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15/f
ok so ive been dating this guy for almost 3 months now and i really like him but sometimes i have a hard time trusting him. like i found out a while ago he had been smoking and he said o its no big deal i only do it one time a month so i got into this big argument with him and hes like ok ill do anything for you and crap liek that now i know he hasnt smoked since then but i recently found out that he didnt do it only once a month it was pretty much every weekend and yea i already knew that cus it was kinda ovious and sometimes well be watching a tv show then comercials will come on and hell be like o hott girls lets keep it here and sometimes i get the feeling that he only wants me to like ya no do stuff with but weve only done more then kissing once cus i always tlel him no and his exscuse is o im a guy i mean what could i do to be able to trust him or should i just give up
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don't give up because that just shows that you are weak may be you should sit him down and tell him how you feel!!!
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I think his wanting to look at girls on TV is normal male behavior. Mine is constantly asking me to get him this one or that one for his birthday. So, if hes anything to judge it by then it is a lifetime peculiarity of men.
If his smoking is a big deal to you then by all means go find one that doesn't smoke. Nagging him into not doing it will not endear you to him at all.
I think that if you don't trust him then give up.
Trust is a number one priority in any relationship. I don't see anything you really need worry about except for maybe his smoking. And That is a personal choice belonging to him. Until they outlaw it anyway....:)
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your not alone babe. first things first.. to make a relationship work you need too have both people in the relatinship trusting one another. so if you really love him, im sure just trusting him would be a start, and if you find out he's doing something he promised you he wouldnt? bring it up to him, and talk things out, because communications the other big thing a relationship is based on. And as for him saying things about girls on TV just be lucky your the one who has him, noone else. and i dont really think he's using you, im sure he cares about you, i mean it's been 3 months already? if he was using you, you guys wouldnt be as strong, nor in as long as a relationship as you guys have going for yourselves.
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