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theres this guy whos one of my best friends. i think he might be gay but im not really sure and he says he isnt but he reallly acts it. hes only had one girlfriend and another friend of his likes him (a girl) but he doesnt like her. he doesnt know i like him and i dont know if i should tell him cause i dont think he likes me. hes DEFINATELY not looking for a girlfriend right now. i just dont know what to do! please help! should i tell him? (link)
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You can tell him if you like.
You never know if someone is gay unless the tell you they are. Please do not label a person unless you do know for sure. So long as you like him his preference shouldn't matter from a friendship point of view. If he isn't looking for a girlfriend right now then just stay friends.
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hey guys im 13 and i met this guy over my friends site. she knows him and he has sent me a pic of him and my best friend says it's him. i think hes cool but he just doesnt see, like my type. should i go for it or just stay as friends. btw he is 15 (link)
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As long as you know who he is then I see no reason for you not to be friends. Get to know him through email or IM. You do not have to date him until you get to know him better. :)
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OKay, so one thursday night I went over to this guy (muh friend) house wit muh friend and we all drank wit his friends nd smoked nd shit and well me and Ewell like eachother and I dunno..he wants to be wit me but Im juss scared b/c of past relationships..so we ended up havin sex and I was real scared b/c I was drunk as fuck and at first didnt realize shit and then I realized he NEVER used a condom but I know he pulled out and everything and he never said anything went wrong and HE WOULD IF HE DID soo yeah.. So then on the next night (Friday) muh ex (friend) picked me and muh friend up and dropped her off and I went back wit him to his house and we had sex..Now I might sound like a HOE but believe me IM NOT..I juss lost muh virginity this year and it was from the one guy I went wit Friday night..I loved him and still do nd shit soo yeah..but now when we get together we do hookup soo I dunno..I cant lt go..The other guy..Man I didnt even wanna have sex wit him but I was drunk and people do stupid shit.. I feel so fuckin down about it but I cant change it now..now when I chill wit him Im afraid to even kiss him b.c I don t want it to lead to sex..and he doesnt have a prob wit that soo yeahh.. but anyways back to muh whole point..well I knew I was gonna be gettin muh period between the thurs*Saturday.. Saturday I got muh period.. Now here it is aug 1 and I had a normal period and everything and it ended nd shit but now I feel sick (not in the morning) or im not hungry sometimes but I eat and I dunno..I feel bloated but I already had muh period..Is it possiable to be pregnant if I already got muh period after those 2 nights wit those guys? Could I have gottin muh period still and now that its over could I be pregnant? im scared as hell im only 16 and I dunno..im scared as fuck and need advice...QUICKKKKKK!!! Thanks (link)
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There have been cases of women being pregnant and still having their period....though rare. Try a home pregnancy kit and see what happens.
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sorry if this is long but i could so use some advice. ok well i went out with this one guy about a year ago who well call joe and i really really liked him and then i had to go away for a week. when i came back we seemed fine and we went and hung out like we always did and then one night apparently he was talking to my best friend who well call sue. well i guess he told her he only wanted us to be friends and he had her break up with me the next day. well obviously it really hurt and everything and i didnt understand. it took us a while to get over the whole thing but now were best friends again and its been this way for about 10 months. i trust him with my life and tell him everything and there are times when he really trusts me too. my friends and i think that he flirts with me sometimes and in return i apparently do it back. we both know people think we like each other and he really hates what people think about him. so then he starts to be really mean to me and says im annoying and all this other crap we both know isnt true. i dont do anything back because it will always turn into a fight and we just have to many of those i dont want to add to it. well now i think that i have a crush on him again but im really afraid what hes going to do if he finds out. i dont know whether i should just try really hard not to like him or whether i should just let him know. he thinks i do like him but whenever he asks who i like i always say no one. also, if you think i should stop liking him is there anyway thats really easy to take my mind off him cause we hang out so much its not like i can stop going near him. thanks so much and ill rate high if its good advice!!
~Leah, 14~ (link)
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If you like him, you like him. Next time he asks tell him so. Say well, I like you but since you don't feel the same we will just stay friends. See what he has to say about that. Since he probably already know this I don't think it will change anything. :)
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How canI tell my boyfriend I am still in love with him . I am 14year old.
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So long as you are still his girlfriend he probably knows. I think you should tell someone when you like them though so they don't wonder. You just simply tell them. :)
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alright, so i really like this guy named Gentry, and he is a grade olde rthan me, hes going to be a sohmore in HS. So he and this girl named alanna went out, and they are still reptty tight, but i hang out with gentry and im SOO confused if he likes me or not--its too hard to tell! he sends mixed signals liek alanna told me hes jsut shy though and its like okayy well when will he make a move!? maybe my hopea are too high, but its not likei will be sad if he doesnt like me, i just want to know if he likes me or not so i can just stop liking him! my birthdya is in 2 days, and i just wanna be with him...but i wanna move onto another guy! oh yeah and since hes shy shold i make the first move? what should i do?!!?
