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prom


Question Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 9:31 pm

17/f
I'm not going to prom b/c i have an AP physics final test two days later and i don't want to get distracted. But, my friends are mad at me b/c they are seniors and its our last year to go to a dance as a big group-their being mean "subtley"-like they'll slip in some mean things-wat do i do? and how do i not feel so miserable?


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sugarmeltsinrain answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 7:54 pm:
do what you want. I don't know..your a junior i take it..? so you always have next year to go to prom. Don't let your friends get you down. Maybe you should throw a party and invite all your senior friends so you can all "hang out for one last time" or whatever. That should be fun and make up for missing prom. Besides, you probably wouldn't spend alot of time with them personaly anways because of all the people there. If you just hang out at your house or something, you can really spend time with them. It'll be fine. Don't worry about it.

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karenR answered Monday May 2 2005, 2:55 pm:
Whats making you miserable their remarks or not going to prom? If it's just the remarks then ignore them. It is just a dance.

If its not going to the dance then I agree with hitler, just go for a few hours and then get home and study the next day. No big deal. Don't get left out if its something you really want to do because there won't be another one. You'll all be gone your seperate ways next year. :)

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lilangelshan08 answered Monday May 2 2005, 2:26 pm:
if they are being bitches to you because you're picking schoolwork over some dance then they aren't good friends at all, i didn't go to my senior prom either and i'm glad that i didn't because i heard that it sucked majorly. schoolworks more important i say, stick withthe homework

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toocuteforme answered Sunday May 1 2005, 4:52 pm:
u should tell them off grab a cute guy and go to prom have some fun in ur life i mean its prom u should go and stop worring about grades goo luck luv me

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sdog1205 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 4:41 pm:
I think you should go to prom. It will be really fun and you will probably have a great time with your friends. If you have a finaly two days later then you will still have time to prepare and study for it one night of fun isn't going to hurt you. However if you really feel strongly about not going then just talk to your friends. Explain to them why you're not going and tell them that you've noticed that they have been being mean and that it has been making you miserable. They should stop if they realize that they are really hurting you.

Good luck and I hope things get better between you and your friends

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xo_underneath answered Sunday May 1 2005, 3:32 pm:
I think you should go. It's your last year at school & you shouldn't miss out. You can study for the test after you get home from it and the days before it. =)

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sExYcHiCkS101 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 2:09 pm:
i think since your friends are mad at you and it is your last chance to go to prom. even tho you have a physics final you should go for a little bit but not the whole time so you wont get to distracted and you can still study. hope that helps! gOoD lUcK!

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thinkpink03 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 12:56 pm:
PROM? omigawd!! personally i think you should go! I mean, you only have prom once in a lifetime! If you are really into getting a good grade on the test, then make sure you buckle down and get down to work when prom is over!! You want to get a good grade...but you are missing out on alot of fun!!!

p.s. whatever you want to do is fine. Its your life and your desicions!
Love, *thinkpink03*

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sarah0308 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 1:35 am:
i honesly think you should go to prom! i mean come on, your test is 2 DAYS LATER! omg study the days before you go to prom, study the day after prom! i mean this is your VERY LAST prom EVER! loosen up and live a little! im sure you will do fine on the test!
~*Sarah*~

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hitler_the_goat answered Sunday May 1 2005, 12:34 am:
its two days later: go to prom and have a good time, but leave early so you can get some shuteye and study the next day.
-hitler

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sadf16 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 12:31 am:
Ask yourself. Which do you prefer? Going to the prom or having good grades in the test? But if you have already studied and you're sure that you understood most of it already then why not go there? But if you have not yet understood much then maybe you shouldn't go if the time is lacking for you to study.

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askforanswersfromAndie answered Saturday April 30 2005, 11:27 pm:
ok i am only 13 but i think if you really don't want to go don't but if it was my last year i would and if not just don't worry about it and i know there you frieds but if they get MAAD at you for not going to a dance what kind of friends are they? and if you don't like that i know they will get over it. hope i helped.
Andie

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shelbyiswonderful answered Saturday April 30 2005, 11:08 pm:
loosen up girl!! its your senior prom and you're worried about physics..live a little. you only live once. why not have the time of your LIFE!
<33 Shelby

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