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my best friend?
this is kind of long.im 16. ok so I have had this friend that I have known since pre-k, and we used to be super cool. and now that its summer we had all these plans to have sleepovers and everything and just have fun. but we only have gotten together once since the beginning of summer and that was like for only like an hour and a half. and the first day we planned to have a sleepover and she said she would call when shes about to come over, but she never called that night. so i called the next day and we planned to have a sleepover that night but she didnt call again. after a while i just gave up and we havnt talked since like the last time (a couple of days ago) that i asked for her to come over. she never gave a reason for her not coming over. do you think she still likes me? I mean we've known eachother sing PRE-K! is it really that easy to just forget someone? please dont be sarcastic if you answer this because it herts to loose a friend....
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Aww; I undeRstand wheRe you'Re coming fRom, Kidd-o. I know this is a painful situation, but peRhaps you could tRy asking heR to do something OTHER THAN a sleep oveR? Maybe all of the sudden she feels she has to act 'gRown up' oR something. So tRy asking heR if she wants to hit the mall, oR go to some soRt of conceRt, oR play basketball in the paRk... Maybe this will help. I'm soRRie if this wasn't what you weRe hoping foR, but know that you can come to me if you eveR need anotheR second opinion... Best wishes!!
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well since she has known u that long she is maybe tired of you and made new freinds.
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I think you need to be asking her. Maybe there is something going on that you could help her with. Sounds kind of odd. :)
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Well honestly I don't think she has forgotten about you. I have been in a similar situation. I kept thinking my best friend since elementary was blowing me off because she'd always come up with some lame excuse not to hang out. To make a long story short, I confronted her about it, and of course I got shitty with her for not being a good friend, and turns out that the problem was not me, but problems she was going through. Sometimes people feel like they just want to be alone, or sometimes they feel like they are being smothered. After a while, some old friendships seem to get... old. And maybe she needs some time away from you to adjust with whatever problems and issues shes dealing with. You may be the underlying problem, or it may be something you don't even know about that has nothing to do with you. Either way, talk it through with her and find out the problem. Good luck! ~Sherah
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I think that if you feel you are losing her it is time for a serious talk because I know how hard it is to lose a really really close friend. Make sure she knows you're upset, but not completely angry. Don't yell or explode jusdt let her know how sad you feel .When you do that things should turn out better!:)
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