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This boy admitted to liking me a while ago and I have recently told him I think we should just be friends. He wanted to go out with me during the summer. He doesn't listen and I think I need to run it by him again in different words...will this do?...."I need to talk to you, about this summer, I have to be honest, I don't think we should go out because I like you but not in that way and I don't think it will work out. You deserve someone who can return your affections for them. I just want to be fair with you. I'm sorry, but I want to be upfront." What do you think? and also, if u have anymore advice feel free to share the love. (link)
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Sounds perfect. :)
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I want this guy to like me but I dont want him to know that I like him I kinda want to play hard to get I have gone out with him several times. So I wanna make him fall 4 me so bad what should I do?
~Urs truley~
Delila (link)
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You shouldn't play hard to get for one thing. That can backfire and you don't want that to happen! If you like him be up front about it and let him know. :)
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Hello, Im havin some guy problems see i started datin this guy named jason* and we lasted for about 3 months but we never talked to much around each other, and i moved so we broke up but then i came back and i still had a lot of feeling for him and we talk a lot now.i wanna get back together with him and he knows i still like him but doesn't do anything. i don't think he wants to date again because he knows before it was kinda werid when we were together but now we now one another better and aren't bashful around eachother. but i dunno what to do cause i really LOVE him but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it i mean he flirts and stuff but thats it. like he wants to to come over and do stuff but he doesn't seem to wanna date and hes not the type of guy to do that...so i dont know how i can get him back or if i should move on?
Sign confused girl from tennesse* (link)
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Just ask him. Maybe he's afraid you'd say no or something. Give it a try and see what happens. :)
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ok so i like this guy but the thing is everytime we get kinda close he asks some one else out! Err annoying and today i brought my best friend ty. A cookie and he comes up from behind me and holds my hands down and kisses my neck a couple or times and sometimes he hugs me,plays with my hair
out of no where he kinda annoys me sometimes. But i mean all my guy friends all like do u like him ..and i always say no because they don't like him but i really like him wat should i do !?? Please help i rate 5's if its good ,and i don't want people being dumb about it i just want your opinion. (link)
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It sounds like he likes you already. Just have to get him to ask you out. You could ask him before he asks someone else. Star talking about a movie your dying to see or something while he's around. Maybe he will volunteer to go with you! :)
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for english i have to gather information on adolf eichmann (involving the holocaust) and make a 5 minute presentation in front of the class with it. Its not the nervousness im worried about, its the fact that i cant bring cards or a speech up to read from..i have to know the information enough to talk to the class about it ..for five minutes! thats a long time. we can use the aid of a visual, but my teacher doesnt want us to just stick pictures on posterboard..she wants us to be more creative. Any ideas on what i can do? (link)
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Can you write the information UNDER the pictures, or maybe some sort of reminder to keep you going? That may help. :)
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I was at a party last night with a bunch of friends. We all had our cars parked in front of the house the party was at and the actual party took place inside the house and in the backyard. Well, when the party was over, everyone went outside and found all the cars keyed, wrapped, and egged. There were some notes on some cars that said "Spoiled bitches got what they deserved" We had no idea who did it or what the notes meant until school today. A girl came up to us and was like "how do y'all like your cars now?" This is a girl that we do not get along with at all. So, we believe it's her. Oh and by the way, we've never done anything mean to her or her friends. I told my dad that we think we know who did it (he's a Lawyer) but he said that unless we have some kind of proof, there's nothing he can do legally. Is there anything we can try? (link)
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I'm afraid dad is right. What she (and probably her friends) did is just wrong. I think I'd be letting it known around school who did it. Make her look pretty low. Other than that just leave her alone...you don't want to give her an excuse to do it again. You guys need to carry a disposable camera around with you in case you come upon them messing with your cars again. :)
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I really like this guy who lives near me, hes 14/m and im 13/f. Everyone tells me that he likes me but I dont believe them. Everytime he see's me he gives me a hug. And in school, between classes, he trys to hold my hand. I really want to ask him out. Should I? How do i know if he really does like me? (link)
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I think he's being pretty obvious!! Hold his hand, talk to him, hug him back. Sure, ask him out if you want to. I'm pretty sure he'll say yes. :)
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Can eating a lot of yogurt make you fat?? Just wondering because I gained a lot of weight recently and I've been trying to figure out why. (link)
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It shouldn't. I eat 3 a day on my diet and I've been losing a lot. Are you eating low or non fat yogurt?
