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friendship stuff
Okay, long story..
3 of my friends dont like eachother.
they all talk crap about eachother, and it puts alot of pressure on me...i tell them not to, but they dont listen! everyone always ends up fighting with me saying i blew them off for the other friend...when i didnt...or that im talking crap too...but i dont!! im just stressed about it!!:-/ its like none of them want me to be friends with allll of them!! :-( they are my BESTfriends...and i guess i'm just confused!
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o mi gosh.. haha.. again.. same thyng happened with me.. sept there were only teo friends.. but.. i thynk you shuud judt keep on tellin them to stop.. be lyk.. " ok.. theyre mai friend.. and you shuudnt talk mess bout them.. specially to me.. cuz i dont wanna hear it... " hehe.. or sumthyn lyk that.. then.. if that dont wurk.. then tell all 3 of em to wurk it out thrmselves.. i guess..
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Listen. if dey dunt like each other dats dere problem. U just need 2 tell dem dat yes u r friends wit all of dem n if dey have problems wit each other 2 leave u out of it. Say dat since u r friends wit all of den u cant b wit everybody at da same tyme. N dat bcuz u went out wit another friend dayt dey dunt like, doesnt mean dat u like dem ne less. if dey cant handle da fact dat ur friends wit all of dem den dey need 2 just talk it out amoungest themselves n handle it in dere own way. But 2 leave u out of it=)....hope i helped
l8tah
-MIZZ_C
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When they start talking about your other friends, tell them you don't want to hear it. If they have a beef with your other friends, encourage them to talk to one another. Or even try "I think that I just heard you say that Jenny was being stupid." Eventually they will get a clue.
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ok i have the same issue and if they call and ask if you wnat to hang out or something tell them tha untill they can be a true friend and live with your choices not jsut their own then you will hang otu with them. tel them that you dotn want to be put in the middle and you dotn think it is fair that they so that to you. try your best and if they dotn stop then why r u friends with them if they out that much stress on you
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