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Hey im a 15 year old male and have been texting this girl for about 4 months.we've gone for walks and kissed 3 times but arent officially going out.i really really like her and she says she likes me too,but shes going away for 2 months now and i dont know what to do.i feel like theres nothing for me when shes not here and i need her company because it makes me so happy.i honestly dont think i can last 2 months without her.please help me is there anything i can do?

I understand how you feel, for hubby and I everything in life is more fun even the ordinary stuff just because the partner is there experiencing it with you. But you also know you don;t need her to have joy in life. So think of an activity you like and focus on that and time will go by faster. If you sit doing nothing the time will drag on. Maybe even earn some summer this summer...walking dogs, doing mowing or washing cars for folks. and when she's back you'll have money to treat her out. Keeping yourself occupied is the key

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One of my best friend's having her 13th birthday next month. She's going to have a few friends (probably around 8 girls) around for a sleepover. Last year she did the same thing, and though it was fun, it was quite dull, and plain. So i just wanted a few ideas to liven it up, seeing as it's her 13th. Something we'll remember for ever. Something exiting and impulsive, Perhaps at her local park? Anyway, thanks.

BTW we can't go anywhere far away. Though we can go to the park.

:)

I remember the 13th birthday with all my daughters. It seemed the popular thing was to have friends give money instead of gifts. and I and another mom dropped em off at the mall so they could help her go pick out clothes or makeup or whatever to spend her money on and of course take pics of trying things on. Then back to the house for pizza dinner and sleepover. Only cost to mom is her time and gas to mall and back and the pizza

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She hasn't been eating & she was laying on my floor & blood just came out of her bum. It's hard for her to walk and lift herself up. I've been trying to get her to eat. Does it mean she has worms?

Worms would be in the stool. With humans, fresh blood is sometimes a sign of bad case of hemorrhoids. I have no idea what a vet does for an animal with that. Just take your pet to the vet. If money is tight, find a low cost vet in your area. They advertise that they are low cost.

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21 f.
I miss my old friends. I moved to nyc a while ago and its been hard to make friends. Ive been in school and work for so long that I never really cared about having friends. Now that summer is here all I see on facebook are people out with friends or hanging out and that makes me so sad cause I cant do the same! Im not in school right now its summer break so I cant make friends there. Is there any other way I can make friends? Places? Sites? Seriously haha. I feel horrible knowing I cant just go to the mall with a girlfriend. Im not talking about a boyfriend btw haha. Just girl friends.


Thanks for any advice in advance:)

Check on line for Meetup.com for your zipcode area. You can find people who gather together for similar likes. Anything from playing a favorite board game, to energy healing, to cat lovers, etc... Its a good way to meet people. Worked for my daughter when all her friends moved away, went to college or married.

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So basically, I'm 14 and I've been dating this guy for four months. The first two months were amazing; he made me feel like I was the only girl around. But then I started noticing that he wasn't that communicative and on my birthday he just texted me saying, "happy birthday XD". After doing so much for him, I was hurt. Then recently, I went for a vacation and when I came back, I found out that he "partially" likes another girl ; a girl a hate. I suggested a break because I was too hurt and also because if I would show my sadness he'd end up crying and making me feel much worse. I don't know what to do. I told him we get a chance to start over but I love him alot. Please suggest me something which I can do!

At your age, all teens are just starting to experience and learn about dating, usually through the school of hard knocks....by making lots of mistakes. So he has no idea what to do yet to do it the right way. If You are honest with yourself, you don;t know everything yet either. So if you think this guy is worth being with, and care about him that much, then have a heart to heart talk.
See if he will agree to a set of rules you both create and promise to abide by, boundaries you do not cross. One would be total honesty with each other. This means if at some point you realize you no longer have interest, you dont go for someone else behind their back. You own up to your feelings and be honest even if it hurts becuase to go behind someones back hurts worse. Part of experiencing dating is the joys and part is the hurts. You will experience both in your life. You'll figure out what else needs to be set as a rule. If he's unwilling, he's not serious, move on to someone else.

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I'm a young girl on my period. I'm not too concerned about it but it seems like every time I go to bed then wake up, there isn't that much blood on the tampon. My blood is a little heavy too. Is that normal?

I didn't flow much either while laying down, Only on my heavy days.
It could be the angle of your vagina too while laying down. IHow long it takes your body to return to normal varies with each woman wouldn't be concerned about this. A plus is that you don't flood and ruin sheets and mattress with bloodstains.

