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There was this guy that was 2 years older than me. He was my brothers best friend. I had a huge crush on him. He would always come over and snowboard with us afterschool. One night he spent the night.While we were all watching a movie he put his arm around me in my bed. He started to play with my belly button ring. Later int the night he was feeling me up. All over my boobs and my butt. He started biting my ear.He made me really nervous. THis was all in front of my brother. I had to go to bed he came and layed down with me. He thought he heard my mom and jumped up so he knew he was doing something he shouldnt of. The next day it was like nothing happend. Was I used??
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Hey, It sounds like you were being used but maybe you should talk to him because we all know what older guys have on there mind! or you could ask your brother since he was there?!
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Yes, it does seem like you were used. However, do you like this guy? Did you let him do these things to you, or were you uncomfortable with this? In my opinion if you feel nervous around him, and he does private things with you in front of your family and knows it is innapropriate I say he is not worth your time.
hope I helped,
natalie
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he could like you, but pretended everything was cool the next morning because if your brother found out, it can definately but a strain on his friendship with yuor brother. it could also be that he was just having some fun..so its hard to tell if you were used or if he has feelings for you unless you talk to him about it. so if it were me i would wait until i had some time to talk to him one on one..and mention it..see how he feels..maybe he wants to be friends with benefits..maybe it was a one time thing for him..he could want a relationship..who knows.
talk to him about it
i hope i helped
-melissa :)
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i dont think you were nesicerily used.obviously you liked it cause you didnt stop him..so if you were liking it then you werent used.and i think he played it off like nothing happened the next day cause he doesnt want the whole world to no.maybe he wants to be friends with benifits. or maybe your brother said something to him and told him to stop.but overall i dont think you were used cause you liked it as much as he did.
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Hmm... if you haven't heard from him since... it sounds like you've been used. That's a hard answer; but it's the truth. But you also have to realize that brothers can be protective. Perhaps your brother told his friend "Dude, that's my sister. Back off, dude. Chill." Or something of the like. Talk to your brother and see if his friend mentioned anything. Don't be too dissappointed if you were used. Be careful. =)
-FunnyCide
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Well it depends.. i mean maybe your brother was like man .. thats my sister you know i think i would talk to my brother.. and if not.. talk to him.. and if you really like this boy.. you got him heated once do it again =]
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If you haven't heard from him since then I'm afraid you probably were used. I am surprised your brother put up with it...but then again maybe that's why you haven't heard from him. Might ask your brother to be sure. :)
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