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there is this tutor I work with in the tutoring lab in college. She's great and a wonderful person to be around with. She is about 27 and I am 22 and she is engaged, One thing I noticed about her is that she was very touchy feely. , like patting me on the back or shoulder.
My class ended a few months ago but I saw her around campus when I was going to meet up with a friend recently and chatted with her
now I find myself going out of my way to that location just so I can hopefully see her and talk to her again. Last week I went and sat there for about half an hour (I had nothing else to do though so I wasn't skipping anything) I just get this extremely good feeling when talking to her or seeing her.
I recently ran into this girl again. She was in the math lab, I went in and started chatting to her and she seemed happy to see me and happy to chat. I get this extremely good feeling whenever I see her or talk to her. I can't explain it. I think she clearly likes me too.
I can't stand the thought of not being with her I think she is the girl for me. Would it really be wrong if I tried to get her to break up with her fiancee and be with me instead? I have heard of people that have done this and done it successfully so it really wrong? Why can they do it but not me?
also, I need to make it clear because some people purposefully misrepresent. I am not a stranger to this girl! I've worked with her for about two years. I have her email and is friends with her on Facebook
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This person has made specific decisions in her life and it is disrespectful to not honor them. By this, I mean, yes, I think it is wrong to try to get with this person in this situation. If she changes her mind about her fiance, you'll likely be the first person to know, but the decision is up to her entirely.
Along with Razhie, I also remember your previous question(s). What you need to understand is her perspective. Would it be wrong to break her peace of mind and endanger her relationship for a chance to get with her? Yes, in my opinion, it would be wrong. I don't think you should.
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Well last night I was laying down on the couch and I started to feel something on me so I didn't think much about it and then I got very scared that it was an incubus trying to rape me, but I had a pair of basketball shorts on, THREE pairs of underwear, and a pad on can I be pregnant????? I am really scared I haven't started my period because I have only had one, and I AM VERY SCARED!!!!!!! (link)
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Yes, you are undoubtably pregnant with a demon child. Find the church in your town that has the most money, their credentials will be higher than others, and have them exorcize it.
Seriously though, no.
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So I have known this guy since we were thirteen. He's 22 and I'm 21 now. We've always had a thing for each other but we were never vocal about it. We spent new years together and ended up having a moment. He tried to kiss me, and as much as I wanted to I couldn't agree because he had a long distance girlfriend. A week later he was talking to my best friend explaining to her how much he liked me and how he wasn't sure if I liked him back and how he had broken up with his long distance girlfriend. So anyway. This past weekend we got together with a ton of friends and decided to go bowling. It was horrible because He and one of my other friends that he had never met before kept starring at each other and giving each other the "eyes". I felt like he was attracted to her and one of my other friends noticed it too. Later on that night when I got home he texted to see if I had made it home okay but I had forgotten to pay for my phone so I couldn't really do much. so later on in the day we ended up talking on the phone and I was teasing him about how he liked her in a playful way and he admitted it. He admitted that he liked her but he felt that there wasn't a chance with her and blah blah blah...I was acting as the supportive friend who wanted to help him out since she was my friend when deep down all I wanted to say was.....I thought you liked me? I've always known that he was a player and stuff but I never pictured him acting this way with one of my friends. And I never expected that it would hurt this much. He doesn't know because I keep acting like I support him and her and that I will help him get her attention...a part of me wants to confront him about everything, but then again I don't want it to seem like he hurt me and that I'm so butt hurt about the situation. I just don't know if I can handle seeing him and my friend together. And she's evil too because she had an idea that I might like him and she was being flirty. Idk what to do.
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He likes her. That doesn't mean he doesn't like you. People often like more than one person, so don't think of this as a rejection or that she's replacing what you wanted to be. Since you didn't kiss him, he probably thinks you aren't interested. If you told him how you felt, things may be different.
At the same time, you know he's a player. You two aren't in a relationship and you're already hurt because of his interest in someone else. In addition to this, you know that he tried to make a move on someone just recently while in a relationship when he tried to kiss you. Think about how much you hurt right now and ask yourself if there's a good chance pursuing this person will lead to feeling like this more later on. I think there is.
