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14/f...hey there .. umm im in love with this kid and we've gone out in the past and everything and i thought he really loved me.. then he jus broke up with me.. its been a while and were like BEST friends and i still love him a whole lot and i think he still loves me but wont admit it.. how can i find out if he still loves me or if we're
"jUsT FrIeNdS"

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we think you should ask one of his friend that you TrUsT! see if they know any thing about it! or see if they can talk to him for you!!! because it wont make your friend ship with him become weird,if you just randomly say something about it to him!lol so good luck!!!!!


Okay so you see, there is this really hott guy that goes to a different school and i kinda like him and all my friends say i should tell him but then again im to scared to be rejected. Should I tell him or just move on?

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we think you should tell him! because even if you get rejected, you know you tried!! i mean, you will never ever know if he likes you back if you dont tell him, then you could end up being really mad if you dont and totally regret it later on!! so good luck! and write back to tell us what happens!!!


iight i`m in 8th grade...my ex-boyfriend went out with this girl before we went out for like 3 years and they were like totally unbreakable .(and this is a kidd that not a pimp) so they broke up and they both decided to just got separate ways he liked me and she got a bf to ...so me and him started goin out and everything was PERFECT he was the like perfect boyfreind he was like obsesed with me ..then one day she decided that she couldnt live wid out wid ne more so she dump her bf..and then he broke up with me..and they started to go back out now there like in love again.. but i no deeeep down inside we`ll always have something for each other should i try to move on or keep goin??
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we think that you should move on bc i mean if they went out for 3 years and they are going out again. well they could go out for 3 more years or the might break up fast so you never know. so go with what you want. hOpE tHaT hElPs! gOoD lUcK!


last time you gave me an advice for the party, thankyou soooo much, you are such a good adviser!!! i'm going to the party but my bff and i are doing a party of our own the next day at the mall!!!thanks!!! (link)
ur welcome!! lol! glad to help!!


one of my best friends wasnt invited to a party of one of HER supposed best friends, but i was invited!!!i really want to go, but i'll feel bad because she's not going to be there!!!please help me! (link)
this 1 is a hard one, because you friend didnt get invited, and you want to go! So ask the person who is haveing the party, why she didnt invite your friend, and make sure she giveds a good reason! But if shes a realllllly good friend you sould stay home from the party with her. Like if lesley didnt get invited to a party that i got invited to, i'd totally stay w/ lesley. its what friends should do.i hope this helps! write back if it doesnt! good luck!!


Okay, Im in 6th grade and I got to SFMS! Anyways so my ex and I have been off and on forever and now he just broke up with me. I still like adore him but I want to see if he still likes me. What can I do? Also, When we were going out we like never did anything (go to the movies,talked on the phone,etc.) How can I get him to do that if we end up going out?
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okay, you need to talk to ur ex's friends, see what they say, or what he told them! Or tell someone you trust you still like him, and ask him/her to ask him if he still likes you, without saying you told him to ask him! And if ya'll end up getting back together again, yOu try calling HiM, or bring up the subject of going 2 the movies with some other friends and stuff. be like, omg i really want to see this movie, we should go! see if that helps! GoOd LuCk!


I have this "FrIeNd" which everyone really doesnt like even the 6th graders! and shes really mean to me and says stuff behing my back, I really dont want to be friends with her anymore but i dont know how to tell her because she thikns im like her bestfreind but im not sure why because she must think that I like dont care if she says stuff about me behind my back. What should I do?!
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hey! okay well if she says stuff about you behind your back to other people, and is really mean. you need to do something about it!! try talking to her and be like, im not stupid stuff gets around and i know what you say about me. or just tell her that ur getting really mad and tired of all of her lieing and stuff. and be like if you wanted to be bestfiriends with me, why would you say all this stuff about me? hope this helps! good luck!


hi, i'm 13/f

im having trouble w/ my "best friend"
shes getting on my nerves and a lot of people hate her, should i tell her??should i still be her friend? (link)
we think that you should tell her just to keep things good with you too. like if i am mad at my besfriend i tell her ((lol aly!!)) and if aly gets mad at me she tells me and then we work it out. so that is what i think that you should do with your friend tell her what she is doing and that you are mad! i hope that works!!! gOoD lUcK!!!


Hey! i am thirteen and go to SFMS! cool right? but anyways, lol, i really like my ex. he is cool and awesome and always sweet to me. ive already told him i like him! and he has told me he likes me. i really want him to ask me out, but i was thinking , should i ask him out!! should i ask him out or wait for him to ask me out? (link)
If you know he likes you a lot, and you are sure he will then just wait. but if you like him A LOT, you should just go ahead and ask him! 89% of guys want YOU to make the 1st move. lol so just go with your gut feeling! good luck!!


hi. im a girl that goes to mms.i have this friend who thinks i like her bf and i don't! he's nice and all but i don't like him @ all. i like someone else. she keeps accusing me of liking her bf and she doesn't beleive me when i say i don't. what can i do to make her beleive me?? (link)
ok this has happened 2 me before! I know your friend will accuse you of likeing him, but you really need 2 talk 2 her stright out and tell her you DONT like him, and you and him are really good friends, and that he would agree with what you say about being just friends. Tell her thats the TRUTH, and that you wouldnt lie 2 her. If she keeps saying you like him write back! good luck!!


