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By the time people are around 20, do you recon they expect sex as part of a relationship? (link)
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For the majority...probably so. That doesn't mean however that there are not those individuals who are waiting. Nothing wrong with that. :)
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Well, I met this boy through a friend..and me and him went out. I was shallow and wouldnt stay with him..it was about 3 years ago. and then we stopped talking and then started talking again..he was having problems at home and moved in with my family (hes 17 now). We became the best of friends..then all of the sudden "poof" he left out of NO WHERE. and now we are talking and stuff and i really miss him. i told him i didnt want him to leave and that i miss him. but do you have any ideas on how to really hit him on how much he hurt me? i need the help. That boy means alot to me, and i dont want the only person that was ever there to go away..
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I think you should tell him what he means to you. I don't think I would dwell so heavily on the you hurt me thing. If he doesn't know how you feel about him then it was totally unintentional. :)
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ok here it is. i love this guy alot and me and him dated but i broke it off with him b/c he kissed another girl. now i think i might have sex with this guy. i don't know. i really want to but who knows if i am emotionally ready for this. i need help A.S.A.P!!! (link)
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I think if you have to ask then you are not ready for sex emotionally. If you believe having sex with him will keep you together...not true. Just a temporary fix and one you'll be living with long after hes gone. Besides, he'd only be staying for that one reason and NOT because he cared about you. Bad idea. :)
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I have this friend named Allyson. We have science class together and I always see her flirting with this guy named Mitch. She told me later that she has a HUGE crush on him. I mean..yeah, he is pretty cute but his attitude is awful. He sexually harasses her all the time and says really perverted things to her. She thinks that he is doing this as his way of flirting but I think he is being a plain jerk. Am I having a bias because this guy was mean to me way back in elementary or is he really an ass? I mean..I know this is bad but I've got to say this to explain how bad it is. "Hey allyson, you have this bruise on your cheek..whats that from, huh?" "Allyson, you've got some hair stuck in your teeth" "You got something white dripping down your lips" Sometimes he even calls her a heffer and she isn't fat at all! She is like one of the skinniest friggen people I know. If he is being a true jerk, what do I tell Allyson? It's not like I can forbid her from dating him... (link)
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I agree with your opinion of him. You can only talk to her and tell her how you feel about his treatment of her. Doesn't mean she will listen...but you will feel better having said something. :)
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about a year ago i lost my virginity to the guy who i thought i was in love with. we were together for about 7 or 8 months after that. we would always just hold each other and make each other laugh and i still love him so much! but we got in trouble together(has nothing to do with this story so i just won;t go into details) and now we can see each other. about a month after that happened he got a girlfriend andi started dating this who i really like but i don't think i love him yet. we are both cool with seeing other people now but i know it secretly rips us up inside. but we still manage to sneak around and see each other from time to time. and i know that we can never ever be together again so it just makes it harder every time we see each other cuz i miss him and i want him back so bad. and he always does the little things that he knows drives me crazy about him and i do the same. i know i should move on but i couldn't go on living knowing that i am never going to see him or be able to talk to him again. what should i do?? please help. i think i might be hurting myself more then helping. (link)
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You continue the way you have been. The minute you turn 18...if the feelings remain, you are free to be together again. If you are meant to be together you will be. Just may not be soon. :)
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hey, i asked you a question earlier about my friends chrissy, jack, and kelly. do you think chrissy should tell kelly she likes jack even though she feels she doesn't have a chance with him? if she should tell kelly about it, what should she say? (link)
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Hmm...I guess if she thinks Kelly is going to be really upset about it she could wait. Maybe at least until she's sure Kelly is good and over him.
If she does want to tell her though she should just ask her if it would bother her if she dated Jack. If she says yes, and she might if she still cares for him, that's a whole other story! Maybe she should wait a little while and see what happens. :)
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Hey whats up ok id appreciate if you all read this it hurt's so much to esplain but it would mean the world to me if you answered it, I will rate evryone a 5just for reading my problem!!! Thanks!