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K so basically been talking to this guy for a few months now and we've hung out a few times. Today he asked me to come over to just cuddle and watch a movie so I said sure. Everything was going well we cuddled and watched a movie and then started making out and that's when things went downhill. While he was making out with me he was touching me in spots I wasn't comfortable with him touching me so I asked if he could please just stop because I wasn't comfortable and he did for a little bit and then the kissing got a little more intense and he started the awkward touching so again I asked him to stop and jokingly said otherwise and he said otherwise what and I said I'll leave that's when he said k bye now he was laughing when he said this but I don't know why I just got up grabbed my stuff,said bye and ran out of his house I really don't know why I did that I knew he was joking but I just left it makes no sense I don't know why I did that I really like him. Anyways not even a second after I left he texted me saying seriously that was really rude what's wrong with you and I didn't know what to say so I said I thought he was serious anyways I really messed up he deleted me off bbm but I did call and apologize and we are talking again but it's like awkward I don't know how to make this better. I really like him and I've had horrible dates before where I've gone through instead of getting up and leaving but today I just left and it made no sense it was almost like I didn't know what I was doing. He thinks I didn't want to be there because of the way I ran out. (link)
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This is victim blaming.
You are infatuated with this person. You like him and I think that's clouding your judgment. Imagine that a friend told you they went over to a guy's house and the guy was touching her in a way that made her uncomfortable, then your friend told him to stop, then he started touching her in uncomfortable way again. What would you tell that friend?
Thinking of it this way may help you distance yourself from your feelings enough to show you that you are the victim here, not him. He is the one that knowingly made you uncomfortable, then tried to pass it off in a joking manner which is typical of someone who victimizes someone else. The discomfort you felt is entirely normal. No one has a right to make you feel uncomfortable in this way and this is exactly why you walked out. No one who respects you would do intentionally do something that would make you uncomfortable like this.
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I have a religious family. I'm Gay and My family knows but pretend it's not there. I'm 22 years old and the guy I date is 33years old. I want my family to meet him. But, I'm afraid that my family wouldn't want to have anything to deal with me anymore after I tell them that i'm gay and officially in a relationship with a guy. My grandparents are my pastors and i'm not sure what to do. I can't help that i'm gay it's not a choice. I have tried to change whom I am. Plenty of times and Nothing has changed. I haven't seen my family for about 2 close to 3 months now. I have a niece who is 4years old and is my world and my nephew is almost a year old and he is my world. I'm not sure who to turn too and who would be there for me when they disown me. I need HELP!!! PLEASE ANYONE!!! :/ I Can't do this. I just want them to love me no matter what. I love them so much and i'm not sure what to do. Please. I Have realized I want them to meet the person i'm in love with and who I really care about. advice please!:) (link)
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At a time such as this, it's easy to get depressed and forget the positive things. Like how you're a beautiful person in a relationship that's going so well you want to share it with your family. That's big.
As for advice, I would try to think of the most understanding person in your family. Go to them about being in a relationship and ask them to help you tell other family members. I think it may be easier this way. I would talk about the man you're seeing, build him up in your family members minds (the understandable ones, at least), before introducing him. People naturally have unconditional love for family members, so people in your family should accept you. You are right, however, to fear that they might not as there are those few exceptions where people are less inviting. Know that in this case, it's the family members that are in the wrong and need to change, not you.
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What does it mean if you bleed a lot everytime I poop (link)
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Most likely, it means you have a bleeding hemorrhoid. When you bleed while you poop, it can make a little blood seem like a lot as the blood expands through the toilet water, so hopefully you're bleeding less than you think. Hemorrhoids can be caused by any number of things, such as how much you strain while on the toilet, your diet, just about any minor detail concerning your bowel movements. This is what it most likely is, but there's the small chance that it's something else.
What you need to do is go to a clinic. They can give you a test to make sure that there is no blood in the actual stool (this kind of blood can't be seen by the naked eye). If there is, that would signify that there is something more serious further up your intestinal tract. This is largely precautionary as this is probably a minor issue, but it's still important to void out serious health problems.
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There this thing that have been bothering me for the past 5 years. You see, there's this person who I shall name O who was once was my 'friend', I say 'friend' because I'm not sure we were even friends.
