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i have a friend. she has had a hard time lately and she has made bad decisions. she told me everything she has done. now she says that she feels like im judging her becouse of what she said. so she doesnt want to tell me stuff and i think she is a suicide risk and if i tell someone now i will never know if it comes up again becouse im the only person she has told but if she wont talk to me becouse she thinks im judging her i wont know anyways. but she did tell me she was goin to do it the other day so i talked her out of it. but i dont know if im sopposed to tell someone now or try to talk her out of it everytime. i rate for GOOD answers (link)
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You tell someone right away. You cannot be held responsible for what your friend does or does not do. If she does kill herself you will have to live with that the rest of your life...not something you want to do. Tell her mom and make sure she takes you seriously. Tell her everything! Yes, your friend will be really pissed but, she will be alive to thank you for it later. Pass this problem on to an adult, you are to young for that kind of responsibility.
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i have these HUGE addiction to coffee and diet coke. it'd be ok if i wasn't 14! i think i'm not growing as much because of it, but i need the morning shot to make me awake. i need to be taller but i also need my drinks! help? (link)
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I don't think you have to stop drinking them completely. Maybe just drink something else in between. I'm not a good one to be telling you not to drink diet coke or regular because I live on it myself! Coffee I never got started on. I don't know that it keeps you from growing either but it isn't real good for you. Maybe just drink some coffee, then drink a glass of milk, then drink a coke, then drink some water....you get the idea? Just cut back some. :)
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hi i need to find pictures for homework like..pictures of a normal liver and a liver affeccted by alcohol, or a regular heart and an alcohol affected heart, or just any organs like that. my project is due tomrorow and i need some pics! thanks! (link)
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Ok here ya go. I hope this has what your looking for, I didn't check for photos of etoh affects specifically....gotta let you do some of the research!
go to this site (national library of medicine/ national Institute of health)
http://www.nlm.nih.gov
when you get there go to nlm web site search upper right side of page. Punch in heart pictures, or any other organ you desire. hit go.
when you get there go to exhibits on the left side of page and you will have lots of photos of diffrent hearts, lungs whatever you punched in. Good luck on your project! :)
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My BFF is moving at the end of our school year to Maine, and I feel really upset and sad. Currently, I've made her a scrap book, a video of memories, and I'm throwing her a going away party, but I feel like I'm never going to get over losing my BFF. Have you gone through this before? I'm not sure I can deal with it. (link)
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I did actually. I think everyone does sooner or later. Sounds like you made some nice things. Did you make copies for both of you?
When my friend moved away, it was before computers were a big deal. We had to write letters back and forth. While that was fun, it took a lot of time to do. We finally stopped and lost touch. :( But nowadays there are these great computers! You can write and instant message and even send pictures back and forth! So even if she's miles away you can still talk to her every day if you want to. Sure will make it a little easier.
By the way, even though it has been almost 35 years...I have recently found my old bff through the computer! It's great. Stay in touch and it will be ok. You will see each other again someday.You will be sad for awhile but it will get easier. :)
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okay i really think this kid is hott but i dont even know him...i see him in the halls alot but i smile and he smiles back but i want him to notice me what do i do???? should i wear something differnt put heavy makeup on? i know it seems really stubid because of a guy but i dont even know him!!! (link)
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I think I would just keep things the same. He knows you enough to smile. Add a hi to that and maybe you'll soon be talking. :)
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My Child is turning four years of age and I am afraid that she may be depressed but I am not sure what the sinse are can you give me some advise please (link)
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Take her to a pediatrician. The signs for depression in a 4 year old would not be the same as an adult necessarily. It could very well be something else wrong.
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My grandfather commited suicide in April of this year. And it seems I can't cope with it. I was suicidal for a while and i have been battleing depression. I just feel like I can't be emotional about it because I have to be strong for my family, especially my mother. and none of my friends understand. I guess where I'm needing advice is I was wondering how i can bring the topic up with my best friend where she will listen to me and let me vent instead of turning it around about herself. and is that even the best way to cope with the problem i am having with not being open with it? or should I just continue what I am doing and try my hardest to stay strong? (link)
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Thats what friends are for. To lean on in bad times and laugh with in good. I think she is being pretty selfish if she won't let you talk it out with her. I think you need to tell her that you want to discuss your grandpa and you would really like it if she would listen without changing the subject.
