How can i keep my weight from fluctuating and how can i deal with my cravings for food?? please dont say just tough it out..because its way to hard. :/
Any other losing weight tips most appreciated...5's for helpful answers. (link)
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You can't keep your weight from fluctuating. A lot of it is water.
Cravings is a tough one. If you do make a mistake once in awhile it's not a big deal. Just don't give up because of it.
If you like yogurt eat about 3 of them a day. They keep ME from eating something else. They have a lot of flavors.
Throw some exercise in there, even if it's only walking. Take stairs instead of elevators. Play games that will keep you active..like yard games.
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i got my period last month on the 9th .. i am 17 years old and dont have a set schedule yet for my period...i have had it for 3 years now yet dont have a regular schedule..anyhow, i got it last month on the 9th ..it is now the 13 and i still havent gotten it for this month...does this mean i missed it or should i give it another week or so until i start panicking? i am sexually active and there is a possibiltiy i could be pregnant, but do you think i should start worrying NOW or not yet? thank you so much in advance, ive been driving myself crazy here. (link)
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If you are not regular anyway I wouldn't panic yet.
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So I started my spring track season pumped and ready to go in the beginning of March...then my hip started hurting me when i ran so i went to the doctor and she told me i had a growth plate problem and i would have to sit out for 4 weeks then get 7-10 days of physical therapy and i looked at the schedule and i was heartbroken but i was only gonna miss 7 meets and be back in time for one of my favorite meets for freshmen and sophomores only...well i finished my 4 weeks rest and today the physical therapy perscription came in the mail saying 2 to 3 times a week for 3 to 4 weeks....which means i would miss the entire rest of the season....i told my mom i wasnt gonna do it and shes like fine go run and i want to because my hip doesnt bother me anymore but i dont know if my coach will let me run without a doctors note saying i can...i spent an hour crying over this...sports are my life and i can't imagine not doing track, ive been to the meets ive missed to watch and i almost cried because i miss it too much..what do i do now? (link)
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Did the doctor say you couldn't run while doing the PT? You might call doctors office and ask. Also check and see if you need a note so you can ask for one of them too.
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i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do? (link)
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You should tell her you like him and you'd like it if she didn't flirt with him around you.
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ok... I've been having some family issues lately... like my dad & I are not gettting along, & I cannot stand my step-dad, I can barley even look @ him cos hes the reason my parents split... and my dad has 2 otehr daughers, Erin: 26 & Stacy: 32, and I'm 14, and I want to live with my mom... but I can't hurt my dad like my sisters did, they moved in with there mom, & I don't wanna hurt my dad... & then I can't stand my step-dad... I wish for my mom to divorece him... but I feel like such a bad person... & I think I am a bad person for feeling this way & I feel really bad... and I don't know what to do... and another thing thats holding me back is that my grandmother on my dad's side is 80 & shes the person who raised me... and I'm not shure if I can leave them... & my parents live only a city or 2 away from eachother, so its not that far, & same with my grandmother...
but just what should I do...? (link)
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Well, for starters I don't think it's fair to put the entire blame for your parents break up on your step dad. You might not like him but, he's not the only one to blame.
Kid's and parent's go through spells of not getting along. I know it doesn't help but it usually passes. I think you should stick it out a little longer where you are. Try to accept your extended family members with an open mind, and do your best to get along. It will make it so much easier for you.
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Hi. I'm 15, I weigh 120 pounds, I'm 5'4, and I do have to admit that the pounds are fat not muscle. But I wouldn't say I'm HUGE just chubby. Well my family are all very thin. My 17 yr. old sister is 110 pds, my 13 yr old sister is 100 pounds, my mom weighed 103 pounds when she was married at age 25! (the only reason she weighs more than me today is because she had kids), and my dad weighs...well he's a stick for a guy. I get my looks from my Aunt and Grandpa. I just recently joined a gym to help turn the fat to muscle more, to tone myself. But the problem lies in the family. They always call me fat. Like my sisters, if they get upset with me, they hurl the insult "your fat" at me. My parents both call me fat also. I don't think they mean any harm of it, but it really hurts. Every time someone says something I retreat to my room and cry. They don't know how much it hurts because I really do think I'm FAT. Finally today I just broke down crying and told them how I felt about them always calling me fat and my mom said I was just trying to get pity. What can I say to make them realise this really hurts my feelings when they all say this! The only persons who apologized for calling me fat is my little sister. I have 0 self esteem and I think this plays a small part in this. (link)
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You don't sound fat to me. I don't know if you will get them to leave you alone or not.It's hard to do but just ignore them. You are still growing and it your weight will change. Also, keep your weight to yourself, you don't have to know what each other weights. I think maybe everyone needs to find something else to occupy their time don't you?
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i convinced my cousin to introduce me to some of her friends, and she did lol. so..we met on the phone and my cousin got jealous and told me not to ever meet them in person. we went behind her back, tho, and met at the mall and had an awesome time. but my cousin found out, and shes jealous and mean and thinks that im a backstabber..shes so controlling and protective over her friends. what should i do? oh, and my cousin hates me now (link)
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I guess she shouldn't have made it necessary for you to go behind her back. She's the one with the problem not you. You continue being friends with anyone you like. The cousin needs to grow up.
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i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!! (link)
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It would be really nice if your dad told him it was ok for him to talk to you wouldn't it?
Sounds like you need to talk to both of them. BJ is currently available so thats a plus for him. You do need to let Austin know that he can talk to you again. He probably don't want to get into trouble with your dad so, I doubt he will approach you.
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