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Friends Fading
It feels like me and my friend are getting farther apart... we are in 10th grade and we met when we were in 4th... we became like best friends in like around 8th... idk... she has been hanging out with diff ppl... her boyfriends friends and these older ppl... they smoke and drink and such... she wanted me to hang with her and them but i'm not like that... i use to drink and i have tried smoking but its w/e... her mom let's her go out with them and such... im scared one day something is going to happen... like she will get hurt and i didn't do anything to help her... like all if em or most of em drive and i'm scared that she will get into a car accident and i didn't tell her anything... she told me for her boyfriends b-day present she was going to give him her virginity... she asked me and i told her idk cause im waiting till i get married and such... but i just need to knw what to do... honest please... none of that "just talk to her crap"... no offense but i've heard of that and tried but i have gotten no luck... i love her to death but idk what to do...
~Please help~
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if she wont listen to you i know its hard but you're going to have to tell an adult. its the mature thing to do and if you're really scared for her safety..its the only way to go. i hope i helped and i hope your friend makes wise choices.
michelle <3
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If these friends she hangs with are big party people and drink and drive all the time, then I guess you could tell her mom about it. Better her be mad at you then dead. Could be her mom doesn't know the kind of things she up to. :)
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well most of the time i say talk to her about your feelings and jsut let her kno how u feel cause thats really the only thing you do i know you don't want any of this crap but im serious thats the only thing you can do unless you just want to tell her straight up that you dont think its right for her to be hangin around but try not to sound like her mother though but yea talkin is really the best thing i know it's probably not the answer you want to here but thats the only i kno you can do.
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well talking resolves most problems. tell her straight up what your worried about and why. if she doesnt listen to you then there is nothing you can do. she is her own person and is going to do what she wants. but if you are really sincere and really just let every feeling have towrda her come out...i promise you..you will start to see changes. and be mean if you have to....be like if you do that then you knwo what maybe we just shouldnt be friends anymore...or say if our friendship is important to you then you wont do what your about to do...i know its sounds really hard but trust me...some people need drastic thing said to them in order for them to change their way of life.....let me know how it goes. ill even talk to her if you want!!! lol
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I know all the other people reading this are thinking this to. Talk to her again!!!!! Maybe you didn't talk to her right or somthing. Let out your feelings. Tell her that you're really worryed about her and that you know she's going to get hurt if she keeps doing this. Say u feel like you tow are getting farther apart. Tell her everything you told me.
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you need to talk to her!! i know you've tried.. but you have to try again.. let see what else you can do.. maybe tell her mom... her mom deserves to know what is goign on.. tell her that you are scared for her.. and you don't want anythign to happen.. if you can't get through to her maybe her mom can... maybe one time you should go with her so you can keep her safe from the drugs and all that.. then she won't get into a car with a drunk driver you could maybe get her away from it and call your mom to pick the both of you up... hope i helped
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