When you are upright, you have heavier than normal periods all the time? If it continues to be a problem so that you flood your pads full just after replacing them and 10 min later have to do it again, then something isn't normal. What Dr.s do to remedy that is put you on the pill. My daughter had a girlfriend who had to do that at age 13 i think.

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Okay ladies me & my significant other just decided that we want another child. Im in mid pack of my birth control. Is it okay if I just throw it out?? I know ill have withdrawl bleeding a few days after I stop taking them. But is there any dangers if I stop now??

Thanks Ahead of Time for ur responses (:

The only time you need to finish a pack and stay consistent is if you Don't want to become pregnant, so if you're ready, then stop taking and throw them out. The pills were making your body think it was already pregnant so trying to get pregnant right after stopping the pill is not an instant thing.Getting pregnant won't likely happen until you have a normal monthly cycle again. It is recommended that you use a condom until your period has re-established itself for sure...two months in a row consistent time each month is a good sign. Then stop using the condom and try for a baby. This way when there is no period you know its due to being pregnant and not due to remaining effects of the pill.

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So hey guys, I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible.. So i was a dancer for a sweet 16, the 16 was on Saturday, we went in the limo and everything, and so my dancing partner and i acted like we were boyfriend & girlfriend... The whole day.. Anyways, the sweet 16 girls aunt uploaded a picture of us with his arm around me, and another one with us holding hands, and another one with me sitting on his lap with his arm around jr and us holding hands, well he doesn't have a Facebook, but his mom and grandma do. His mom commented 'that girl has a sweet and beautiful mother in law' on another one she commented 'next time you two should sit down with me and have a talk, it's my first time being a mom in law' his grandma commented 'am i gonna be a great grandma?' And his mom calls me her 'daughter in law' on another pic she commented 'i got the good news, and it's been confirmed that they're together!' .... does this mean he told his mom were going out ? Does she like me? Is he my boyfriend? If we are together, does it mean I'm his first girlfriend? Please answer! Thanks in advanced :)

I am totally lost as to whats going on. A sweet 16 birthday celebration and being dance partners does not equate to being married or engaged to be married in any culture that I know of. What is his families cultural background? Some countries promise their children in marriage to someone when they are born. Maybe it's the way they think due to their cultural heritage. I dont have the info so I dont know.

For his family and relatives to be throwing 16 yrs old together in their minds and assuming they are now in laws sounds a bit wacky to me.

You are not "together" with anyone accidently. There is no accident to two people being a dating couple. The two need to have mutual interest in each other and be attracted to each other and have a conversation with each other with one asking the other if they'd like to begin dating each other.
At 16, a person has many years ahead to date several different people to determine what they do and dont like in a partner. You will refine your list over time before you decide to marry or settle into a long term relationship.
I personally don't like the idea of parents and relatives placing such pressure on young people and putting these ideas of marriage into their minds. Do not trust anything you did not get from the horses mouth, meaning trust only what comes from the boys own mouth. This 16 yr old boy has to say something to you about having interest in you and wanting to date you, not mention it to family and ask them to find a way to get you two together. Thats a very bad sign. It would mean not only does he not have the guts to ask you, he's probably a mama's boy and will do whatever Mama and family says. So dating or marrying someone like that means you will have to deal with medddling relatives who are making your life miserable.

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my wife and my daughter's mother is currently in jail for the next eight months for financial crimes. My daughter seems to be taking it fine. She is acting normally and doing her every day things. One time she did say it is kind of funny her mom is now being ordered around and being punished but I think she is just joking around. I think it is OK to crack a joke in a situation instead of being hysterical about it. But some say this behavior of hers is actually not normal. How?

It depends who the someones saying its not normal are. Is it just friends and neighbors and family or is it a professional counselor the family has been seeing. If a professional says it's not normal, find out w hat they recommend to help. I do not know if your daughter is school age or adult. Children have built in coping mechanisms when they are faced with traumatic things in childhood of which, having a parent jailed would be one, physical abuse, or neglect is others...there are many things that can be traumatic. Once the child grows to adult hood, the trauma buried inside will erupt in various problems that must be then as an adult handled with professional advice. If your daughter is an adult, you can only advise her to see a counselor if you see any questional behavior.

