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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
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Youo are okay. Don't worry about it. They get a slow start sometimes and aren't real regular. It will start soon. :)
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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
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Don't forget her, just find someone else to hang around with when she ditches you. Who knows you may find a new friend who you have even more in common with. Being a little jealous is normal. :)
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My bestfriend(15) , this guy(15), and I(14) all go to that same church. Now my bestfriend and this guy are going out and their parents dont know about itand are completely against them being friends. There hole relation ship is based on rebelion and she realizes it but says she doesnt care at least not right now. He has hurt her a couple of times and she still refuses to see it. She won't listen to any of her friends including me. What the heck am i supposed to do, just sit back and watch??? (link)
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You could tell her mom. That would put an end to it if you feel that strongly about it.
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I like this girl and we used to go out.
we had something really special before but some shit happened and the relationship went sour.
She had a b/f when we were dating. She doesn't have the some feeling for me anymore but i still like her. I think she borke up with her b/f now and going out with other guy.
I really like her but i don't think i should still thinking about her.
Anyone knows how can i forget about a girl who i like a lot??? (link)
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The only way to get over one is to get another. You sure the shit that happened isn't repairable?
If not, then you just need to find yourself a new girl. :)
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Ok, I've been seeing this guy for almost 4 years (I know, quite a long time!) I met him at uni and now I am in my final year at uni and he is working miles away. We have never been apart like this before as we were always together at uni.
I have mixed feelings about how much longer I want the relationship to go on for. Whenever we speak on the phone he says something stupid or puts me in a bad mood and makes me unhappy.
I feel I want some time to be young free and single especially as I have been witht the same guy for such a long time. Surely these signs mean it won't last??
Also, I went for dinner with some friends of my flatmate and I met this guy who I found really attractive.
I would never ever cheat on my boyfriend but why am I thinking of this other guy all the time when I should be thinking about my boyfriend?
We all went out last night to a club and he was there. He walked me home. Nothing happened but it was so nice to have some attention from someone else and for some reason he made me feel more wanted than my boyfriend does.
Help!! I am so frustrated I don't know what to do! Even if anything did happen, this guy goes back to Australia at the end of May.
Thank you so much if u do reply - i really appreciate it and will give you all 5's! x (link)
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Have these feelings been there for awhile or just since your guy left the uni? Could be you simply miss him being around. See if you can get some time together before you make a big decision,you do have 4 years invested.
If after spending a weekend or something together, you feel the same, call it quits.Just be sure it isn't that you miss having him around first because once you break up, you may not be able to go back. :)
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my friend and i where always good friends but lately when i started to seem to like a guy she starts to like them to. like a few days ago i started to like a guy but then asked her if she liked him she said yeah. i dont want to sound mean but if i get to like someone and he meets her she wont notice but shell steal him. and th other day shes says ill leave him 4 u but then a week later she said i think ill ask him out. what can i do to make myself happier and not end our friend ship. 13/f (link)
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Don't tell her when you like someone. Keep it to yourself. :)
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Well this is what happens:
[PLEASE READ RATE 5 ***** BIT LONG LOL]
Me and my mates say to our mate Hannah, your voice sounds like a mans voice, we say it in a kind of nice way, jokey if you get what i mean. Then the head of year comes intoday to our form room while in PSE and calls my name out and a group of my friends the 5 of us including the head of year go down to the inclussion zone, where the bad kids go and miss there lunch/break etc. We went in and she accsorted us to sit down they have a desk and a chair then a blue screening where you stick posters/displays on, then another desk and chair and a screen its like that so you have no comunication with any1. She called us in to a little room 1 by 1 and asked us about the name calling thing. I went in and told her that we were joking about and stuff but ovboiusly she took it seriously.. i felt so let down by one of my OWN friends. Also this other girl called grace ive apparently been "bullying" just by saying, "look at your selfs before you critizize others," becuase she and her mate elli were taking the piss out of my chubby mate sal calling her fat and ugly n stuff. So that is 2 reports in the last 24 hours so it got put on my system "BULLY" hannah was ment to be my friend but dobbed me in our group joke. im not sure weather to be her friend after this? I mean if i be or get reported again then it gets even seriouser, and i could do this by ignoring her, touching her, giving her dirt looks like evils and stuff. But im pissed off with her so of course im going to do that and grace and elli do it to me so im not gonna let them so i stick up for myself.. but then i get told off badly again. So yeah my so called friend dobbed me in our joke.. should i trust her again?
