theres this guy whos one of my best friends. i think he might be gay but im not really sure and he says he isnt but he reallly acts it. hes only had one girlfriend and another friend of his likes him (a girl) but he doesnt like her. he doesnt know i like him and i dont know if i should tell him cause i dont think he likes me. hes DEFINATELY not looking for a girlfriend right now. i just dont know what to do! please help! should i tell him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x15danni15x answered Monday August 1 2005, 5:29 pm: well mabe he is gay and doesnt want anyone to find out, or he could just not want a girlfriend right now...but either way you should still tell him how you feel about him, whats the worst that could happen? him telling you that he doesnt want a girlfriend right now, its not going to be the end of the world...he could like you back you never know until you tell him...hope i helped
xWhatsernamEx answered Monday August 1 2005, 4:59 pm: Well, deffinatly don't play games with him, if you're going to tell him. Tell him now, don't wait and say in 10 years "I've liked you all of my life" (I've learned it kind of creeps guys out :-P) Be straighfoward with this guy, tell him how you feel. Even if he doesn't like you back, when he get's older, he may see something in you that he really likes and be intrested, then he won't feel akward telling you, because he'll already know you like him. Just follow your heart. Good luck ♥ Kate [ xWhatsernamEx's advice column | Ask xWhatsernamEx A Question ]
karenR answered Monday August 1 2005, 4:54 pm: You can tell him if you like.
You never know if someone is gay unless the tell you they are. Please do not label a person unless you do know for sure. So long as you like him his preference shouldn't matter from a friendship point of view. If he isn't looking for a girlfriend right now then just stay friends. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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