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SHe came back from a vacation with her family, and was happier than ever to see me. Her and I had our first kiss on a cruise together, and have been together, could it be true that she remembers everything that we have had. Dose she really care again, or should I be aware or something fishy, and think that she may be playing a game with me? (link)
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I think you should trust her. If her feelings had changed you would know it. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, right. Maybe she's just fonder now! Good luck :)
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Ok. Well I met this guy online about 7 months ago-We've been talking ever since the night we met. The thing is he lives in Tennesee and I live in Alabama. We met in a chatroom. I kinda like him and vice versa with him. I would go out with him but I would feel very stupid becuase I don't need an internet relationship. We could see eachother sometime because he travels with his family to auburn to watch their football games and I go with my father. I'm so confused and I have no earthly idea what to do.
Signed,
Internet Lover (link)
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I think it would be okay to be friends. Meet with dads present, never alone. You can't realistically have a relationship with someone so far away. Not a serious one anyway. Friendship is good, and you can always get together in the future if it is meant to be something more. For now though just remain friends. :)
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Okay well i got a my bf jacob a few days ago and i already have regrets about it. Its like, when i am talking to him, i like him but when im not, i dont like him. I kinda wish i would have never said yes. What do i do? wait a while then break up with him or like see what happens? (link)
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Sounds like you might not be ready for a boyfriend yet. If you have regrets then break up and wait until you are ready for the commitment it takes. :)
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well i have a few questions.
1. whats the "easiest" way to break up with someone? (i know its not "easy" but i barely talk to the guy anyway and thats why im breaking it off)
2. how long should i wait before going out with one of his friends? (we were together for 2 months...theyre not close and his friends last relationship ended a week into mine.)
thanks & let me know if u need more info. (link)
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As you said there is no "easy" way. If you aren't even talking I doubt it will break him up to badly. He isn't trying very hard to keep you.
Just tell him. Make sure he knows why...no communication is a good reason to break up.
I don't think you need to wait very long at all before going out with anyone else, regardless of who they are. If the break up came out of nowhere for you the answer may have been different. I think your current relationship has been over...just needs the proper burial!
If you want the next relationship to last...remember to communicate. It is very important in any relationship you have be it a friend OR boyfriend. Good luck :)
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do you realy think true love still exist?And do trust for guys do? (link)
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I agree with Dangernerd.
I've been married 30 yrs next week! True love is alive and well in the world.
I just want to add that you have to work at it everyday once you find it. This is not hard to do but I think some people tend to forget and take their partners for granted.
There are trustworthy guys out there. You can't find true love if you don't trust a guy. Do as Dangernerd suggested and see how they have treated others. If you have had a bad experience it will be tough for you to trust again, but there are some trustworthy souls out there. :)
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i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?
all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly. (link)
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First of all, keeping a relationship together and happy is a two way street. You BOTH have to work at it everyday if you want it to last.
In no particular order:
Always talk...about anything and everything. Communication is very important. You should feel able to tell her anything and vice versa.
Make each other feel important. Make each other feel special all the time.
Treat each other with respect and never take each other for granted.
Do things together as much as possible, but give each other the freedom to do things alone as well.
Trust each other. Jealousy is a waste of time and unnecessary if you trust in each other.
Even though your friends are important in your lives, make time to be alone. You should be each others BEST friends after all.
Do not discuss intimate moments together or secrets told to each other with others.
Flowers, candy, presents all have their place. They are no substitute for the rest though. Use now and again for a special touch but, they are no substitute for the other things on the list.
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How many smirnoff ices about would u have to drink to get drunk? (link)
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Depends on how big you are. The bigger the more it will take.
Are you used to drinking a lot? Will take more than if you are a novice drinker.
If you eat a meal first it will take more drinks.
It depends on a lot of factors. If you are planning on getting obliterated just remember to give someone your keys first (if you drive). And don't ride with someone else who has been drinking. Even if they don't appear drunk to you. Party safe. (sorry I am a mother, gotta do my duty!) Have a good time safely! :)
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I am currently 16, male, and have been told I don't understand love. Even if that is true, I KNOW I love this one girl. See, we know each other very well, but we dont live close together. She moved away last year. We know there is something there, but we are both scared. What should I do? Ask her out, or wait till I can get back to her? (link)
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If she lives close enough for you to be able to see her once a week or so then ask her out.
If she lives far enough away that seeing her is going to be a problem then you may have to wait.
You both will want to go to school dances and that sort of thing with dates. If it isn't possible for you to do that together then I don't think a long distance relationship is going to last. You can remain friends for the time being and pursue a more serious relationship when the situation gets easier. If its true love you will eventually get together. :)
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Alright. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and I'm having a little issue. Whenever we first started dating he cussed a whole lot, and to me cussing is kind of unattractive. Well, he stopped cussing for me. He just went to Arkansas for the weekend with his cousin and I called him today and he was cussing like crazy. I asked him how much he has been cussing and he said in a real sarcastic voice "I don't have an exact number." Earlier in the month I told him he acted sort of different around me and his friends. He sort of blows me off. He becomes very sarcastic and sort of rude, just like in his comment about cussing. What should I do? Am I right to be kind of upset about this? He knows how much I don't like him cussing... (link)
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If that is how other people he hangs out with talk then hes probably doing it out of habit.