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There is one girl I like a lot. Everyone talks about me liking her around her and amongst themselves. However, she shows no interest in me and talks a lot with another guy that I don't like. Is there any possible way that I can get her to like me? (link)
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Sure there is. Talk to her. Be nice, be yourself, try to make her laugh...just let her get to know you. :)
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I have to give a speech in fron of the whole class next week, and I'm absolutely terrified. I am really bad at speeches. I start shaking and I can't read my notcards. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get over my fear? (link)
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Looks like you have a lot of good advice here already! I don't have much to add to it. I recommend the looking over their heads thing. Thats what I did. I only have one thing to say about looking at your friends. If they are the serious type great. But, If they are goofs that will try and make you laugh...don't look at them.
They will get you going too! :)
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i just started a new job a couple days ago, and i've come to believe that one of my co-workers doesn't like me very much.
why i think that is because on my second day, i came up to her to ask her a question to see if our store carried baby books for a customer that was looking for one. my co-worker just rudely glared at me for long while, and looked away without answering my question.
as you can imagine, i was pretty pissed off because i hadn't familiarized myself with the merchandise and the customer was waiting on me to give her a response. and my co-worker, who was working in infants, didn't even bother to put any effort into helping this customer!
not only that, she ignores me every time i'm around and she complained to the same customer i was dealing with: "she doesn't know anything, she hasn't even been working here long."
what i want to know is what i should do about this situation? obviously i don't want to confront her about it with the risk of increased hostility between us. and i'm not sure if it's appropriate to talk to my other co-workers about it...should i just wait it out and toughen up and hopefully she won't be so "bitchy"?
-zero tolerance (link)
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I've been a manager before and she wouldn't be working for me long! Go to the store manager. Explain to her what happened. Tell the manager up front that you aren't trying to get anyone in trouble, you just want his/her suggestions on how to deal with this in the future. That way it doesn't really look like you are complaining so much as looking for their advice. The one thing that I would be particularly sure to point out is the remark she made to the customer. That is really unnecessary and unprofessonal. I sure hope the other employees aren't as rude! I wouldn't say a thing to her either. My guess is she won't last long. It also takes a while to familiarize yourself with a stores inventory, so don't worry about that. You'll have it down in no time. Another hint I might give you is try to see the manager during a time when maybe the other girl isn't around. Maybe go in early or stay late to talk. Good luck in your new job! :)
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thanks you are one of the first people to say that to me. most are just like"seduce him or make him cheat on you" and i domnt want that i just want him back. What do you think would be the best approach? (link)
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I'm sorry but I can't figure out which original question was yours. We need something on here to help identify! But, I will do my best.
If you broke up at one time then first thing is fix whatever was wrong. Make sure it doesn't come up again. If you have trouoble figuring out how to do that drop me another note and jog my memory okay? I answer a lot of questions! I'm really not being rude.
After that, you have to put yourself in situations where you have contact with him. Talk and joke with him and just be yourself. If he doesn't take the hint, then talk to him about how you want to try it again and see if he is willing to give it another try.
Once you get back together, be sure you communicate a lot. Be truthful and if something is bothering you discuss it, don't let it build up.
I hope there is something helpful in there for you. If not, just drop me another note. Anytime.