Right now I'm in form 5 ( I think its equivalent to second last year of high school in the USA. ) student in Malaysia and this happen during form 1. O and I became friends when we were placed in the same class with someone from the same elementary school as us. She was extremely sarcastic and the only reason she put up with my freshman awkwardness because she hated the other person who is poor and knew about O immigrant background. She was tolerable with me through out the half year of school until sports month came.
Since I was competing an important match and needed moral support, I seek attention from her. The first time I went to her she was OK. The second day she gave me the silent treatment.
I was frustrated by her actions. I mean, why give me the silent treatment when I only seek comfort for only once from her? She didn't even tell me what I did wrongly to her.
What surprises me is that she gave me the Ghost treatment too. She acted that I was not there, she even dared to not pass a handout directly to me opting for putting at my claasmate seat. Heck, she never bother to talk,face, or interact with me during compulsory group work.
At first I though it was just a 13 year old phase and we'all become friends again. But it continued on for 5 years. I talked to her friends about that and they all told me that O has been gossiping and backstabbing me relentlessly, the reason? I was a fat ugly annoying whiny bitch who worth nothing in the world.
I admit I was annoying when I was 13 whatnot with entering puberty with my awkwardness. But I am 17 now, and I become more confident and yet she continues to give me both silent and ghost treatment. She even rolls her eyes and glared at me when I do something that garner the class attention.
I am still fat and ugly to this day but since this year will be our last year as high school students and taking our final examinations, I want to forget the past and renew our friendships. My friends say that I shouldn't start talking to her or even thinking about apologize.
Yet, I think im the at fault after all if it isn't for my whiny annoying personality in the past she wouldn't have do that. I am intimidated by her but I also respect her for being smart.
I heard somewhere that being treated like nobody or a ghost is the most cruelest hatred ever and I am the only person O treated with this kind of treatment.
I really want to reconcile with her, but I know she don't want to. With what her ego, snobbish, manipulative personality can damage me, I really don't know what to do.
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School is ending soon and for good? If so, I would personally just let it go and move on. Despite her good qualities, if she's stuck by a perception of you for 5 years without hearing you out, I doubt that perception will change with an apology. But if you really are suffering because she's seeing you in a way that isn't you, explain the kind of person you are. But keep in mind there's a good chance you can't change her mind about you.
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15/F. I'm irritated so much I could CRY!!!! My vergina *̩s burning and I have to pee the whole time. I had UTI a few weeks ago. But I'm not sure if it still *̩s! Becaise I don't have any pain only the burning and urge to pee. Plz help
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100% Cranberry juice, though tastes horrific, is great for urinary health. If you aren't drinking it, I would start and I would cut it with another 100% juice if it isn't already (most juices that say 100% cranberry juice have other juices in them already). Sugar itself can worsen a UTI, so I would avoid soda or similar things.
This sounds like a UTI to me. The thing about UTI's is they can lead to something more complicated if they stick around long enough (namely, kidney infections, but that doesn't sound like this yet). If it's bothering you this much, go to a clinic to get it treated with antibiotics.
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And that is why I pose the question. Trust me when I say all of these thoughts have entered my mind, Honestly, I don't think much can come from this. You see I work a lot, and I mean up to 20 hours a day on a regular basis, she is someone that passes the time and someone that is pleasant to speak with. I myself am just trying to figure out the rest of what she is saying and why.
I don't imagine that she cut off an engagement but I'm not in the position to just call her out because the exact reason you point out about me not knowing anything besides what she tells me,
Trust me when I say that this thing I am in is just a thing, and someone to talk with because oddly enough her life hours actually fit mine and again its nice to actually communicate with someone. So, its safe to say that she is probably looking for attention?? (link)
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She might be a number of things: looking to you for attention, messing with you, genuinely becoming infatuated with you, simply enjoying your conversations, etc. I wouldn't read too far between the lines. That's a tricky game that forces you to assume something about her that isn't explicitly said. And we all know how dangerous it is to stick to assumptions.
You say it's just a thing; it's just someone with which to talk. If there's no emotional attraction or dependence on your end, I wouldn't worry about there being some on her end unless she brings it up. Just enjoy your conversations for what they are. If you're worried about things getting dramatic, I would cross that bridge if and when you get to it.