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I am a 24 year old female and I share a room with my 11 year old niece and my mom says if we keep our room clean for a month we can decorate it any way we want to but the thing is every time I clean my room my niece Cheyenne messes it up . I cleaned it and rearranged it the other day it took me about 3 hours to do it and she messed it up an hour later no lie . I was so mad because I am a neat freak but our room is really small and we don't have hardly anywhere to put our stuff. All we have is 2 closet's and one dresser. one of the closets is mine and the other closet belongs to my niece and we share the dresser. so almost everything ends up under the beds or stuffed in the closets and dressers how are we suppose to organize it ? we don't have anywhere to put movies ,cd's , and books and we have more clothes than we have room for .
also how am I suppose to compromise with an 11 year old on how to decorate the room when I am 24 ? please help any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks .

There are stores whose main inventory is all items that help organize and creatively store and find places for your stuff.
There are large flat containers on mini wheels that slide under the bed and the seasonal clothes you don't wear at the time can go there or put in plastic bags and then into rectangle plastic bins that can be stored in attic or garage. You both may want to still pare down the amount of clothes you have. For your entry door, hang a shoe organizer. Find one that will take the maximum amount of shoes. I have seen collapse netting and board organizers that can hang in a closet or from a mooly screw hook in ceiling. Use these mini hanging shelves for socks, underwear, etc. L brackets and a board across will serve as a nice shelf on the wall on your side of room. I don't understand why you have the living arrangements you do, but these are hard economical times. So if this is what you are stuck with, you can do the best to organize but a small room and an 11 yr old, are still going to make it tough going.

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hi ive been trying not to purge but I just did 12 times...13f btw. how does one stop being bulimic?

Most anyone would say that you need to being getting some supportive counseling. I dont know if that is currently happening. If not, its a good thing to try.

As a person without psinner voice will tell you if he's being hychology training, just knowing what I know from life experience, sometimes it helps really well in addition to what the textbooks say, because your mind will be able to relate to it.

It is becoming widespread today, 10 yr olds and up who have a poor body image complex and so they diet and try all the fashions and makeup and hairstyles. Forever they are trying to look like the girls in the TV ads targeted at young girls to get their money. Marketers weren't getting enough sales on products from older women...maybe its due to the economy and something had to go off the budget. But the trends and polls show that many 10-14 yr olds have their own money to spend. The marketers then began to focus on convincing the young girls that they needed to look like celebrities and models do at their age.

It's all a big lie to make money off of you. Do you know that your body has another 12 years of growing before all of it will be as mature as it will get including your brain which matures at mid twenties. What your body looks like now is not what it will look like at 25. Go check on line and put a search for celebrities without makeup on. I think you will be shocked just at their faces, what they look like in real life before holly-wood makeup artists did their tricks and optical illusions with makeup. The fact is that there is no such thing as normal people looking anything like what movies and ads tell us they do. So you end up striving to be something that is not real. You have just about as much chance at striving and becoming a fire breathing dragon as you do of becoming this image of a beautiful woman that you have inside your head because neither one is REAL!

Here are two facts in life. Kids your age do not have good judgement yet since their brains aren't done becoming mature until mid twenties so they make bad decisions, one of which is picking on their peers for their weight, their clothing, their looks, their beliefs, their race..etc. Know that its all what they believe in their heads, you don't have to accept and believe what they say. It's not easy but spend the time hanging with those who have nothing to prove and are happy to be themselves and you will find acceptance.

The other fact is that when we finally grow into adults, all people develop their own personal tastes in what attracts them appearance wise to another. There are men who would not look at a thin petite woman like me twice because they are attracted to Big chubbier women. Some prefer woman younger than themselves and others prefer woman way older than themselves ranging from 10-20 yrs older, some like the mothering nurturing type while others are attracted to the businesswoman type. Some are actually turned off by women with the fake boobs and liposuctions and makeup etc. I know...I attract the ones who like the natural look and I am in my fifties. I am surprised at how many men will make comments to me, and i am married, that they find me very attractive. I have some very visible wrinkles but that doesnt matter. They know it comes with age. Honey don't change who you are to try to fit a mold that is fake to begin with. There are many guys who will find you to be special because they notice the sweet person inside, not just the looks on the outside. It's the average natural looking girls who have an easier time finding a man to marry someday because the guys who want them want the real thing, not some holly wood fake so this needs to addressed in your sub conscious. A professional can take you through this. But you can start talking to your sub conscious. I know you know this is not good or you would not be trying to consciously stop. Problem is your sub conscious where all your feeling and emotions come from may not be on the same page with you as your conscious mind, therefore when you try, you find yourself failing.
If you havent talked to yourself and answered yourself before, now is the time to learn how. You will find this very helpful throughout your life. Just start asking yourself questions and you will eventually begin to have the answers pop into your head. Its much like there are two of you inside of you. If its easier give your subconscious self another name. Eventually you can find out what name she prefers. My subconsious told me to call her Selena. So I do. Just start getting used to talking to yourself and you may discover what her fears or concerns are. Whenever you feel sad or upset, or fearful or angry, it's time to tune in to your inner self and start asking why. This is important if you wish your mind to become healthier so you can begin to make better decision. Go look up the celebrities without makeup as I mentioned earlier and start working on discovering whats wrong. Then give yourself pep talks about how great you really are and let yourself know you are sorry for putting yourself through all this impossible stuff and the pressure to try to look a certain way. Another thing you could do is look up on line what natural breasts look like with pics submitted by teens thru 20-s mostly but some older. And they have men that love how they look. I have a daughter with one boob larger than the other. Not noticeable in clothing but it is when she is nude. She has a great boyfriend who is attracted to her...no problem for him. Here is that site: http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php

