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Mouse, Gail, and Louann
Ok i like this dude we call Mouse. My "friend" Gail is totally obsessed with him and loves him to death and has for like 4 years. The thing is, they have never went out, and he can't stand her! he told me and all his friends earlier that he can't stand her cuz she tries to control who he likes and who he dates and she freaks out on anyone he likes or dates so that they get scared off. then he told me on the way home that he likes me and yea i defenitly like him ...a lot! and anyways, Gail said that she isn't going to stop me if i wanna go out with him and that she won't get mad at me. but Louann says that since Gail is my friend I shouldn't go out with Mouse. and that if I did go out with Mouse then she (Louann) would get mad at me and either hurt me or not talk to me (unless its yelling) ever again. but yea, i really really really really like Mouse.....how can i get Louann to accept that me and Mouse wanna go out???
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Don't go out with Mouse. I don't care what Gail says, if she loves him to death she obviosly will be totally crushed if her good friend goes out with him. If you do it'd be totally selfish of you.
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Talk to her about it. She may understand if you just calmly explain it to her. If she doesn't understand, don't go out with him. You don't want to risk a friendship over some boy. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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Louann is just jealous probably and looking out for her friend. If Gail gave you permission, which she did, then you shouldn't be stopped. Also, tell Gail what Louann said. Hhope it all works out.
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you shouldn't worry about what Louann has to say about it. if she is really your friend as well then she should let you go out with him and let you be happy. but then again...
if your "friend" Gail has liked him longer than you then maybe you are wrong for liking him in the first place cuz that is your friends obsession. and you shouldn't try and take him. its not very nice.
but also if he wants nothing to do with her and likes you and only you then theres really not much you can do. espescially if you like him like that as well.
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Just talk to her, tell her what Gail said and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't accept it, then oh well. You really don't need her approval to go out with him.
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You need to do what is best for you. If Louann...or anyone else doesn't like you for it then so be it. He is not commited to your friend Gail just because she happens to like him. They will all need to get it throuogh their heads that the guy just doesn't like Gail. He likes you. Go for it...you are doing nothing wrong. Good luck. :)
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Get Louann and Gail together, and talk about the subject with the three of you.
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