Your family can also be of great help. Don't feel that you can't discuss it with mom. Maybe you'd be helping her as well. You don't have to be real strong in this situation. Everyone is grieving. So, I think you need to talk with mom too. Sorry about your grandpa, let yourself grieve for him. :)
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I like this guy that I have only known for about a month. He is my best friend's best guy friend. I know thats confusing. But anyways, he happens to be one of the SWEETEST guys and hottest I have ever met. We talk online everyday and talk on the phone sometimes. We even hang out with friends on weekends at times. I feel that I know him pretty well. He even considers me a friend of his now. He thinks I'm hot, but when asked if he likes me, he said he thinks I'm pretty but he doesn't know me well enough. I feel that we know each other pretty darn well! I really want to tell my feelings for him, but I know it will ruin everything because we are in the early stages of friendship. I really don't know what to do. HELP!!!
~ Hopelessly In Love With Him ~ (link)
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Don't rush it. If it is meant to be it will be. He doesn't feel he knows you well enough yet so, just talk and talk until he does! Good luck :)
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Im having real trouble with this girl. We both love eachother but there is a problem of being 450 miles away from eachother! I'm almost out of high school and shes still got one more year. we dont know how we're gonna work with that. i want to be with her more than anything but i dont know what to do. please give me some help....I'm really lost on the matter. (link)
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What are your plans after high school? Are you going to college? Will that put you further away or closer to where she is? Are you getting a job? Save money and make a move. That is a pretty drastic step so be sure of your feelings. I know none of it helped much, just suggestions to condiser. Good luck! :)
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how do i get over a person i really really love ? (link)
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The surest way is to find another guy to take your mind off the first. You hang out with your friends and family more and just keep yourself busy. It will take some time but you will get over it eventually. :)
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Okay, about a month ago, me and my boyfreind did some stuff together. (more then kissing) I told him not to tell ANYONE because i really didn't wanted a bad reputation. I knew i made a mistake by doing this with him, but it was too late. Well just today, i found out that he told one of his freinds aaron and one of his freinds jimmy. Jimmy told me that him and aaron wernt the only ones who knew and that my boyfreind told alot of people! So when I confronted my boyfreind about all this, he denied it and said he didnt tell anyone that they were just rumors. I told him that even if they were rumors, they were still true and someone had to know about it. So i broke up with him and told him it was for my reputation and i didnt want people to think i was a big slut. He went off on me telling me i was wrong for doing this. Is breaking up with him a good or bad thing to do. Remember, this is what people will think about me for a while. I need help! (link)
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This is a tuff one. They could be rumors I suppose, but thats a little coincidental. The only way they could have details is if he were bragging, and most likely thats what happened. I do think you have every right to be angry about it. He broke a promise with you and that isn't good at all.Choosing to forgive him or not will be your decisiion, if you do decide to get back with him...Stick to just kissing until he is mature enough to keep his trap shut. :)
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There's this guy, and he said he was going to ask me to the dinner dance(like prom for 8th graders), but he thought I was too good for him, and I told him that I really wasn't, and that I would love to go with him, and then said that if he didn't want to it was fine, and now I'm confused. Did I say something wrong? and was he just saying that because he knew I wanted to be asked?
-Confused in Cali (link)
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I don't know. Go ask him...are we going to the dinner dance together or not? I think he was confusing enough for you to ask to be certain. I don't think you said anything wrong. Maybe leave the if you don't want to thats fine off next time. But that isn't saying something wrong. Go ask him for sure. :)
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I've liked this guy for over a year now, and he's had mutiple girlfriends. I'm really shy and haven't asked him out yet, nor plan on ever asking him out. He knows I like him, but prefers to reacll to us as "just friends" I don't know what to do. (link)
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If he just wants to be friends then I'm afraid that is all it will be. I think you need to start looking at some other guys and find one who will like you in return. :)
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It feels like me and my friend are getting farther apart... we are in 10th grade and we met when we were in 4th... we became like best friends in like around 8th... idk... she has been hanging out with diff ppl... her boyfriends friends and these older ppl... they smoke and drink and such... she wanted me to hang with her and them but i'm not like that... i use to drink and i have tried smoking but its w/e... her mom let's her go out with them and such... im scared one day something is going to happen... like she will get hurt and i didn't do anything to help her... like all if em or most of em drive and i'm scared that she will get into a car accident and i didn't tell her anything... she told me for her boyfriends b-day present she was going to give him her virginity... she asked me and i told her idk cause im waiting till i get married and such... but i just need to knw what to do... honest please... none of that "just talk to her crap"... no offense but i've heard of that and tried but i have gotten no luck... i love her to death but idk what to do...
