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Ok i like this dude we call Mouse. My "friend" Gail is totally obsessed with him and loves him to death and has for like 4 years. The thing is, they have never went out, and he can't stand her! he told me and all his friends earlier that he can't stand her cuz she tries to control who he likes and who he dates and she freaks out on anyone he likes or dates so that they get scared off. then he told me on the way home that he likes me and yea i defenitly like him ...a lot! and anyways, Gail said that she isn't going to stop me if i wanna go out with him and that she won't get mad at me. but Louann says that since Gail is my friend I shouldn't go out with Mouse. and that if I did go out with Mouse then she (Louann) would get mad at me and either hurt me or not talk to me (unless its yelling) ever again. but yea, i really really really really like Mouse.....how can i get Louann to accept that me and Mouse wanna go out??? (link)
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You need to do what is best for you. If Louann...or anyone else doesn't like you for it then so be it. He is not commited to your friend Gail just because she happens to like him. They will all need to get it throuogh their heads that the guy just doesn't like Gail. He likes you. Go for it...you are doing nothing wrong. Good luck. :)
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i like these two guys they r awesome but now i have to choose and i dont kno what to do. one lives in the same city i do and the other one lives 1 hour away. they are both super sweet to me and i can talk to both of them about anything. i dont kno what to do im so confused. please help me with my love triangle oh yes and they both like me wich makes it even harder because no matter what im going to break someones heart and im not good with that. please help me. (link)
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I think you would be happier dating someone who lived where you do. The guy who is an hour away wouldn't be able to see you much so I doubt it would work out very well. :)
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Ok well i went over to my friends house the other day and we smoked a cigerrette. It was my first time ever b/c i was to scared to do it before. But at first i took a rele small breath and rele didn't taste anything, and then after i got use to it i took bigger breaths. I kno usually when sum1 first trys a cigerette they cough, feel dizzy, or wanna throw up. But when i first tried it i rele liked it and wanted more. So my friends lit another and i helped smoked that and i still wanted another one..but thats was ebough. So now it's the next day and i wanans moke again. im rele scared bc/ i wanna do it again rele rele bad but i don't wanna get addicted or get lung cancer. What should I do.. please help? cna't i smoke for like a couple more weeks then stop..i mean i'm a teen and wanna hav fun and not always be good. thanks (link)
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As a smoker I am gonna tell you don't even start. It is an extremely hard habit to break. 1-2 weeks will lead to years and you really don't want that. Besides they are very expensive and a waste of money. Trust me...there are other ways of being a rebellious teen! :)
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okay i want to get a big butt cus i have big breast so all i need is a big butt any excercise i could do to get a big butt i need it before august 12th for my b-day party
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You WANT a big butt? Be careful what you wish for young one...you might get it. Then you'll spend the rest of your days trying to get rid of it! Be happy with what you have. You're 12. Your butt will catch up. I don't think there is any exercises for this particular problem. :)
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I just had surgery and i can't really walk very well and i have to go to registration at middleschool in 2 days. I am not sure if i will be better by then and i am nervous that people will think i am a weirdo if i walk around limping. What should i do? (link)
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I know they have the big registration day at schools. However, you can register anytime after they start the registrations. You can go in the day before school starts and register if you want to. So, unless there is some class you're afraid you won't get into if you don't go on reg. day, just wait until you feel better. :)
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get ready for a long one..please help!
ok well one day i met this girl online, jackie, she seemed cool..over time we became best friends and called eachother all the time and stuff, gave eachother b-day presents in the mail (( by the way i live in fl and she lives in Ny )) and yah well one day i scammed her favorite sn and jackie didnt know it was me..yes she has a verry good reason to dislike me!!.. so0o its been about a year and i told her..she hated me for a while, but we soon became friends. now on the othher hand, jackie has a friend named paige and she is always trying to break me and jackie up..well she finally did, paige hacked all of jackies sns and then changed the password to caroline,((that was the pw of the sn i scammed)), and made it look all like i did it but i didnt and jackie doesnt belive me, now shes leaving me nasty messages and mean calls on my phone and i didnt hack it i tryed to explain that to jackie, but i want my best friend back, please help me!! will rate HIGH
luv, x3 hannah
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Sometimes things can come back to haunt you big time! I can and so can you I bet, understand why she thinks it was you again. All you can do is try to make her believe you. Just keep talking with her if she allows it and sooner or later the truth is going to come out. Paige will let something slip or she will just start hearing what your trying to tell her. Good luck. :)
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Okay, so I'm engaged.
