Okay, long story..
3 of my friends dont like eachother.
they all talk crap about eachother, and it puts alot of pressure on me...i tell them not to, but they dont listen! everyone always ends up fighting with me saying i blew them off for the other friend...when i didnt...or that im talking crap too...but i dont!! im just stressed about it!!:-/ its like none of them want me to be friends with allll of them!! :-( they are my BESTfriends...and i guess i'm just confused!
When they start talking about your other friends, tell them you don't want to hear it. If they have a beef with your other friends, encourage them to talk to one another. Or even try "I think that I just heard you say that Jenny was being stupid." Eventually they will get a clue.
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when does vaginal discharge stop??
If you aren't on your period, you need to talk to a doctor about it. You could have a yeast infection. This happens to lots of people, but you need to be treated for it.
If you are talking about your period, there is a time when it stop, but you would be much older. It can happen as early as 40 or later. My period is heavier sometimes one month and lighter others. Its annoying, but a necessary part of life. I am personally going to have a small chat with Eve...
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it's my boyfriend's birthday in a couple of weeks and i have no idea what to get him! does anyone have any ideas? it can't be rude or too adult we're only 13. Thanks!
Have you thought about writing him a long and heartfelt letter? Or maybe a poem? You don't have to spend a lot of money to say I love you.
You could make him a cake or some cupcakes. I am sure you have a talent, and I would suggest showcasing it for him.
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How do you loose weight the easy way??? Im confused i have been going to a gym regually and still i haven't seen no change in my weight. Im annoyed and im starting to want to give up but i really want to loose weight. Is there any other ways of loosing weight faster??
Luv Shelly
Don't give up! Muscle weighs more than fat. You may be losing inches. Even if you don't lose weight, you will feel better and have more energy. You might want to check your diet out with your doctor too.
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ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??
And you have to choose why? Do they know that the realtionship isn't exclusive? I would just spend time with each of them, and one of them will probably shine eventually. And you could always just be friends.
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OK, I'ma be blunt: my b/f and I have been having sex. He comes every time, but I can't seem to. It's kind of been bothering me. We've been experimenting and stuff, but I just haven't come. It's bothering him, too.LOL I think he thinks hes doing something wrong or something. Anyone have any tips?
He does know what I like, by the way...he knows it better than I do. Does it, like, take awhile for the girl to be able to orgasm? Or something?
If you can, help me out, would ya? I mean, I was told girls are hard to get to orgasm, but I didn't think it was this hard!
i'm 16/f, if that makes any difference.
Here's the deal I have had. The more you focus on having the orgasm, the more you are not going to come. If he does things that feel good to you, you are doing great. Mostly you need to relax and feel what he is doing instead of what he isn't. I would highly suggest maybe putting on a blindfold or closing you eyes and focus more on the sensation. If you are pleasuring yourself, show him how you do it, then maybe he can understand what feels good for you.
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hello, i am a 23 year old female. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six and a half years. we have had our share of problems, but nothing really bad. i think that our biggest problem is communication. whenever we are involved in a heated discussion, i start crying and he gets mad. i'm a very emotional person and i can't help it. i tell him this all the time. however, sometimes he yells at me and says mean things to me. i have told him that he can't talk to me any kind of way. he never says disrespectful things, but i still feel disrespected by the way he says things. i think that this is something that we can work out if we could communicate better with each other. if i start to cry he gets angry and doesn't want to talk anymore. we recently had an argument, i got really upset and told him that i didn't want to be with him anymore. i didn't mean it and i would like to talk to him about it, but i'm afraid that if i call him, he might make me feel like he doesn't care or doesn't want to talk about it. he has been a major part of my life. he has been there for me through so much. i love him and i know that he love me. what should i do? a part of me feels like if i give it too much time he might not want to be with me. another part of me feels that he needs time to see what he is missing. i'm so confused about what to do.
I think your biggest problem is you have wasted five years of you life, that you can spend with someone else. If someone hasn't proposed marriage in that long of a time, dump him. Life will go on, and you don't have to stand for his abuse. Apparently he is working overtime to push you away.
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
Ok. Try to think of why in the world you would want a child. How would you feed it, clothe it, and shelter it? You are too young to get a job. He can't get a high paying job because he is so young. You need at least 26,000 a year just for a child. That doesn't include you? How are you going to get around?
If you just want the attention, forget it you are too young. If you just like children and think they are cute, babysit for your cousin or other close family member. There is nothing wrong with liking and taking care of children, but its terribly difficult if you are too young. There is so much more to do in the world at your age than stay home with a child. You have friends and things you want to do that will not work out when you have a baby. You will either not have the money or the time or the babysitter.
