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Complicated


Question Posted Monday January 20 2014, 9:36 am

And that is why I pose the question. Trust me when I say all of these thoughts have entered my mind, Honestly, I don't think much can come from this. You see I work a lot, and I mean up to 20 hours a day on a regular basis, she is someone that passes the time and someone that is pleasant to speak with. I myself am just trying to figure out the rest of what she is saying and why.

I don't imagine that she cut off an engagement but I'm not in the position to just call her out because the exact reason you point out about me not knowing anything besides what she tells me,

Trust me when I say that this thing I am in is just a thing, and someone to talk with because oddly enough her life hours actually fit mine and again its nice to actually communicate with someone. So, its safe to say that she is probably looking for attention??


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storageanddisposal answered Monday January 20 2014, 5:18 pm:
She might be a number of things: looking to you for attention, messing with you, genuinely becoming infatuated with you, simply enjoying your conversations, etc. I wouldn't read too far between the lines. That's a tricky game that forces you to assume something about her that isn't explicitly said. And we all know how dangerous it is to stick to assumptions.

You say it's just a thing; it's just someone with which to talk. If there's no emotional attraction or dependence on your end, I wouldn't worry about there being some on her end unless she brings it up. Just enjoy your conversations for what they are. If you're worried about things getting dramatic, I would cross that bridge if and when you get to it.

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