-Ok my name is stephanie I am 15yrs old and I live in jacksonville florida, I have lived here since I was a baby I was born and raised here. Thing is I have a boy im inlove with and I know its hard to find someone that you will love and care for and stuff but I really do! It all started in the 6th grade I had alot of fun and stuff and I met Josh I didn't really liked him and stuff but we were always best freind's and I told him everything and we would always mess around with each other and stuff. But we went out for like a day but I told him he was too much of a friend to me. So then like we were bet friends alll 6th grade, Then round the corner 7th grade came, And I still kept in touch all summer and we got together and I swear he was my first kiss, first serious bf everything (and yes im still a virgin). But yeah we gott into 8th grade and went on with out realtionship so we were like best friends at the same time but like middle school sweethearts if that makes since. We kinda grew up with eachother and changed like with each other and like see the thing is he moved last summer, And I talk to him like occcasionally on the computer and he talks to me and like I called him like few monthes ago to check up on him and we called each other today. And I kno he is coming in 10days to Jacksonville to visit. Thing is its hard to say but I love him alot and like ive only been in like what 2 relationships since me n josh split cause he had to move. And like I dont kno something tells me he wont be stayin here cause he told me he doesnt know if he is gonna move down here yet cause like his mom is poor and stuff and his sis is in college and he doesnt wanna b like in her way cause she is busy and stuff. So like I dont kno what to do honestly im freakin out and I know if he comes back likehe is to visit im gonna get even more attached to him then I already am! But he said he will try n talk to his sis bout it, But I dont kno her so I really cant judge her actions if he wanted to move back! I really wish there was something I could say that is really sweet and will make him come back!! PLEASE ANYONE I LOVE THIS BOY TO DEATH JUST ANSWER ME!!! I have aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO so please answer me! I appreciate it all and Ill rate you all a 5!
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If he comes for a visit then enjoy your time with him. Be friends. The rest can come later on if you feel the same in a few years. Don't stop being friends though because nothing is impossible and things could change in the future. :)
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my friend ((chrissy)) likes a boy ((jack)) that her best friend ((kelly)) just got dumped by. jack likes going for girls that are easy and right now he likes a girl that he asked out before kelly. the other girl said no but they both still hang out. he's gone out with a lot of people chrissy knows but they still talk pretty much everyday. chrissy's not easy so what should she do? she doesn't want to hurt kelly's feelings either. (link)
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Unless you know first hand that he likes "easy" girls don't assume that is true.
If Chrissy isn't "easy" and that is the type of girl he goes for...he probably won't ask her out anyway.
If she doesn't want to hurt Kelly then she needs to tell Kelly what she's feeling. :)
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this guy who is a grade above me asked me out, and i said no. the only problum is he still talks to me and flirts with me and smiles at me and crap, and i think hes gonna ask me out 'again'. not only that, but i like 2 of his close friends alot so i dont want to majorly affend him. i dont want to have him ask me out again. its imbarrising. could someone please help me i rate well! (link)
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I don't understand why you would be embarrassed... I can see how it would be embarrassing for him to be turned down!
He may just want to be friends. Is he that gross?
Flirting and smiling do not necessarily mean he's going to ask you out again. Just don't respond in a manner to make him think you want him to and I doubt he will ask again. :)
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Hi.. i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 10 monthes and we really love eachother! Before we started going out, he kind of liked my best friend, but he asked me out instead. Turns out, she's liked him since before we were going out and they flirt soo much! I know flirting is just natural but my other friend told me that she wants us to break up and im really worried.. What should i do!? Thanks! (link)
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You discuss it with your boyfriend. If you really love each other there is no problem. Just trust him. :)
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I really like this one guy he flirts a whole bunch with other girls but he respects me more then the other girls as far as i know. do u all think its better to be respected of flirted with? (link)
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Respected of course. Flirting means nothing. Oh, it may be fun but that's about all it is. :)
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ok so ive been dating this guy for almost 3 months now and i really like him but sometimes i have a hard time trusting him. like i found out a while ago he had been smoking and he said o its no big deal i only do it one time a month so i got into this big argument with him and hes like ok ill do anything for you and crap liek that now i know he hasnt smoked since then but i recently found out that he didnt do it only once a month it was pretty much every weekend and yea i already knew that cus it was kinda ovious and sometimes well be watching a tv show then comercials will come on and hell be like o hott girls lets keep it here and sometimes i get the feeling that he only wants me to like ya no do stuff with but weve only done more then kissing once cus i always tlel him no and his exscuse is o im a guy i mean what could i do to be able to trust him or should i just give up (link)
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I think his wanting to look at girls on TV is normal male behavior. Mine is constantly asking me to get him this one or that one for his birthday. So, if hes anything to judge it by then it is a lifetime peculiarity of men.