Good luck with your guy! :)
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How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is. (link)
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If he isn't putting the moves on you then he probably isn't ready. Either that or he just respects you a lot...which is a good thing! :)
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Ok my bf and I had sex and I missed my peroid for like two weeks. And this is really nasty and srry but need help. I had this nasty yellow/white stuff coming out of me and it looked like it had an egg in it. But right after that I got my peroid. Did I have a miss carriage. I sound really stupid but I really don't have anyone to ask. Well now we broke up and I just wanted to know. Thanks (link)
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Miscarriages are bloody, so no I don't think you had one. Discharges aren't uncommon so I wouldn't worry about it unless it happens all the time. You're okay. :)
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This morning, I woke up and I noticed there was a tiny white dot/ball on my upper eyelid. It kind of hurts when I move my eye. Does anyone know what it is and how it got there? How do I get rid of it? (link)
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It is probably a sty. It will go away, probably after a day. They are irritating but nothing major to worry about. :)
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help!! okay i dont know what to do, for about three weeks now my hair has been falling out in like little clumps and when i wash it or brush it so much hair falls out, i dont know what to do because about half my hair is already gone! its not really noticable that its been falling out though cause my hair was really think to begin with. i eat more than the required enough amount of protien so i was wondering what could be causing this?? could it be my medicene...amitriptyline? please help i will rate 5s for anyone who can help me! (link)
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It isn't listed as a side effect but that doesn't mean much. It still could be the cause. Check with your doctor. You need to find out why for sure one way or the other. If it is the med your doctor can put you on another. :)
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my bff lives in a diff. coournty and resentlly her soo called friends over there were talking crap bout her and were being really REALLY snotty to her! Well i emailed them both and told them off with my friend here (she is also that girl's bff). Well i think that it got them into even a more fight and they h8 her even more now we apologized but now they are being really REALLY horrible to us!! What should we do????
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All of you need to ignore the snotty people. If they know they are bothering you, they will just do it more. They are not worth the effort it takes to give them attention. :)
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I'm not going to prom b/c i have an AP physics final test two days later and i don't want to get distracted. But, my friends are mad at me b/c they are seniors and its our last year to go to a dance as a big group-their being mean "subtley"-like they'll slip in some mean things-wat do i do? and how do i not feel so miserable? (link)
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Whats making you miserable their remarks or not going to prom? If it's just the remarks then ignore them. It is just a dance.
If its not going to the dance then I agree with hitler, just go for a few hours and then get home and study the next day. No big deal. Don't get left out if its something you really want to do because there won't be another one. You'll all be gone your seperate ways next year. :)
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Okay, me and my best friend have been friends for about 5 years. She has always helped me with my dating problems and I hvae always helped her with hers. But somethings scaring me. See, my boyfreind and my freind use to go to school together. They wern't good friends but they didnt hate each other. He was the kind of guy that EVERY girl wanted. But now I'm dating him. They have just recently became like really really really close. I don't mind them talking, but he talks to her more then he talks to me! And everytime I confront one of them about it, they just say their talking about me which I don't believe one bit. Sometimes when I get on AIM and my friend and my boyfriend are on and my boyfriends not talking to me, I'll IM my friend and ask if shes talking to him and she always says YES! And when I call either her or him, they sometimes tell me that they just got of the phone with eachother and they talked for hours! I don't know what to do anymore, and I want to know how to stop it without hurting one of them. I need your help! (link)
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I think you need to talk to both of them. They may just be friends but it does seem a little excessive. I think the boyfriend needs to decide which of you he wants. You are the one he should be talking to more. The girlfriend needs to back off and leave you two alone. :)
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My brother died 2 weeks ago and I really don't know what to do. I lived with him because my mom died 3 years ago and my dad used to beat and rape me. He was more like a father than a brother to me and I really don't know what to do. I've been staying with my friend until I get a foster family and she is always asking me if I'm ok and I'm really not. I don't know what to do with myself. I even tried drugs and I've been drinking a lot. I just want to kill myself and I'm so scared of what's going to happen next. I love him soo much and he was pretty much all that I had and now he's gone. I haven't even cried because I just can't, does that mean that there's something wrong with me? Why can't I just cry like normal people do when something happens to them? I really think that I'm a horrible because I can't even cry for my own brother. Please help me (link)
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You aren't horrible, people handle grief differently. Stay away from the drugs and alcohol, they will only make your problems worse. Once things settle down in your life you will probably cry like crazy. :)
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