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non-flirt
is there anyway i can get a guy to know that i like him without being obnoxiously flirty? im really shy so flirting isnt really an option for me. i rate high! i dont want to just come out and say that i do like him because he could just be like "i dont like you that way" and i couldnt handle something like that
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Look him in the eye then smile at him. He'll know ur interested.
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Well lemme tell you this.. tell someone that is a loud mouth "blabber mouth" type a person and they would eventualy tell the guy that u like then he would know but wouldn't mind it.. it worked for me..
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No, I don't think you have to be very flirty at all. Just be you, or it will come off sounding silly. Nothing wrong with waiting for the guy to ask you out either...worked for years! You just be friendly and sooner or later someone will ask you out. :)
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I'm shy too, so I understand what you're going through. Well, flirting in a subtle way is easy. Just talk to him, laugh at his jokes... things like that. Ask what he's interested in. Talk about stuff you already know he's interested in. Then go on from there.
About the whole not handling rejection thing, everyone is gonna be rejected sometimes. Sometimes you get lucky and someone feels the same way you do. Sometimes you get rejected. You're gonna go through pain before you find your true love. Everyone goes through it. I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask!
*Manders*
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Well my best advice to you could make it or break it: tell a friend that nows him you like him and see if she can find anything about (if he likes you, if he has a g/f, etc., etc.) I know its pretty stupid but it just might work. and for the if he doesnt like you part I would just move on cause chances are its never gonna happen if he doesnt want it to. -Kelly :)
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come out and say it. guys hate it when a girl dilly dallys around the subject.
-hitler
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ask them things
about:
sports
games
cars
school
family
pets
be interested in them, and what they have to say, and be nice, and dont like come onto them, they hate that, most GOOD guys dont want a girl thats easy, we like to call them sluts, and i am sure that you dont want to be one of thoes. so anyways, i have a tun of guy friends, try to just be their friend first, and a lot of times, thats better than being their girlfriend. also, try to not only be friends with the guy, but his friends as well. and also, get their screen name, and talk to them online, its easier to express true feelings for most!
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:)
Kelsa
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umm boy this ones always hard... its hard to come out with it because your afriad of being rejected.. (thats alright everyone is) anyways.. sometimes thats the best way.. sometimes having your friends kinda hint it could be the worst.. but sometimes its really the best.. maybe since flirting isnt your thing.. try to get closer to him... make it so you dont end up being gooood friends.. and thats it.. you have to hint the tinyest bit that you might like him and than be nice.. that should hook him on you and hopefully he'll like you... if that doesnt work.. maybe go with the friend approach.. that might seem dumb but sometimes its the only way to do things..! sorry its not that good but hope i helped
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yo,if you want to date him but dont want to be embarresed ask a friend to ask him if he is intrested
-good luck!!!:)
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Well, you can have a friend ask him if he likes you or have a friend tell him that you like him. Flirt with him in moderations, like hint to him that you like him. I have never heard of an obnoxious flirt. Lol, but anyways good luck!
-Brianna
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