I have a friend with whom I used to be extremely close. I found out, though, after I started dating this guy, that she'd had a crush on him for quite a while.
Just so there are no misconceptions, I'm going to emphasize that I didn't know she liked him before I started dating him. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone out with him.
I was talking to my fiance - he's friends with her too. From what he told me, I think she still likes him. She doesn't know we're engaged. He started to tell her on line, but she signed off before he could and hasn't spoken to him since.
She's going to find out at some point, but I'd like to tell her in a way that won't...hurt her too much, I suppose.
Is there a way to tell her without going "oh by the way we're engaged" so heartlessly?
The thing is, I could say that, but she'd never admit to me that she still has feelings for him because she wouldn't want me to feel bad.
Any suggestions?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down.
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I do think if its possible you should tell her in person. If not then you should at least tell her before she hears it from someone else. I think if she still has feelings for him she will be hurt regardless. I think you will just have to come right out and tell her you two are engaged. There really isn't any other way to put it. congratulations! :)
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ok. here's the deal. I loved my boyfriend sooo much. we went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing. but he really was drunk cause my friend went to a bar before we went swimming and she said he was hammered. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. yesturday, he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Shoould I believe what he says? I really need help! PLEASE HELP! =( (link)
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Don't believe a word he says until the girlfriend he has is history. He has already cheated on you with a friend of yours. He may be using you so just keep an eye out and don't trust him. Sorry but that's how I'm seeing it. :)
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i have always been a dancer, and all of my friends were dancers too. but then middle school came and me and my friends did dance and band. i was the only one of my friends who kept doing band because i really enjoyed being in drumline, and now being in high school all my old friends are on the dance team, and i have tons of new friends from drumline. i love hanging out with my old friends but it seems we dont have much in common anymore. i always come home from drumline all happy, or when im hanging out with my drumline friends im always having fun and not worrying about drama or any other crap like that, but then i go back to my other friends and theres all this drama and they talk about stuff that they do and will do right in front of me, even though they dont plan on inviting me. i just get upset and depressed around them. the thing is that weve been friends since elementary school and i cant just dump them, and they get all upset when i dont hang out with them. and im really starting to get sick of it all. please help me! what should i do!? (link)
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Hang out with the drum-line friends because they make you happy. Doesn't matter how long you have been friends with the others...people change. I'm not saying you ditch the dancers altogether just don't make them the main friends you hang out with anymore. Of they ask why...tell them same as you told us. You leave me out of your plans, you talk around me when I'm with you like I don't exist and you all depress me. life is to short for all that drama...have fun! :)
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I have been in a fight with my best friend for about a week and I have no idea what to do to make us friends again. The fight was over a really stupid reason. She used to have me change her myspace because she didn't know how to do the colors or anything. Well, I haven't really looked at it in a while since she wasn't allowed to go on it anymore. She claims about a month ago she went on and fixed it the way she liked and that I changed it. So she's being seriously retarded about it and won't forgive me. So what should I do? Don't say forget about her she's an idiot (I know she is already) because I don't want to end our friendship over this. (link)
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I guess if she really had it changed the way she liked it she needs to change it back. Seriously, that's a pretty petty reason to be mad at someone.
If you messed up her my space apologize one time and leave it up to her to come crawling back. Don't just keep apologizing over and over again.