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well okay first off im a girl and i want to pleasure myself fingering just dosen't work i get nothing out of that and i have no toys and can't go out and buy them because im "to younge' please give me some ideas im so horny rite now and im home alone thank you so much
Ok. You could use an everyday, available in the store, massager. Or even a shower massager. You just need to think more creatively.
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lately i been having troubles with friends. and it has upsetted me pretty bad. im the type of person that things bother more then most people. its just who i am. but ever since i started having problems with my friend (its been 1 or 2 weeks now) i have totally just cut down eating. like i didnt even notice it until i realized i lost 10 pounds in this short amount of time. i cant really help it i just been kinda upset and i cant really change my situation with my friends for a while. we just have things we have to figure out and everything! i dont know what i could really do to eat more and not lose weight. i have tried to eat a little more then i have been these past couple weeks but if i do i just throw up. its like my body rejects food. what should i do?
Please please talk to your doctor. You are probably depressed and need some help. In a few instances, you might not have to take anything. You might just need some on to talk to.
Friends sometimes change, and grow apart. Unfortunately, its part of growing up. Try to make some new ones, and keep yourself occupied with a new hobby or reading.
If you eat more smaller snacks all day, you can probably gain some weight. I would suggest fruit because it does have sugar in them, and it will be easier on your stomach. I personally like bananas. Some nuts would be good too for protein. Milk is good too. It doesn't necessarily have to be fatty and gross to help you eat more and feel better.
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HI MY BEST FRIEND WANTS TO BE A SINGER WHEN SHE GROWS UP AND LATELY ALL SHE HAS BEEN DOING IS SINGING AND ITS DRVING ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO??????????????
I don't know how old you are, but you might introduce her to somewhere she could go Karaoke. If you donn't know what that is, its where you have music and words on a screen that you can sing to. You can also rent machines or get a KJ (karaoke jockey) for a party or event. It is very fun, and you can even get your own songs off the internet: http://www.soundchoice.com/
Encourage her to sing for someone else!
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What is the meaning of circa in description of salary?
Circa in general means about or approximately. You could probably earn more or less depending on experience and training.
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i have this friend... let's call him Duckie. well he recently began to date my other friend, (we'll just call her Juicyfruit). as foolish as it sounds, i would do anything to make someone else happy. and so i helped them set things straight and get going on a healthy relationship. but Duckie is my best guy friend in the whole world and i hug him every day when i see him between classes.
Juicyfruit is a jealous girl. she sent her other friend to set some "ground rules" for me. it was stated that i am not allowed to hug Duckie anymore unless Juicyfruit gives her consent. so i did what i thought was right and i confronted her. she said that she was sorry for losing her temper, and just to forget that she even cared about the hugging thing. in other words, she was pissed.
Juicyfruit is a sort of a player and Duckie might be able to make her stick with him so she can actually feel love. and jealousy would interfere with their own joy. i wrote a letter to Duckie telling him he was not to hug me, speak to me, or even look at me because i only cause trouble.
so i did what probably makes them happy. but after losing my best friend and having Juicyfruit's popular little friends look down on me with scorn, what do i do when i have made two people happy... but I'M not in the same bliss?
someone help me. i don't want to be selfish. all i ever wanted to do was make people happy. but i'm too STUPID to know if this has gone too far.
Good grief what is wrong with a hug. Juicyfruit is a self-centered brat. You shouldn't lose a friend just because they are in a relationship. Its a hard balance to keep friends and girlfriends happy.
I commend you for talking to her face to face. You obviously have a lot more class than she does. Juicy will be gone before you know it if she is indeed this annoying. I am not sure you really made them happy. She has to learn to deal with other people.
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I have an.. well interesting sister. She is 4 years older than I am and I am nearly 18. My sister and I both live at home still. My sister acts as if her life is the most important life on the face of the earth, and she treats everyone around her like a lesser being. Sometimes I just want to physically hurt her because words just never get through to her, that is, if you can words out at all. She never lets people speak, especially when she is angry. She blames her problems on everyone else in my family, especially my mother and I'm starting to believe my sister is really breaking my moms heart to pieces. Her actions and words hurt all of my immediate family and it is so extremely peaceful and quiet when she is at work.
The thing that bothers me the most is that she always claims that her life is so much worse than everyone else's, no matter what they are enduring, she refuses to offer support, instead she will explain how much more difficult it is to be her. I can't stand being around her because she always insults me, she claims that she is just being honest when clearly - she is just being rude.
I had hoped she would be moving out soon but she enrolled in school again and so she will be staying at home for at least another 2 years. Its madness and I simply can't be around her.
When I have tried to explain how I feel and how badly she treats us she refuses to let me finish and assumes I am attacking her and she responds with attacks of her own. She always tells us how horrible it is to have a family like ours and how no one cares about her and how she wishes she could leave.
