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quick help!! (A.S.A.P kind of help)
ok here it is. i love this guy alot and me and him dated but i broke it off with him b/c he kissed another girl. now i think i might have sex with this guy. i don't know. i really want to but who knows if i am emotionally ready for this. i need help A.S.A.P!!!
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I think if you have to ask then you are not ready for sex emotionally. If you believe having sex with him will keep you together...not true. Just a temporary fix and one you'll be living with long after hes gone. Besides, he'd only be staying for that one reason and NOT because he cared about you. Bad idea. :)
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if you dont know for sure if youre ready or not, then you probably arent ready.
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Hey it seems to me that you dont know if you are ready.
ready means: Mentally disposed; willing although it also means:
Likely or about to do something
so in my opinian you are ready and are WILLING to do it but you aarnt emotionally and mentally ready.. wait for the right guy to come and it will happen for itself.. you know? Sorry im not much help but that is my advice
♥ Michelle
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okay well personally only you know if you would be messed up. when i decided to have sex my mom told me that it well metally screw me up i knew it wouldnt so i was fine with having sex if you think for even a second he is going to hurt you in a way you cant take then dont do it but if hes hurt you before it could happen again
help i helped
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How can we help you. Here, do what you want.
That should help.
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If you have to question if you'Re Ready oR not.. you'Re not Ready... peRiod.
If he kissed anotheR giRl then he *obviously doesn't "love" you as much as you "love" him, so he's definitely not woRth losing youR viRginity to. If someone's has feelings foR TWO, then they obviously don't feel enough foR EITHER OF THEM.. peRiod; no possible way aRound that fact. Though unfoRtunate, I say you'Re betteR off picking up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt and walking away fRom this Relationship. He obviously doesn't "love" you, because if he did he wouldn't have kissed anyone else because he wouldn't *WANT* anyone else!! If you love someone.. no one else in the entiRe woRld would be able to compaRe to you, and to what the two of you have togetheR. Love is RecipRocal, Sweetie. It's DEFINITELY NOT just one-sided. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who isn't willing to give you theiRs? I'm telling you to use youR head, and think of youR *OWN* well being on this one -- Don't waste anymoRe of youR time, teaRs oR effoRt on this CLOWN; he's obviously NOT woRthy. I wish you the best of luck - hopefully I've been of some assistance! Know that I am *ALWAYS, ALWAYS* heRe if you eveR need a second opinion. Chin up, DaRlin'... you'll be alRight. =D
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if you don't know if your ready, your not ready.
Why loose your verginity to a guy that might break your heart after wards. Is he truly sorry that he kissed another girl? if not move on. It'll be hard but in the end you will end up with less scars then if you got back together with him and had sex.
Unless hes REALLY REALLY sorry then he should be totaly out of your love life. It's not okay to put yourself throught this kind of damage.
i've seen what happens when things like this go bad and it's not something you want to want to get into.
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