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im in need of SERIOUS help yall! please help me
about a year ago i lost my virginity to the guy who i thought i was in love with. we were together for about 7 or 8 months after that. we would always just hold each other and make each other laugh and i still love him so much! but we got in trouble together(has nothing to do with this story so i just won;t go into details) and now we can see each other. about a month after that happened he got a girlfriend andi started dating this who i really like but i don't think i love him yet. we are both cool with seeing other people now but i know it secretly rips us up inside. but we still manage to sneak around and see each other from time to time. and i know that we can never ever be together again so it just makes it harder every time we see each other cuz i miss him and i want him back so bad. and he always does the little things that he knows drives me crazy about him and i do the same. i know i should move on but i couldn't go on living knowing that i am never going to see him or be able to talk to him again. what should i do?? please help. i think i might be hurting myself more then helping.
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You should stop seeing him I went through the same thing that you are going through now. and let me tell you it was soo hard my parents were giving me advice on what to do but i never listened cause i just wanted to be with him just like that song "love is blind" He is playing both you and his new girl the only way that you are going to stop getting your self hurt is to stop seeing him all together but then again you can see him but just not mess with him. I see my ex all the time and we are good friends now we hang out but we dont mess around that because when he left me to be with another girl we still talked on the phone as good friends. and thats what you need to do to get over him, find someone else but dont jump into a relationship with them just be there friend and take it slow and you never know what it could end up being and maybe in the long run you and him will be back together.. So just stop messing with him cause he knows that he can come back anytime he wants to get some and thats were your going to get mixed feelings and get hurt even more.I hope I helped..
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You continue the way you have been. The minute you turn 18...if the feelings remain, you are free to be together again. If you are meant to be together you will be. Just may not be soon. :)
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Aww. You two must really like each other. It is very hard to get over someone you loved. I know someone who was dating a guy for 3 years and she had a ruff time getting over him. Continue trying to see him sometimes. I didnt quite understand a part in your question, did you mean that you cant see each other ever again? If so then, maybe you can send emails and stuff. Whelp good luck hun!
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Okay. So tell your ex-bf that once and for all if he really likes you still and wants you back then that'll be the case, you'll be with him and you'll stop hurting. Confront him about this and you need to tell him that this secret meeting must stop since both of you are hurting yourselves. You need to let him make a choice whether to be with you or completely out of your life.
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