I have tried to tolerate her disgusting attitude and no one outside my family can understand my grief over this issue because my sister changes her entire self when she is around anyone other than our immediate family - she is suddenly nice. Therefore, no one else understands.
My question to advicenators is this - is there anything that I can say to my sister that will make her realize how bad she is hurting our family or do we all need to simply tough it out for the next few years until she moves out on her own?
However, even if we do tolerate her, I don't ever want to simply sever ties with my own sister - I want her to care about us and love us - I want her to be a friend to me. Not someone that hates us and supposedly makes her life horrible.
Some people are so unhappy and refuse to admit it. They bottle it up inside themselved and attack other innocent people. Your sister sounds like someone who is suffering from insecurity. It is possible that she never leaves. She is probably on the verge of a huge change and it makes her crazy. All you can do is tolerate her, and treat her like you wish that she would treat you.
Maybe you can go away from home for college, and experience something different. I would just stay away from her until she gets out of this stage. Show her happiness, and maybe she will come around.
Good luck
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i find myself always in the wrong, adn my finace never hears me out and makes me feel so horrible, i dontfeel like mysefl and if i cry its wrong
it is not wrong to cry. ever. If you fiance isn't listening to you, you guys need to have a long long talk when you feel calmer.
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i'm 10 and just got pregnat. young?... i know! Should i tell my parents?
Who did this?!? Yes, you should tell your parents. Whoever did this may have committed a crime. Your parents need to help you. I doubt your body can even handle a child.
And don't listen to anyone but your parents about this situation. Abortion and adoption is a question your parents need to answer.
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everytime I go to the bathroom, I feel the need to tuck my underwear into my vagina, is that normal?
Why are you tucking your underwear in? Is it hurting or something? You might consider a trip to the gynecologist if you aren't comfortable. I used to tuck toilet paper in there because it seemed to feel better. It turned out that I had a mild yeast infection. The doctor gave me some medicine to make me feel better, and I have not done it since.
If that's not the reason, don't worry so much about it. You might want to wear cotton if you are going to do that. You could talk to a professional if it bothers you, but it doesn't seem like its ruining your life.
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hey any of you people out there know how i can start an affair i am in my mid 30 so i am old enough my boyfriend is 50 we get along ok but no sex i gotta have it im going crazy from not having it dont no one worry i will use protection i dont want no diseases and no im not a slut either so dont no one say i am but if you must know i have an extremely high sex drive is all i just wanna find a willing participant if i can and all i wanna know is how i go about finding one if anyone knows thanks gave a good day
Clue phone. Condoms do not protect you from all diseases. Have you talked to your boyfriend about the problem? Maybe its time for a different relationship. Unfortunately, most guys are willing participants if you ask them. It feels unusual to turn the tables, but it can happen. I don't think its a good idea. Have you thought about masterbation? even with your boyfriend doing it if he doesn't feel like sex?
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I went to this party and I'm 15 and I drank but I only had one beer and than I woke up the next morning in my bed. After that for the next couple of weeks I got sick daily, I started to get worried and had my friend buy a pregnancy test for me and it turned out that I was pregnant. I don't know how that's possible because I'm a virgin. But I can't remember what happened that night at the party. I don't know what to tell my parents.
~Pregnant?~
Oh, this is terrible. There is no way you got that drunk from one beer. I am with the others. It is very likely you have been drugged and raped. Please please tell you parents everything. They aren't going to be happy, but they are the ones who can help you deal with the situation. Try to remember who served you the drink. Did you pour it yourself? Did you leave your drink alone for any amount of time? Did anyone "bump" into you and distract you?
I hope other people see this and learn from your situation. Preaching isn't going to help now. Absolutely tell you parents everything you told us.
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I have a friend, let's call her *Marie. Well Marie told me today that she got fingered by her cousin, who's sixteen. She said she didn't want to do it but he just kind of laid on top of her and did it. She was going to call for her other cousin who would've stopped it, but she said he wouldn't have come because he thought they were fooling around and didn't want to disturb them.
She just told him to quit and he wouldn't, so I'm guessing it's 'finger rape', if there is such a thing.
Well now she said she had dark stuff in her panties. I think she said black fuzzy stuff. Like discharge. She said she still hurts from the encounter and I don't know how long ago it was. She said she REALLY wants to go see a doctor but she doesn't know how to go about it. Her parents are the strict kind, so if you told them you even kissed somebody they would have a heart attack. I'm asking for her because I am very worried and I have no clue what could be going on with her.
Thanks for helping.
She didn't do anything wrong. Please have her go the doctor immediately. She needs to tell her parents because this cousin could do worse things to her in the future.
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