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ok...my boyfriend is moving 13 miles away from me and he is going to be going to a different school and i trust him and love him with all my heart and life and all but im afraid that we are going to slowly stop talking then we are never going to see each other again. should i break up with him now and save both of us or just one of us the grief or should i stay with him and try real hard to keep intouch what should i do?
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13 miles is not that much... you guys could work out together very week by walkking the 13 miles, I'd do it if he was worth it!!
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Thats not far away at all. You can still talk to him on the phone and online all the time. Go places with him everyday. If he loves you then you got nothing to worry about. x0
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if i were you i would stay with him my friends boyfriend goes to collage in flordia and we live in t.x. so 13 miles isnt that bad but that is what i would do
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This can work.. see each other every weekend..im sure your schools will play each other in sports..so meet each other at the games and watch them together...if you can drive soon this makes it a lot easier..so dont give up hopes..this can work out! if not..its ok...it wasnt meant to be..but i wouldnt break up with him yet..give this a try..13 minutes is not a big deal...
the first person i felt deeply about moved to south carolina (im in ny) so immagine how that felt ;/
Just try it out..and if you know deep down it isnt working..just stay friends..friends with benefits..there are options out there
-melissa-
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1st, how close are you? if you guys are really close, give it a shot and see if it works out. If you really trust him, why are you so worried?
Have you talked to him about this??
If not, Altough you may want to be with him, it gets really hard after a while...trying to stay in touch and seeing eachother...youll start thinking over the relationship and wonder what you should do. in my opinion, i say break up with him. you or he will be doing it in a month anyway.
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I htink that you should let him go. I think that deep in your heart you know that things arent gonna work out between you two, so why make it longer. If this guy is totally worth it, then you can still give it a shot. But be aware, he's going to a new school, gonna meet new ...girls...and you may end up getting your heart broken. Just do whatever feels right with you (but consider my advice).
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13 miles may seem like a long way... but it really isn't that far! you could still see him every weekend if you both wanted to, i think this is something you should ask your boyfriend! if you decide to talk on the phone and internet thats fine but make sure you actually meet up with him!! don't leave it after too long either or i'm afraid to say you will drift apart!! i've had a long distance (further than 13 miles) and it worked out fine!! it is possible!! i think your best choice is to talk to your boyfriend about this and see what he wants, after all if he don't feel the same way it will be a waste of time, keeping together (you can still be friends but it probably won't work out if your just friends)!! Good Luck!
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Wow. Thirteen whole miles?! Come on. I live over twenty miles from ANYONE that I know. Thirteen miles isn't bad.
I'm also homeschooled, so I don't see any of my friends every day anyway.
Stay with your boyfriend. "i trust him and love him with all my heart and life..." well, if you did trust him and love him, you'd stay with him. If you're afraid that you're going to stop talking and seeing each other, you need to look at your love. It's not like you'll never see or talk to him again. Obviously you have the Internet, so you could talk to him online. You more than likely have a phone if you have Internet, so you could talk on the phone. You have hands, so you could write him a letter. One of you (or your parents) must have a car, so you could get together and hang out. Go to a movie or something.
Try "real hard" to stay in touch with him. Actually, you should try "really hard" to stay in touch with him. You'll regret it if you break up with him if you truly love him. Tell him that you love and trust him, that you don't want to lose him, and even though you'll be going to different schools, you want to stay with him. Write him E-mails, use AIM or YIM or MSN, write him letters and send them in the mail. Invite him to hang out and watch movies or something.
Stay with him!
-FunnyCide
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13 miles? that's like a 10 minute drive, stick with him.
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13 miles isn't all that far. I don't think it will be to hard to keep in touch. You could slowly stop communicating but, if you both put some effort in it...not impossible. The desicion is yours to make. You shouold talk to him about it and see what he thinks.
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domnt break up because youll never know if you could have made it.
hope i helped!
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