The fact that hes making sarcastic remarks about it tells me that he thinks your not wanting him to cuss is silly to him. I don't think he will stop. If it is really a problem for you then I suggest you find someone else for a boyfriend. If you can live with it...then do it without doing a lot of nagging him about it. :)
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My brother's girlfriend is coming with my family and I to California for a week. She's 16 and will be sharing a room with me for 7 days. Im only 13 and me and her are kinda close but not that close. So how do I entertain a 16 yr old for a weeK? Like at night what do we talk about .. etc. I'll rate! (link)
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Don't worry about entertaining her. You will get along fine! She's older and will be worried about making sure you like her to. I think you will have lots of fun...just wait and see! :)
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are boobs really important to guys? should i be "showing some skin" to get boys to like me? girls are always talking about who they made out with at the last party..should i be doing stuff with guys to get more popular? (link)
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Yes for some reason guys really like boobs...go figure!
No, you shouldn't be showing more skin. Make sure they like you for yourself. Boobs are a bonus prize.
No, never "do things with guys" to be more popular. They like you or they don't. It's also very disrespectful to guys (or girls if a guy is doing it) if you are always talking about what you did with them. :)
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Me and my 3 best friends haven't really been getting along, we get into fights. My mom is sick of it and she doesn't want me to be friends with them! I don't know wat to do because they mean the world to me and I cant stop being their friends! She wants me to stop hanging out with them.My mom is acting like a bitch! What should I do?
-->GinA (link)
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Mom is just giving you her honest opinion. If you don't want to hear it don't tell her what is going on with you and your friends. :)
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I was over at my friends house and this dude started calling this girl. She didn't want to talk to him cause he was a crazy stalker. He called 16 times before my friend picked it up and said stop calling. This kid drives from the next county to my friends house to talk to this girl. The girl goes and hides while we try to cool the guy down. This kid goes all around my friends house looking for the girl and finds her in the bushes. He cusses her out and yells. All i did was make the girl leave and hold him off long enough to give them a head start. I then call the girl and her friend to tell them to call the cops if he follows them. Should I have done more. (link)
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You did what you could. I think next time maybe you could just call them yourself and tell them what is going on. But you did good :)
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One of my best friends is EXREMLEY rude to me, she bosses me around so much and she doesn't do it to anyone else. It makes me upset because I feel like she doesn't like me. On her profile she listed her friends and i'm not even on there and im supposed to be her best friend. Then the other night she had our 2 other best friends over and didn't even invite me. Shes acting really weird and shes always making rude away messages about me. I don't like it at all because she was never like this before. Please help me!
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Hayley...it's time to make new friends and forget about this one. Don't put up with her rude behavior, it will just make her even more rude. Tell her to get lost. :)
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My friend is going to be moving and I was planning for a couple of weeks to throw a going away party for her, and I informed her about it because I knew that in her busy schedule, I wanted to pick out a time that would work. Now I hear that her other friend, who is being really clingy, is also throwing a party for her. I've known her longer, and I know her better. I also know all of her friends better. I want to spend time with my friend and throw her this party that I was telling her all about, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings! Any suggestions? (link)
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Throw the party anyway! Everyone loves a party. Let the other friend have hers first so you can think of something really special to make yours different. Also, it will be remembered as the last party with all her friends. :)
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Would you be someone's friend still even though that person always went back on her word on things she say? Becuase I'm having that problem with my friend named J-lo, and I don't really want to be friends with J-lo anymore. because when I stop talking to her beacuse she goes back on her word with things, she always tries to talk to me agian and be my friend again then, tell every one who's her friend that i'm not her friend then everybody ends up asking me all these damn questions why I'm not J-lo's. And I'm sick of it, cause this kinda be happenin every 3 or 2 times a week. And I need advice what to do.
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Tell her you are friends no more. When everyone starts asking why tell them she's a freakin' liar and you don't need any liars as your friend. :)
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I have a friend and she is one of my best freinds and she is really nice when hanging around me but when she starts hanging out with one of these popular girls at school she starts calling people retards and idiots and gay. we hate this one girl at school and we talk about her because she gets on our nerves. after that, the next day right after she has talked about her she goes behind my back and hangs out with her how do i get to know if she goes behind my back and talks about me and just hangs around me because she wants to tell people what i say and stuff that i do???? (link)
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I think you fix this problem by just not hanging out with her anymore. When she asks why...tell her. She's not a real friend she jumps form group to group causing trouble. :)
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okay so this morning i found out a man that was always there for me and was with me growing up and used to watch me died .. he had cancer for a while and it took 80% of his body .. so i had something like r.i.p lenny (link)
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You're feeling pretty down and sensitive about it right now. I know it wasn't a nice thing to say but, she didn't know the situation. I really don't think she would have written if she had. Do you? I think you explain it to her...trust me she'll feel bad about having written it. :)
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My friend [no names] is constantly annoyed & mad over this one boy that she IS supposively in love with.. what should i do ? i almost tried everything. I took her parasailin today & that didn't even help .. (link)
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Tell her to go ask him out and get it over with. Tell her your tired of hearing about it.Let her know it is downright annoying! :)
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how would i get a guy to notice me? im 13! (link)
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well, you need to find something you have in common and then talk to him a lot about it and anything else that comes to mind. Smile, say Hi. Be nice. Just get out there and be where he is! Good luck...Also 13 year old boys are a little immature at times so if they don't notice you right away, give them some time! :)
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