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My boyfriend and his friends keep talking about going somewhere for spring break. His friend (who I am very close to) said "you can't come unless you bring two girls for me & (the other friend)" I don't know if he was joking or not?! & then my boyfriend made a comment about how he doesn't think he'll have enough money for both of us to go.. & i said of course i'll pay for myself. & he said no (he pays for everything)
I wouldn't care about going somewhere with them on spring break. But, its me and my boyfriends 2 year anniversary like that same week.
don't you think we should spend that time together?
i don't care about him going on vacations with out me.. but it's just the fact it's our anniversary. am i wrong? i feel like this is justified. (link)
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Your feelings are rational. At the same time, you two are the victim of unfortunate timing as there's no control over when spring break is and this trip concerns more people other than you and your boyfriend. If what his friend said wasn't a joke, it might be possible that he's worried that the trip would turn into your anniversary trip instead of a trip equally about everyone.
Your boyfriend doesn't want you to spend money to go and he can't afford to take you. That might be a different issue altogether. One of whether or not he should have a say in how you spend your own money.
But as for spending your anniversary together, keep in mind that your anniversary is just an annual reminder to show each other how you feel. It's little more than a date on a calendar, the important part of it is how you two feel about each other. I think it wouldn't be out of the question to reschedule something one-on-one. Besides, wouldn't an anniversary be better spent one-on-one?
It is truly unfortunate that your anniversary fell on spring break. And judging from what you've said, the anniversary seems to hold more importance to you than to him. Know that this doesn't mean that the overall relationship is more important to you than to him. If your anniversary is so important that there may be resentment if he goes on the trip without you, I would tell him about how you feel before he leaves. Bottling it up could lead to a fight later on.
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So, in a nutshell. I met a girl online and we have been talking for over a month. First day we talked on PS3 we exchanged phone numbers and had a very lengthy conversation, and honestly since then that is the case. We have fun conversations, now she was engaged when we first met.
Out of no where she explained that they are no longer a couple, to be honest I am not sure if I believe that; however, she has been spending more time talking and texting me recently. And my confusion lies in the fact that she insists on talking with me every night and we end up falling asleep. She actually even text me asking if i will fall sleep with her on the phone. She states she lives at home with her parents, which I assume is true.
I honestly don't know what to make of the connection we have at this point. We have traded photos with each other, talk every day throughout the day, literally almost fall asleep with each other every night. she's 24 lives in a small town in Ohio and I'm 26 and I live in Los Angeles. (link)
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The reason you struggle to pinpoint what your connection is is because so many connections don't have a label. You can look at a list of textbook traits of a friend and a significant other, but it isn't uncommon to find someone that falls somewhere in the middle. Your relationship is defined by you and her, not a label. However, there are some things to consider:
1. A month isn't a very long time to know someone. It is possible that you've yet to truly know her.
2. She just ended a very serious relationship. She could just be looking (unintentionally) for an outlet to pour what she just lost into. In other words, she could be seeking out a rebound, but one of an emotional connection.
3. And you're lack of certainty concerning their breakup could mean you don't fully trust her to know her own feelings, which could be an issue for you as well.
The only thing that can be determined by the information you've given us is that there is indeed a connection between you two. I don't think she's more than a friend at this point, but it would be a good idea to have a discussion about the possibility of there being more. Still, especially given the seriousness of her recent relationship, I'd wait until you're confident that she's over her ex.
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Hai frnds am 23 years and penis is about 4 inch.( still virgin )
1. is it satisfactory or i may think about increase my penis?
2. i was used to masturbated 4 times a week it makes any prob in future
3. And 40+sec time taking to ejaculation.... In dis stage i can make my partner satisfy
4. Feeling tat my penis s small is good to increase in size... How to increase?? Pls suggest me a good idea frnds (link)
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1. I'll let you in on a secret: Penis size doesn't really matter. The issue isn't necessarily your size. The issue is your partner's pleasure. By that, I mean everyone is different. It's more of a matter of learning about your partner and understanding their body than trying to fix your own.
2. No.
3. 40 seconds isn't really enough. Practice will help you last longer and keep foreplay in mind. Foreplay is exceptionally important and will increase the amount of time your partner will be pleasured. I'm assuming your partner is a woman. If that's the case, it helps a lot if she has an orgasm beforehand.
4. You can't increase your penis size without a small fortune. There are no cheap secrets.
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I need to lose weight! What you should pay more attention - fitness or food? Thanks (link)
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Diet and exercise go hand in hand, but neither have to alter your lifestyle drastically.