If you didn't mess it up then tell her you aren't going to apologize for something you didn't do. Tell her you hate to break up a friendship over something as stupid as this. Let her apologize to you. I think you might need to see if there is something else bothering her that is making her act like this. Good luck :)
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OK my cousin is pretty much a slut. she's 11. she wheres really tight shirts that go up past her bellybutton along with a really short skirt. She wears VERY thick padded bras so she uses a C cup. When someone calls her a slut she giggles and says "nuh uh..!" And I'm gettin sick of it because my friends are like "how does it feel to have an 11 yr old have bigger boobs than you" and honestly i really dont care because im not fake but no one realizes that. and on top or it, she brags about gettin slapped in the ass by other guys and she shaves which i dont think she should be doing when she's 11 even though its not my choice. What can do to help her without gettin her upset?? (link)
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The thing is if her parents allow her to wear that kind of garbage then she probably won't listen to you (as you have probably discovered).
The only thing I can think of is maybe let your mom know what is being said by your friends about your cousin and maybe having her or your dad talk to her parents. If they honestly don't care then do your best to make her understand that she is on the wrong path. If she doesn't listen then at least you know you tried your best. :)
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this is for my bff, im trying to help him through this...14/m. well my gf & i have been together for almost 6 months. we rarely see each other because we are so busy & when we do, she ignores me or hangs out with everyone but me even if its my party. she doesnt hug me a whole lot either & we've never kissed. i was away from her & during that time i saw & hung out with my gal pal that i hadnt seen in about a year. she likes me a lot & she does more things than my gf does (she hugs me, thats it!) & gives me attention & really cares about me so i got to like her as more than a friend now. i was planning on breaking up with my gf but after i saw her again yesterday, i fell in love with her all over again. i had loved this girl for several years & this was my chance but then she doesnt treat me right & there are other girls out there who really do care about me. what should i do? my gf i have loved for a long time & the girl that likes me gave me a heart that can be easily broken.
*info on the ladies: the gf is a bit of a tease & needs the attitude adjustment thats long over-due but she can be ok at times.
the other girl is a lot like a gf the guy had that ended up being a huge mistake...shes a bit older, more experienced & she knows he's vunerable. she also likes almost every guy i can think of.
*parents view: mom used to be FOR the breaking up but since the other girl showed up (which she doesnt want him to get involved with) she wants them to stay together.
dad doesnt want him to do anything until school starts so no one knows why he broke up with his gf.
*the bffs view: the other girl isnt my favorite (i agree with the parents) & i dont want to be responsible for the break up...i got them together & i didnt know it would end up like this. the gf was my friend but now not only does he treat him like crap but shes mean to me too.
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Nobody in your life seems to think to highly of this other friend. That doesn't put her out of the running if you really, really care for her but should be a red flag if shes iffy.
Best bet if you really like your current girlfriend is to give her one more try. You might even tell her that you actually considered a break up because of all the things you listed. Even though that might really hack her off big time. Tell her you care enough about her that you really want to work on the problems and see if she doesn't change. You somehow have to get it across to her that you are very serious and that her lack of attention towards you is going to be a relationship breaker. If after all that she doesn't start treating you right...find someone who will. Good luck :)
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Ok i really want to makeout with somebody but i dont know with who or when its a good time?!
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Who...A boy who you have been dating for a while and who you have immense feelings for.
When...You will probably know when you are able to handle it. You should wait until you have known a guy long enough to determine he isn't using you and has genuine feelings for you.