im 13 and i go 2 sbms and i have a gf who i like but im still crazy in love 4 my ex gf and i want her back so much but im afraid if i break up w/ my gf my ex mite not take me back and then i will lose both of them.....wat should i do??? (link)
okay, if you still have feelings for your ex, you really need to consider breaking up with your girlfriend. Because even is you ex doesnt take you back, its totally not fair 2 your girlfriend, because your still crazy about ur ex. but you might want 2 ask around, see who your ex likes and stuff. but we just think its not fair to your girlfriend! write back and tell us what happens! good luck!!!!


omg my best friends boyfriend is so annoying! he is completely obsessed w/ her! hes so rude and hes a liar and hes such a show off! he's so fake but i am the only one who sees what he really is like! how do i get rid of this jerk?? (link)
you need 2 tell him that hes all of this, and you also need 2 tell you friend to! point out to her what he does, and tell her how mean he is to other poeple!! hopefully this will help! good luck!!!


okay... i am going out with this guy and a girl at my school ((mms)) likes him a LOT!!! and i know she does and she wont ever admit it!! she flirts w/ him sooooooo much and she has him all over her buddy profile like in funny convos. and stuff. idk what 2 do and she is driving me CRAZY!!!! what do i do???? (link)
you just REALLY need 2 talk to her! see whats up, if she likes him, and tell her you really need to know, and you dont care if she likes him, so that she will tell you. also talk to your boyfriend ask him if ne thing is going on b-tween them. try 2 point out to them (with out being rude) that they have a lot of funy conovs, or inside jokes ect. but DONT accuse them of likeing eachother untill you know the turth! GoOd LuCk!!!


alright im 13 and i go 2 sbms and i have a gf who i like but theres my ex who im still in love w/ but i have no idea wat 2 do cuz im crazy 4 my ex but i have another gf and im afraid if i break up w/ my gf mayb my ex wont take me back and then ill lose both of them wat do i do???? (link)
okay, if you still have feelings for your ex, you really need to consider breaking up with your girlfriend. Because even is you ex doesnt take you back, its totally not fair 2 your girlfriend, because your still crazy about ur ex. but you might want 2 ask around, see who your ex likes and stuff. but we just think its not fair to your girlfriend! write back and tell us what happens! good luck!!!!


hey... im 13 and i go 2 mms. i have a bf and he always talks 2 my bestfriend all the time!!!! on the phone, online and they talk a lot!!! and somtimes it makes me kinda mad. i mean wouldnt he rather b talkin 2 me?? ugh idk what 2 do!!! HELP!!! I NEED ADVICE!!!!!!! (link)
okay i've been in this exact same situation. except i was the other girl. lol okay u really need 2 talk 2 your friend! see if she likes him! or ask her y they talk so much. then talk 2 you boyfriend see whats up. but DONT accuse them of likeing eachother, because you would be totally wrong! and then they could just get mad at you. just talk 2 both of them, see what they say. see how that works,and if not write back! hope it works!! good luck!!


i used to like this guy but he told ppl he doesn tlike me but he flirts with me alll the time and my friends say he lkes me!!but now i think hes gross and he STILl flirts with me and cals me!! hwta do i do???


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ok so you dont like him any more, well we think 1st of all you should talk to him about it! see what he says. if you really dont want to, you need to talk to his friends, to see if he likes you for sure! if he does, and he still flirts and stuff, and if it REALLY bothers you, you should ignore him, if you can! or just try not to talk to him as much. like say your on the other line and stuff when he calls. but we still think you should just go to him and talk to him about it, you'll find out then and there and then you'll know for sure whats up. GoOd LuCk!! if it doesnt work write back and tell us what happens!


the guy i that i like likes my best friend!!! this is not fair! what should i do? (link)
we dont think that you should tell him or anything unless you are 99% sure that he likes you too bc if he doesnt and you tell him then it could ruin your friendship so ask around and see who he likes!! hope that works for you!! if it doesnt write back!! gOoD lUcK!!


Why do girls insist on guys keeping promises? (link)
we only tell guys we know wont tell, we dont insist guys keeping our promises...


i go to landrum middle school, and my almost best friend says she DOESNT like this guy. its kinda obious that she does cause she talks to him on the phone, and they talk all during the classes they have together. sometimes they even write notes. but the BIG problem, is that he has a girlfriend. it seems like my almost best friend talks to him more than his own girlfriend does. i know that this is not really my buisness, but sometimes when i call her, shes on the phone with him. its really annoying. if there is anything to do what is it?????
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we think that you should try talking to the girl and tell her what could happen like if her boyfriend finds out then he might break up with her or something. and if she doesnt say anything or like doesnt pay attention i think that you should try talking to her boyfriend. i hope that workds out for you!! and if i doesnt write back and tell us what happenes!!! gOoD lUcK!!!


hey im in 7th grade and im 13. i have a boyfriend but he lives like 30 minutes away and i dont see him that much. our families are friends so i see him sometimes in the holidays... we talk on the phone a lot and talk online. but now we havent really talked that much anymore and i havent seen him that much. idk what to do!!! help me!!!!!!

signed - what should i do??? (link)
hey, okay. well since you dont see him a lot and dont talk to him a lot you really need to think, is this worth it? do i really like him? if u totally like him, then mayb you should try 2 make it work, call him more often, talk 2 him online, try 2 get 2gether over the weekends ect. but if not you might want 2 reallly consider u and him takeing a break, but still being really good friends! GoOd LuCk!!!!!!!!




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