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he's gone


Question Posted Thursday June 2 2005, 9:43 pm

Well, I met this boy through a friend..and me and him went out. I was shallow and wouldnt stay with him..it was about 3 years ago. and then we stopped talking and then started talking again..he was having problems at home and moved in with my family (hes 17 now). We became the best of friends..then all of the sudden "poof" he left out of NO WHERE. and now we are talking and stuff and i really miss him. i told him i didnt want him to leave and that i miss him. but do you have any ideas on how to really hit him on how much he hurt me? i need the help. That boy means alot to me, and i dont want the only person that was ever there to go away..

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reelbignathan answered Sunday June 5 2005, 4:31 am:
just tell him your true feelings for him. just tell him he means alot to you and that you need him. and if you have to kidnap him (wouldnt suggest it thought, lol). but in all honesty just tell him how you feel over all about him and tell him how much he means to you and things like that

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karenR answered Friday June 3 2005, 8:59 am:
I think you should tell him what he means to you. I don't think I would dwell so heavily on the you hurt me thing. If he doesn't know how you feel about him then it was totally unintentional. :)

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sadf16 answered Friday June 3 2005, 5:41 am:
Aside from what they've said, I think you should let him realize how much he've hurt you by telling him your feelings if not in front of his face on the telephone. You tell him that he hurted you by leaving you and etc. Let him really realize by showing your true feelings. Don't let this pass by and ignore it since he'll do just the same mistake again and again.

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aicila answered Thursday June 2 2005, 11:49 pm:
what you said up there is what you should say to him ive found (through experience) that when you love someone that much theres a good chance they love you back just as much be totally honest and express yourself at any point in the convo if you feel things are going wrong just say the phone got disconnected hahaha it does work tho goog luck i know how hard love is

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brittany_x31 answered Thursday June 2 2005, 10:47 pm:
well you can call him on the phone and ask why did you leave see what he says if for deffintly he cant come back then flie on a plain and go and see him and since you are the same age you could live with him and then you wouldnt have to be so ad if he lives in the same state as you you can ask a mom or a freind or if you can drive to go down to his house and visit him once a day or so

HOPE I HELPED YOUR FRIEND BRITT_BRITT

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