If his smoking is a big deal to you then by all means go find one that doesn't smoke. Nagging him into not doing it will not endear you to him at all.
I think that if you don't trust him then give up.
Trust is a number one priority in any relationship. I don't see anything you really need worry about except for maybe his smoking. And That is a personal choice belonging to him. Until they outlaw it anyway....:)
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okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?
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I think you may be OK this time but I wouldn't rely on that method of birth control in the future okay? Teenage boys don't have a lot of control as far as stopping before something happens gos. If you're going to have sex be safe about it. :)
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Lately, I have to pee all the time. I used to only have to go once a day. Now I have to go once every hour. Anyone know why this sudden change has occurred? Should I be worried? I'm 18 female if that helps. (link)
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I would say that going once an hour is far more normal than once a day. I don't think I would be concerned about it. But if you are contact your doctor.
If you have a sudden weight gain along with this have your blood sugar tested. :)
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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Sounds to me as if he is just asking why you don't feel that your ready, probably hoping to help you feel ready! Just tell him you want to wait until you are older. Then maybe he won't feel the need to fix anything. He is just eager. He cares or he would be putting on the pressure...that is a good thing! :)
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im 16 f. well i had this boyfriend but we broke up about five months ago and then he started txting me saying that he still loved me and asking me if i felt the same, well the thing is i do, i always have loved him we went out for like seven months and ive never been closer to anyone. well the next day i was txting my friend to tell her what he had been saying and i accidentally sent it to him. he then txt me bak asking me what i was tlaking about because he hadn't txt me in weeks so what am i suposed to think? i covered up by saying it was someone else i was talking about b/c i didn't know what to say but what does this mean? is he interested or not? please help b/c im really confused! (link)
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I think you need to go to him and find out if he really texted you the first time or if someone else is playing a nasty joke. Its really the only way of finding out for sure. If it wasn't him then somebody else you no has a sick sense of humor. :)
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My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!
PLease answer!!
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I think you just need to keep your distance for now. He will either miss you and come back or he won't. There really isn't much more you can do. I don't think you should waste a LOT of time waiting around for that. Get back out there and date...hard though it may be. :)
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my age is 16 i was going out with the boy from my secondary school for about a year and i found out he still had a crush on another girl from the same school.So we broke up he was always mean to me. Ok this guy texted me from my secondary skl and he said do i want to be with him?i texted back yes because he was always there for me when i was upset he even bought me a present when i was sad. Anyway when i sent him a message the other day he has not answered why do you think this is??i do not understand because he sent messages before?? (link)
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I wouldn't go into a panic over it. Maybe something came up and he couldn't return your message. Why not give him a call and see whats going on? :)
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this is kind of long.im 16. ok so I have had this friend that I have known since pre-k, and we used to be super cool. and now that its summer we had all these plans to have sleepovers and everything and just have fun. but we only have gotten together once since the beginning of summer and that was like for only like an hour and a half. and the first day we planned to have a sleepover and she said she would call when shes about to come over, but she never called that night. so i called the next day and we planned to have a sleepover that night but she didnt call again. after a while i just gave up and we havnt talked since like the last time (a couple of days ago) that i asked for her to come over. she never gave a reason for her not coming over. do you think she still likes me? I mean we've known eachother sing PRE-K! is it really that easy to just forget someone? please dont be sarcastic if you answer this because it herts to loose a friend.... (link)
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I think you need to be asking her. Maybe there is something going on that you could help her with. Sounds kind of odd. :)
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People say opposites attract, do people who are alot alike attract just as well? (link)
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Yes they do. Sometimes people are attracted to those qualities which they don't possess. Then, they just complement the other.
Others who are maybe more adventurous may want someone to get out there and climb mountains with each other. I do believe that over time even those who are a lot alike have some differences somewhere. :)
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