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If these friends she hangs with are big party people and drink and drive all the time, then I guess you could tell her mom about it. Better her be mad at you then dead. Could be her mom doesn't know the kind of things she up to. :)
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I think I have too many extra-curricular activities, and it's ruining my fun and my life. I might be overreacting a little, bit it feels that way to me.
Every single week, I have two clubs that meet on the same day, so I have to alternate and try to fix whatever I land on to make sense more. Just now was the final blow- My unimportant dress rehearsal for West Side Story where I have a semi-main part (not in every scene) is on the same day as our class field trip to Six Flags, and my mom is making me stay home to go to my rehearsal! I'm really upset and my parents are yelling at me to get out of my "stupid funk" but I just feel worse and worse because it feels like all my friends are going to have an awesome time except for me, who is going to be sitting at home and going to a stupid play rehearsal! I even tried talking to the director, but she said it was mandatory that I attend and if I don't there will be serious issues with the play running. I don't know if it's selfish to want to skip the rehearsal after what she said, but I feel so horrible about not going on our class trip. What do I do, and is there anything that will make me feel any better? (link)
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Tie up whatever obligations you have to all these activities. Then pick the ones that you dearly love. Do those and quit the rest. They may all be fun but, you do need time to just do nothing too. :)
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Whats wrong with me? I always fantasize to be with a certain guy that i kno. Or sometimes ill cry becasue I know i cant have him. He is poor and spanish pluss hes ghetto and he stayed back twice for getting into a lot of fights. That not my type at all. but theirs so,ething about him. Hes funny and makes me laugh all the time. Out going and hes hot. Tons of guys are funny outgoing and hot but i dont know what it is about him. I dont know about him though i would never go out with him. i guess its just a little crush. I cant see him my mom doesnt want me to go to my grandmothers house and he lives across from her. I never reall ytalk to him he doesnt have aim and i dont know his number. what is it about him?
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oh, the love a rebel thing still exists! He is good looking and a bad boy, every young girls dream guy! They just seem like they would be so protective don't they?! They usually don't stay out of trouble and/or jail long enough in reality though. I really don't thikn I would persue a meaningful relationship with him. You would just be hurt badly in the end. Stay friends but look elsewhere for a relationship. Good luck...and there is always the fantasy (nothing wrong with that!). :)
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I am a 15 year old dating an almost 16 year old. Ive heard the term once you've loved someone you'll always love them. and its not the guy Im dating now. With the guy Im dating now I dont really feel comfortable with him like I act differently around him and I try my hardest to be myself. It doesnt even seem like were dating because this is how it was before we started dating. I dont feel a connection with him. Should I wait for a month and if I not feel anything break it off? HELP! (link)
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Sounds like a plan to me! You don't even have to give it a month if you don't want to. Sometimes the magic just isn't there. I don't think you'll always "love" the guys you've dated. You might have some feelings for them but I wouldn't call it love. :)
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My friend is pregnant and she's only 13. She's freaking out a lot..and she wants me to help her. What should i do ? i dont wanna end up killing someone else's baby! (link)
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I think you can help her by encouraging her to tell her mom. Being 13 she needs plenty of prenatal care. Don't let her do something stupid. If she don't tell her soon then you do it. :)
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okay, well i like this guy hes my neighbor and he just broke up with is girlfriend like a week ago and ifound out that he likes my friend. but she doesnt like him back. he talkes to me sometimes like on the bus mostly and i know he likes me because my friends boyfriend that is his friend saw that in my friends phone i love ryan who is the guy i like and he told him so idk what to do if i should stop liking him because i really like him i have for a couple of years no please help i rate high* (link)
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No matter what happens you can still like him. I think you should start talking to him whenever you can. Invite him over to play a game or something. Put yourself right there where he sees you a lot, hopefully he will take the hint. If he doesn't then just ask him out. Good luck! :)
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I think that I'm in love with my friend. It sucks really bad because he's all popular at his school and I'm not really all that popular. I have liked him since 6th grade. I try to tell myself that he is just a boy and that life will go on but then....I see him at my neighbor's house. It kinda ticks me off b/c in the sixth and seventh grade he was a geek and now that people started to like him he thinks he's all that. I have known that this guy was great all along and NOW girls are starting to notice what I noticed almost 4 years ago. I hate it and it is making me depressed b/c I know I will never be good enough for him. Is there anything I can do to get my mind off of him? Thank-you! I RATE HIGH!! 15/f (link)
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I think you should go after the guy. He might say no but he could also just as easily say yes! Why not at least try before giving up all together? If you'd rather just forget it, then try going out with someone else to get your mind focused on someone besides him.
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