SORRY ITS LONG RATE 5 *****
xx lush meh xx (link)
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I don't think I would. :)
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well my eyes keep stinging latly around them.. there not red but they string like crazy and it makes me want to itch them more why is this and how can i stop the sting.. its like i been crying for ages .... and my eyes are stinging and also they keep feeling as if like an eyelash is in them and you just rub it and rub it till it goes away and when you open your eye it waters and hurts and feels as if something is in there, please help ima go put some water on them now xxx lush me please help (link)
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Sounds like you may have some allergies. It is certainly that time of year. Go to a doctor or try some OTC benedryl allergy medicine. See if that doesn't help. A doctor is the only way to know for sure though. :)
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I am a tennis player and i play everyday except friday(sometimes) and I am on my school tennis team.. but my shoulder has been killing me!.. If I hit hard it pops.. and when I put my hand on it and move it I can feel my bones rubbing together!.. what is it?.. Is it serious?.. Are there anythings that may help the pain? (link)
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Sound's like you could have some tendonitis in your shoulder. Tell your doctor and see if he/she can't tell you how to remedy it. It can get painful after awhile so take some ibuprophen or other anti inflammatory type pain reliever. :)
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Lately at night I've been having this weird problem. Like all of a sudden my chest hurts like in the middle and it gets harder to breath. It feels like I can't take a deep breath. Then I get this weird whistling noise in my nose when I exhale. Sometimes this happens for a little bit during the day too. It isn't really that bad but it's pretty annoying. At home I can usually try not to panic until it goes away because I feel more comfortable. The problem is Wednesday-Friday my grade is going to Washington DC. I'm not sure what I should do if I start feeling bad or begin to panic. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Could be you have asthma. Go to a doctor and check it out. Could also be an anxiety attack. Both need attention by a doctor, and are easily fixed right up. :)
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are you seriosly a grandma?? do you think you can help me because im going through a lot of family problems and maybe someone older than i thats had a lot more experience can help :\...please answer! (link)
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Yes I am a grandma (see my column!) be glad to help if I can.
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my friend says she is always excluded but thats not true and its really annoying when i go to ride my bike with some friends and she gets upset cuz we did not invite her well she lives to far away and does not know how to ride a bike this is a really bothering me what should i do to make her see she is never excluded??? (link)
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Tell her to learn to ride a bike. Teach her maybe. She is sorta being excluded. But, you really can't help it if she lives very far away. :)
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okay theres this girl named alex.. she's the "popular miss" at my school...all of the guys like her...all of the girls like her. shes so incredibly mean she has gone after every single one of my ex and even current boyfriends...we used to be best friends...way back when..she was nice...i feel locked down like i have to be her friend and i'm afraid to tell her how i feel....she's not the kind to really take bull shit from other people..she's slapped me across the face before and i'm 100% sure she wont hesitate to do it again...she's pretty much a bitch...me and my friend brooke used to be pretty close with a girl named kaylen(kk) ..the other night kk had a party..she invited alex .. for some reason alex thought she needed more attention than what she was getting i mean you should have seen what she wore..she looked ridiculous tanktop tight jeans thong hangin out and high heals yea you get the picture .. so anyways her and kaylen started makin out.. now there good friends and kaylen cuts herself. i don't like what she does to herslef and my friends but i just can't get myself to stick up for them .. i'm not that kinda person.. but nobody else will say anything what should i do
please please help me
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I'm really not sure what it is you want. I do that Alex is bad news and as long as you all treat her like a princess she will continue to act like one. Start telling her like it is and knock her down a few pegs.