In my own personal experience, small things help. Find reasons to walk more. If you're going somewhere close enough to walk, do it. If you drive to stores, park further away. Make sure to do things you enjoy while exercising. It'll help you develop a good routine. If you like wilderness, walk in the park or go hiking. Try listening to music while you exercise, etc.
As for food, there are two important things to consider: The addition of more green vegetables and the subtraction of things like Soda. Green vegetables are exceptionally healthy and are great for toning up. Pop is possibly the worst thing for you and should be avoided at all cost if you plan on losing weight.
As for what's more important, I would say diet, but I wouldn't put too much emphasis on eating less and don't forget to exercise.
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I am a 22 year-old college student, and I live at home with my parents and my grandmother. My 28 year-old older sister lives away from home, and is in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend of four years.
Today I went to mass with my mom, and I never noticed how badly my sister's situation affected her. For awhile she told told me that she chose not to get involved in the situation, and that my sister made her choice. In her opinion, she chose her boyfriend over the family.
Before leaving mass she suggested that I light a candle for my paternal grandmother who passed away in February, and since I know the kind of relationship that she holds with members of that side of the family I was kind of puzzled. So I kept on asking her why she was crying over her death, and she told me that it was because my grandmother would have been there to talk to her about this situation when she was alive and healthy.
I am very concerned about my mother because she's not the healthiest person. Yet, admittedly, I'm not the right kind of person to go to about the situation I'm too temperamental, passionate, high-strung, and I hate when certain things like this are out of my control. Also, under certain circumstances in the past, I have not been the best person to go to in drastic situations although I do try to be supportive.
I have no idea what to do, I have tried talking to my sister but this always turns into a fight. As far as she's concerned, regardless of the situation that occurred between them less than two months ago in which her friends and family found out about her situation with her boyfriend, she's happy and safe and he's in love with her. I can't help but think that she's only there because her boyfriend is controlling the situation.
My mom is not the healthiest person in the world. She has diabetes that went untreated for years, this condition left her blind in one eye, unable to wear heels, and with her kidneys unable to function properly making it where she needs to go to dialysis every other day.
The main thing is that unlike most people, she does not have a close group of girl friends who she can hang out with to get her mind off of things. This probably results from the fact that she has never been particularly involved in her community, and she doesn't work.
So, how do I handle this situation? I told her to go to church and ask to speak to a priest (we're Catholic), to talk to a cousin who she grew up with, and to even talk to my sister's friend who has been extremely helpful in this situation, and has definitely shown that if we need to talk to she's there for us. (link)
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I have a risky suggestion as there is a chance that it might just make your sister angry. It might sound cliche, but I would look into giving her an intervention.
And if you decide to do this, first and foremost I wouldn't turn it into a bombardment of accusations and finger-pointing. Get some of your sister's friends, your mom, and you together with her and explain how things look. Explain that you love her and that you are all there for her if things are as bad as they seem. Above all else, make sure she knows that you are all there to provide support for her.
Again, this is risky and may not work, especially since talks with her have backfired in the past. But this is the only way I can think of to get her to see the severity of the issue and in this, at least your mother would know that she tried her best. As the other person mentioned, hopefully your sister realizes that she's in an abusive relationship on her own, regardless.
How much time do you spend with your mother? You live together, but is there anyway to spend more time with her? Seeing the well-adjusted daughter more often might cause her to have a better outlook on things. Are very many things going particularly well with you? If so, I would share them with your mother if you don't already.
You mentioned talking to a priest. Is she going to do this? From what I've seen, church can be one of the best support groups. You're right in suggesting this and it might help her if you were to accompany her if she's too nervous to go there alone.
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So I realize that I'm 23 and still living with my parents. I know I need to first get a better job so I can afford to live on my own. But I guess I'm afraid that I will fail and that I cant do it. Any advice?
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Finding a cheap place is a good place to start. Maybe you can already afford something like that? I don't know.
But remember, you do have a safety net. If things don't pan out, you can move back to where you are and try again. You can pretty much always try again. Don't let the fear of failure stop you from moving to the next step.