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If you like him then tell him so and see what he has to say. It could be that he likes you as a friend but does not want to date you. We like different people for different reasons. :)
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I met this guy on myspace. He's really nice and hes my age. He was sweet, and he asked for my number. I said maybe tomorrow. He lives far away, like theres a few states in between us. He told me he liked me, and there was something about me. I'm nervous, and I just have mixed emotions and I just dont know what to do right now. Please, any advice. (link)
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You don't have to date him. As a matter of fact dating him is probably not even possible at the moment with him not living close by. That doesn't mean you can't be friends and write back and forth. You may want to consider doing that for awhile. As always, be cautious of anyone you meet on the internet. Don't give out your personal info to anyone you do not know. :)
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ok so theres this guy and i like him so much and i know theres probably nothing i can do but...i need to, i have to, i hate being without him...its crazy and it all happened so fast and i dont know what to do...but look...i like him he likes me but he doesn't want a relationship...id like one, because i want that commitment. i want him to be mine and only mine....you know...what do i do !?!?! help please please help.. (link)
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He likes me but he doesn't want a relationship says it all. He may like you as a friend but may not want to date you. He may just not want to date anyone right now. Regardless of the reason, that's the way he feels. He knows you like him so leave it at that. If you bother him about it he may turn on you and not like you at all...don't want that to happen. :)
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alright, i like this kid, and we've hung out and stuff, and i've liked him since i first met him, then when i started to get to know him more i liked him more and more as we went along, we stopped talking for a while [ we both had a lot going on ] and then the other night he IMed me and we went for a walk, i started liking him allll over again. i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not, because i don't want things to be really weird, & because if he doesnt like me back i dont want to deal with his friends [who are semi- my friends too ] knowing about it because it'll make them weird around me too.
sorry its so long, i tried to give a lot of info :\ (link)
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I think the fact that he went on a walk with you should be enough to let you know that he likes you! So, if you like him then let him know it. :)
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I like this guy and ive gotten like 8 people 2 ask him out 4 me and ive tried asking him out myself but the words wont come out. he always changes the subject but still tells them(the 8 people) he likes me. i dont know wat his problem is. he said 1 of the reasons he wont go out wit me is because he dosent know if i live near him/if he has any way 2 get 2 me but i live in the apartment comlex next to his. i was thinking about going over to pay a visit but do you think that would freak him out or be stocker like? pleez help with any part of my problem...ill rate 5!
p.s you can im me at scchik0845
thanx
*~*kat*~*
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I think it would be okay for you to visit him...just talk to him and don't lurk in the shadows :)
Or, you could simply tell him where you live. If you get no positive response then leave him alone, he may like you but not be interested in dating anyone at the moment...don't want to make him mad. :)
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ok im icey0990 and H3YSEXII copied my answer to a question..how do i report her so she gets kicked off or something?
http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=359930
there is the link to the question where she copied my answer.,
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Icey -
This has been taken care of. To report things in the future there is an abuse report feature in the blue column to your left. Just be sure to include the link...same as you did here. :)
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of him..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was hear heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing go just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything!! (link)
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If he cares for you as you do for him then you won't have a problem. You have already told him what they are up to and you'll just have to hope hes smart enough to ignore them. You should to because so long as they are getting you upset they are going to continue their childish behavior. Friends that are going to act this way toward you are not true friends either. Sounds like you need to fire a couple of them. :)
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my ex and i have gone through a lot and well i love him but he says im wasting my time trying i dont know what to do.should i just give up or should i keep trying (link)
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Usually when someone says you're wasting your time trying they really mean it. He doesn't want you bothering him any more is what he is trying to nicely tell you. Time to move on I'm afraid. :)
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After about 10 minutes into a shower i'll start to get dizzy, my head will hurt, my vision fades, and i seriously feel like im gonna be sick. this has happened to me a few times in the past off and on but now its becoming ritual (and its only when i shower). its so bad that i'm not even able to finish showering. does anyone know what's going on and does this happen to anyone else? i've tryed opening windows and changing my products but nothing helps. i'm at the point where i'm seriously afraid to shower lol... i'll take any advice i can get, thanks
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Maybe you have a bit of claustrophobia? Or it could be you're using really hot water. If it keeps up go get checked out by your doctor because you shouldn't be afraid to take a shower.:)
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ok so this saturday is my friends birthday and there is going to be funday at this park (not an amusement park) along with fireworks.. i want to go but my dad got tickets to see a baseball game (only a $10 ticket) and they are staying overnight
half of me really wants to stay home so i can have friends over and have a good time while my parents and family is out..but part of me feels guilty because i saw how disappointed my dad was when i told him i want to maybe stay back
he said i could stay back if i slept over a friends house (i would really stay at my house) but i dont know if i should chose going with my family or staying back
***my fam and i already saw a mets game, tony hawk skate show, and a pro softball game so its not like we never do stuff together..but im alwways hangin with friends**
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My suggestion is going to be that you spend time with family. Those days will be the ones you remember one of these days. Besides having friends over while parents are out will only get you in hot water....or could. They wouldn't trust you again for quite some time. Go to the game and have fun! :)
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my friend told me jlo died? omg is this true? (link)
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No she is still alive and surprisingly still married to Marc Anthony....:)
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does water help your voice? if you want to sing (link)
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Water is good for your singing. Lemons...if you can stand raw ones, will help your vocal chords too. :)
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can you run with ur ipod on? (link)
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If you want to. :)
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ok can someone give me lyrics to Be That Girl By like Aylloson or something like that or can someone please find me a site were i can download the song or somewhere i can listen to it! i will rate high!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 5555555555555 (link)
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Limewear is a decent download site if you have the patience to wait on it. For the song lyrics simply write the song title in your web browser and you will find lots of sites. :)
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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
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It could very well have been the beginning of your period. It could be that you were irritated by the condom. There aren't any STDs that cause bleeding that I'm aware of. If you don't start your period soon get check by a doctor. I don't think its much to worry about. He should check his facts before going off about it to you but boyfriends aren't always real smart about a girls feelings. And, if it should come to him leaving for some reason you would do fine. :)
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