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i convinced my cousin to introduce me to some of her friends, and she did lol. so..we met on the phone and my cousin got jealous and told me not to ever meet them in person. we went behind her back, tho, and met at the mall and had an awesome time. but my cousin found out, and shes jealous and mean and thinks that im a backstabber..shes so controlling and protective over her friends. what should i do? oh, and my cousin hates me now
Nerdy_Chihuahua answered Friday April 15 2005, 3:45 pm: Tell your cousin that it's not her life and you can hang out with whoever you want. She shouldn't be that protective, because they are only her friends. If she has feelings for the guy, then that's her fault that she didn't make a move earlier. Just tell her to back off. [ Nerdy_Chihuahua's advice column | Ask Nerdy_Chihuahua A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday April 14 2005, 7:02 pm: I guess she shouldn't have made it necessary for you to go behind her back. She's the one with the problem not you. You continue being friends with anyone you like. The cousin needs to grow up. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
shake answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 5:25 pm: If your cousin hates you. Why try to make her like you again? Its useless that you cousin is stupid, and jealous that you're friends with hers. Screw your cousin. Shes one friend. Those people she hates you for now are "friend(s)". See its plural. Meaning many. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 3:10 pm: Leave her to it! if she cant accept that your friends with her friends, then shes just been silly. Next time you see her ask her why shes been like this, ask her if she just wants her friends to her self.
LostAngel answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 2:34 pm: I am not sure what to say, but it sounds like she doesn't want you to meet them because then it will feel like that they are inorging her to see you and such. Try explaining to her that your not trying take her friends away from her you just want to meet new people, try suggesting her to meet a few of your friend so your both even?
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 2:31 pm: you should say yur sorry and try to find out why she's so jealous. it seems to me that those are like hur best friends and she think that you gonna take them from hur. you might also wanna xplain why you did and try ta calm her down. i hope i helped [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
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