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Me and my boyfriend just got together today, and we met on Facebook. We barely know each other, well some what, but anyways, he told me "I love you" and it hasn't been a day yet, so what do I do? (link)
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"I love you"
That can take on many meanings, but it's something that can have a lot of gravity to it. By that, I mean you can run into a lot of trouble if you say it when you don't mean it.
If you have reservations about saying it back, then I wouldn't. I would just say how much you appreciate hearing it. It's one of those things where you know it when you feel it and if there are doubts, you probably aren't in love.
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at my son's and daughter's school they have swimming in PE from 8th grade to at least 10th grade in high school and the boys and girls have it together. I though this was bad enough. Wouldn't this make people feel uncomfortable? And cause distractions and goofing off among everybody? Not to mention young boys will be around with no shirts on which I think is inappropriate for young girls to be around of. My son has some stretch marks and now he has to stand half naked in front of all those girls and this will give them a chance to humiliate or tease him.
but now I find out that the teacher is also a young female that is probably about 23 or 24. I remember meeting her because she taught his health class as well. I do not feel comfortable with my son having a teacher that young and a person that young being in charge of a class that includes young boys 15-16 years old in swimming costumes.
My son keeps saying he does not care, but he is young and may not realize how wrong this is.
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I wouldn't.
As for how young she is, if you think of how life guards and swimming instructors are often young and in control of people swimming at a beach, there's little difference.
I do find it odd that they would force students to have a swimming class. Are there no alternatives?
Your son's best interest is the issue here. And teasing is a concern, though I would wager that he would be teased to a far greater degree if his mother or father tried to take action. Keep in mind that this class is probably only for a short period of time and I doubt he'll be negatively effected in a large way. If he says there's no issue for him, I would leave it at that.
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We have been together 3 yrs now and living together one year. He has a 10 yr old daughter. I have raised my daughters already they are grown and married. I also helped raise my grandson who is now the same age as my boyfriend's child. Here's the deal...I encourage his daughter to be more responsible such as getting her homework done...cleaning room etc. He's not very good at staying on top of her to do these things. She was pouring milk for cereal the other day and I said "be careful...don't pour too much"...and he said I was riding her too much. I feel like a third wheel. My boyfriends sister warned me that he spoils his daughter too much. Anyways...any suggestions? (link)
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How he raises his child is up to him. It's understandable, very understandable, that you want to make sure his daughter is raised right. Unfortunately, for all potential step parents, there's not much to be done and feeling like a third wheel is almost inevitable. That doesn't mean your input isn't valued. It should be and if it isn't, that could be a problem for the entire relationship.
I agree with Zane. The best and possibly only thing do to is open a conversation with him. It's easy for such a discussion to become heated, especially since he is defensive about the issue. I would make sure to bring up that all of this is coming from love and you're both just looking for what's best for his daughter. After this, if he's still set on raising his child in a way with which you don't agree, you might have to just accept that the child will be spoiled.
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im really wondering if im supposed to shave my pussy or vagina area. im really hairy and i wear a 34B and i get really irrated cause i feel like im the only one with hair their (link)
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I would trim if your hair bothers you, though as others have pointed out, it's not entirely necessary.
The reason I would trim is because shaving can cause uncomfortable skin irritations as well as leave you more vulnerable to viral infections.
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Recently I've been feeling quite empty and I have cut myself on my leg with a razor. There's a lot of them. The problem is that my boyfriend is coming over in a couple of days and if he sees them he will flip, maybe even break up with me. Don't get me wrong, he's really understanding, but he thought I wouldn't be stupid enough to do it. Also I lied and told him that I wouldn't do it. I NEED to get rid of them NOW. Any suggestions as to what I can do? Bearing in mind these are fresh cuts and they they haven't yet started healing. Any advice would be much appreciated, thanks. (link)
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This is an issue without an easy solution. Neosporin and other similar antibiotic products will heal the cuts faster, but not as fast as you would want. I'm afraid your best course of action is to just hide your legs for awhile.
But this isn't what I would do. I wouldn't keep something like this from him and I don't condone anyone else doing the same. This would cause an issue of trust between you two that you may feel guilty about for a long time. And if you're relationship means something to him, he shouldn't end it because of this.
More importantly, there's a reason you've cut yourself. You're hurt and feel empty. He should be understanding of that and he should be there for you. You and he need to understand that the most important thing here is that you're suffering.
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