ok this girl that i like ive heard she said that im clingy.. well im not really sure what she means. and im not sure what to do about it. so my question is what can i do not to be clingy and still have her like interested in me and what you think clingy means, like try to explain it?! thanks soo much!
How to not be clingy? Be aware that a relationship is about two people, and if one of the people is not interested in merging completely into a couple, the other one needs to respect that.
Now, there's nothing wrong with you being you. Sometimes people are clingy if they feel a bit insecure, or if they're just over-eager to let someone know they like them. Unfortuneately, being clingy can be seen a a big turn-off - so the more time you spend with this person, the less she likes you.
Back off. Think carefully about if you want to find someone who will accept you for who you are, or if you want to change your behaviours for this girl.
Poppsie answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 1:52 pm: This girl just means that she thinks you are around her all the time and she might just need some space, just dont spend as much time with her and she wont call you clingy, but i bet she will tell everyone you dont spend as much time with her if you. All you need to do is not always be with her all the time. Hope this helped you. [ Poppsie's advice column | Ask Poppsie A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 12:28 am: Clingy : too dependent on the company or emotional support of other people.
sunshine805 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 12:11 am: Don't be clingy by not needing to be around people (or that girl) all the time. Girls don't like guyz that are clingy. It's just annoying. Try talking to her and see how she feels about you. "Clingy" to me is always needed to be with someone or not wanting to let go when it's time to let go.
Hope I helped!
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not_your_star34 answered Monday April 18 2005, 8:06 pm: When this girl says "clingy," she probably means that you hang around her too much. To not be clingy, just don't talk to her as much and give her a bit of space. Hope I helped! If you want anymore help, just ask!
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Shay answered Monday April 18 2005, 7:18 pm: Well, it means that you are like around her too much or that you get too close to her. You should just give her more personal space, but still say hi and talk to her a lot. U can ask me anything anytime. Please rate!
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LoveNJstyle answered Monday April 18 2005, 6:39 pm: well clingy could mean that you hug or just hang around them and they need some space. i have a friend who is clingy and in her case she cant stop hugging ppl and as cute as that sounds, it get so annoying! SO just keep your space and dont make it obvious that you NEED them every breathing second of the day. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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