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Um...sex, I guess.
OK, I'ma be blunt: my b/f and I have been having sex. He comes every time, but I can't seem to. It's kind of been bothering me. We've been experimenting and stuff, but I just haven't come. It's bothering him, too.LOL I think he thinks hes doing something wrong or something. Anyone have any tips?
He does know what I like, by the way...he knows it better than I do. Does it, like, take awhile for the girl to be able to orgasm? Or something?
If you can, help me out, would ya? I mean, I was told girls are hard to get to orgasm, but I didn't think it was this hard!
i'm 16/f, if that makes any difference.
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Well it ia true it is harder for woman to have a orgasim, than it is a man to have an erection. So you should go for it longer. Hope this advice works!
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Um....a little too...young?? I mean you cant even spell some stuff...I'm not trying to be mean but I just think you're too young.
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blunt.....lol
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Here's the deal I have had. The more you focus on having the orgasm, the more you are not going to come. If he does things that feel good to you, you are doing great. Mostly you need to relax and feel what he is doing instead of what he isn't. I would highly suggest maybe putting on a blindfold or closing you eyes and focus more on the sensation. If you are pleasuring yourself, show him how you do it, then maybe he can understand what feels good for you.
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Ok. Whenever you are having sex and you feel yourself get really wet you are cumming. Not everyone can orgasm. I thought something was wrong with me, so i went to see my gyno and she said it was perfectly normal. Not everyone can experience the big O. If you feel differently, try different positions with your guy. Sometimes you can get off better doing it in strange ways, other than the standard missionary. SO my advice is to buy a kama sutra book and try all of the positions in it. If this still doesn't work try oral sex if you are up for it. If you still have nothing i recommend going to see your gyno. They will definately be able to help you with the problem. Good luck!!!
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tell him to make it about you. in other words going down on you, fingering, playing with your nipples, ext . . . if he does enough of these things before insertion is made you can get turned on enough to will you will orgasm.
(i know this from "lets talk sex" with sue.)
if that fails just watch her show on sunday nights on the oxygen channel. she is very helpfull.
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Go to clitical.com and click on guys, they have several tips that he can use.
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Every person is different in that sense. I'm a contributor to The Vagina Monologues, and we try to embrace these differences. Some girls can't even have orgasm, but I wouldn't worry about that if you enjoy it anyway. If you just take things slower, it might be easier to orgasm. Don't worry; there's absolutely nothing wrong with not being able to orgasm. It's actually quite normal.
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Well I havnt had sex but I know lots about it. Just take it slower. See if he can wait a little longer so you guys can both cum together. Just dont rush it basically. Good Luck and I hope I helped!
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