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there are these two guys who attenda summer camp i go to. i think i make both of them nervous because they both seem to shudder or their hands shake so obviously. well i really want to impress them, and i was wondering how can i? (link)
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Sounds to me as if they already are! You should work on making them more at ease around you and not so nervous. Be nice to them, talk to them and let them know you won't bite 'em. :)
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OK.. so i know.. online romances are dangerous.. but this is different. Hes my friends cousins friend! Ive never met him personally but I talk to him online and hes sooo sweet. Hes always telling me how nice i am and that he wished i lived in his town. We joke around and when i talk to him im so happy. we're both 14, and i dont know what to think. we were talking and he said i wish i could see u right now so said me too.. lets run away.. (this whole running away thing was just a fantasy for BOTH of us.. we're not really gunna do it).. and we said we were going to vegas together. and we both plan to go to collage in FL, and if we go to the ones we both want, we'll be kinda close.. miami and tampa. and i really really want that. but idk what to do. should i tell him how i feel?.. if i should .. how do i do it?.. im usually very outgoing.. but with this im kinda shy. and wow.. so please just give me your honest opinion on the whole situation. I rate high for advice I like, and i dont rate at all if i dont like it.. i dont like lowering peoples ratings for one question. Thanks in advance! (link)
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I think you should continue being friends for now. You are honestly to far apart to date . If you can stay friends until you actually have a chance to meet then you can talk about your feelings. Sometimes a person can write a good game but be totally different in the real world. I'm not saying that's the case with your guy but make sure first. :)
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I know this one girl, lets call her Natasha. Natasha goes to this high school that's pretty close to my high school so i see her pretty often. I really like her alot, but it seems like she never notices me. we met once but i don't think she remembers. She's always hanging around these other people i know who are also my friends. How am i gonna get her to notice me? (link)
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Go talk to her. Smile a lot, be nice and see what kind of reaction you get. If she doesn't turn her nose up and ignore you...ask her out! Good luck :)
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I'm a 15-year old female. I've liked the same guy for approximately 2 years. I told him about a year ago that I liked him and all he said was "I don't want to get involved." Recently he has begun to act slightly differently towards me. On a mission trip with our church we stayed out and talked after "sharing night" for about half an hour. We would have talked longer, but the leader called us in. When we got up to the dorms, we kind of just stood there and looked at each other for a minute, then went in. It felt like a kissing moment. He'd been asking me if I would mind if he sat by me, instead of just sitting there like he had done previously. I brought him jello last week when he got his teeth pulled and he hugged me as a thank you, which he's never done before. The only times I've ever hugged him is in church. Not that I minded. ;) I'm wondering if I'm reading too much into this. Is this normal friend behavior, or should I "make a move"? (link)
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Since you already told him how you felt a year ago I think You should let him do the asking if hes going to. His behavior could just be friendly. That doesn't mean it won't turn into something more but let him decide. Talk to him and keep doing what you're doing and see what happens. :)
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im 13 and he guy i like is 16. we go to church together and met at church. we have known each other for almost 3 years . when we talk we flirt. he called me for 2 weeks and we almosted kissed twice. we dont talk very much though. he brought 2 girls to church 2 different times and then said sorry for the1st girl. he looks at me in church all the time and we have talkd about going out before but it never happened. he says he likes me and I tell him the same . I am crazy about him what should I do ?
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You do need to talk more. There is only 3 years between you but 16 is a lot more mature than 13. I think you should wait and see if he asks you out. :)
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There was this guy that was 2 years older than me. He was my brothers best friend. I had a huge crush on him. He would always come over and snowboard with us afterschool. One night he spent the night.While we were all watching a movie he put his arm around me in my bed. He started to play with my belly button ring. Later int the night he was feeling me up. All over my boobs and my butt. He started biting my ear.He made me really nervous. THis was all in front of my brother. I had to go to bed he came and layed down with me. He thought he heard my mom and jumped up so he knew he was doing something he shouldnt of. The next day it was like nothing happend. Was I used??
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If you haven't heard from him since then I'm afraid you probably were used. I am surprised your brother put up with it...but then again maybe that's why you haven't heard from him. Might ask your brother to be sure. :)
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I have a boyfriend for about 3 months now. For the past 1 and 1/2 months I have realized I dont really like him anymore. Every time Im out I always check out and flirt with all the guys. The only reason I have been going out with him is because I have someone to go to the movies and someone who will spend their money on. Am I wrong? Should I break up with him and if so how would I do it?
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You should definitely break up with him. It is so wrong to date a guy just so he will take you places and spend money on you! There are plenty of other guys out there who would probably happily go out with you. Let this guy go so you can both find people who you can really like. :)
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