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I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
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Then refuse to be. You can't be a referee all the time. If the one friend can't at least try to get along with the others and vice versa then pick who you want to hang with. My bet is that the possessive one will come to her senses as soon as she finds out you mean business. Talk to them as a grouop or seperatley but tell them all you've had enough. :)
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Okay, my boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago but when we started going back out again. The deal was that I had to give him time to do things he loves to do like basketball. I know I said I would give him the time but I want his time too, ya know? I thought he only meant like a couple hours after school 3 or 4 days a week but it's been every day, every week for at least 5 hours. I never get to talk to him anymore. We don't live close together either. We live 30 minutes away so when my parents are willing to take me over there, we used to both jump at the offer. He rarely gets a ride to my house because his family is in a tight financial situation. The only day that I ever get to see him is on Sunday for sure. Sometimes I see him on Saturday but not a lot. I love him sooo much but I'm just not sure if he has the time for me or if he still loves me?? I want him to be happy and have time to himself but I mean, I want him to spend time with me too since I never really get to see him. All I want is an hour or two every once in a while. Is that really too much to ask? Does he still have enough time for me and does he still love me?
I'm 14 and he's 15... (link)
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No it's not to much to ask...but he's 15. 15 doesn't always equal someone who has mature relationships. You'll either have to put up with it quietly or find a new guy who isn't into sports. sorry. :)
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ok this girl that i like ive heard she said that im clingy.. well im not really sure what she means. and im not sure what to do about it. so my question is what can i do not to be clingy and still have her like interested in me and what you think clingy means, like try to explain it?! thanks soo much! (link)
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Clingy : too dependent on the company or emotional support of other people.
Sticking to closely to the body.
I guess don't do those things. When she wonders why you won't hug her...tell her it's to "clingy". :)
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im 15 and i still have an A cup... all my friends have like huge boobs and i have no idea how to make mine any bigger!! how can i?! (link)
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I'm afraid in the boob department we just get what we get! No way to make them bigger unless you get a boob job. Look at it this way...one day the ones with all the boobs will struggle with keeping them out of their armpits. You won't have to! @@ ;)
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I don't really have a specific question I just need some advice on what to do because I have no idea.
Background Info:
Jon and I have known each other and been best friends since we were 4. Our fathers own a law firm together so we're together a lot, obviously. I've only had one real relationship. I've had many boyfriends but only one serious one. Same with him. We're both 17.
Early Jan.:
My parents threw a big block party which Jon and I both attended. I wasn't feeling well that night so we left the street (were the party was) and went to my backyard and just hung out. Everything was going fine until he told me that he wanted us to try to be more than "just friends". I was completely blown away because it came out of no where. At the time, I didn't see him in that way so I let him down. It was weird between us for a while but eventually, things got back to normal. Around early Feb. he met a girl who he claims is "absolutely amazing" and they started dating. I was fine with it.
Now, my real problem:
About a month ago I started to realize that I want to be more than friends and that I do like him. But, he now has a girlfriend in the picture, so there's a problem. I'm not the type to break up a happy couple so I tried to forget about it. But, I couldn't. A friend told me to talk to him about it (she though he still might feel the same way). So, I did and it went horrible. I don't think I've ever known a guy that ever reacted the way he did. All he said was, "I asked you before and you said no. Now you're too F*king late. I like Lauren a lot...you should have F*king said something sooner I can't F*king believe you" and then just stormed off.
That happened 4 days ago and I haven't had the nerve to talk to him since. I don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks
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I would let him cool off. You probably should have waited until he became available before you said anything but, oh well! He probably still has some feeling for you lingering in the background, but he must also have feelings for the girlfriend. I'm afraid you will just have to wait and see what happens next. He'll probably talk to you again once he thinks it over a bit. :)
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How do *you* flirt with guys.. i want everyones ways hehe
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I never was a flirt. I joked around with guy's and talked about cars. They didn't seem to mind :)
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is there anyway i can get a guy to know that i like him without being obnoxiously flirty? im really shy so flirting isnt really an option for me. i rate high! i dont want to just come out and say that i do like him because he could just be like "i dont like you that way" and i couldnt handle something like that (link)
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No, I don't think you have to be very flirty at all. Just be you, or it will come off sounding silly. Nothing wrong with waiting for the guy to ask you out either...worked for years! You just be friendly and sooner or later someone will ask you out. :)
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