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Right this is a tricky situation! This boy who goes to my school and I've know for like 2 years has recently admitted he fancies me :D but I used to like hoim but not anymore. When I said I didn't like him anymore he said that it dosnt matter he has a girlfriend anyway but that was the same day he said he likes me and wanted to be with me ? Has he really got a girlfriend or did he just say that because I rejected him! And how can you tell if someone actually likes you?? Thanks for your help! :)

Why do you want to know what he meant with what he said or did if you are not interested in him. It doesnt make sense, see? So perhaps you really do have interest in him.

What you need to discover is if he really has a girlfriend. Ask him to tell you who she is because you don't want to the other girl butting in. He needs to decide who he is interested in and not play two girls at the same time. If he is coming after you while dating another girl, then he needs to be honest and tell her he has no romantic interest in her.

If he continues to do this as he grows up, he will be a male you can never rely on because he will always be two-faced, a guy you can't trust.

Ask him what you asked us if you want to know for sure.
Do you really have a girlfriend or did you just say that because I rejected you.
You may be able to revive your interest in him. It's possible but you won't know unless you give it a chance. Let him know you regret being hasty and would like to spend time dating him to see if these feeling for him will come back. You are not promising him anything. But you will be truthful and let him know if those feelings come back or not. If not, you will part as friends and go on to date others.

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I'm fine when I'm at home i can talk to my partner an kids. but when I'm with my family that I was bought up with, like my cousin aunty uncle's my dad even,I just can't talk, and be my self I'm shy I start sweating, if im talking to someone I can't think probably. and when I speak my word's come out stupid.an my eye's start to water when I do talk to them,what's wrong with me.

You didn't say what you acted like around the family you grew up with before you met your mate and had kids. So if this is new behavior it could be many different things. There is some hidden fear in your subconscious. It doesn't have to be a rational fear to have this affect on you.

You need to have a talk with yourself. When you ask yourself what is bothering you, why do I act like that, I want to do this so I can face this fear. You are giving your subconscious mind the comfortable environment in which to share what it is that is bothering you. Take some guesses, ask like it was another person sitting there. Like, has my likes and interests changed so much that I am afraid they won't like the new me, so I am afraid to be me when I am around them now, or whatever questions pop into your mind.
I am guessing this is something new so its likely nothing that your family is doing wrong but the battle is in your mind. Good luck with that dear

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I am a boy and I really like (love) this girl more than I can say and have written her around 5 to 6 poems but don't know if I should send or give to her.

The poems are: (these are 3 I have chosen to give her first)

Your the smile on my face,
The happiness inside me,
you are the person that i constantly think about,
you are the only person I'm glad I met,
Your everything i ever dreamed of,
Beautiful, perfect, caring and funny,
I could go on but the page isn't long enough,
You mean so much to me,
Even more than you think you mean to me,
You are the only person that I have ever really cared about,
I've never felt this close to someone,
As close as I do to you,
Ever since I've known you,
My life hasn't been the same,
Every time i see you,
My heart skips a beat,
When it's cold,
I'll be the one to warm you up,
When it's hot,
I'll be the breeze to cool you down,
When there's a storm,
I'll be there to hold you,
Because i want you to know,
Your all i need.

You mean so much to me,
So much that i can't explain it,
Your on my mind all day and all night,
Even when I'm asleep,
Even when I'm busy,
Your running through my mind,
Each and every day,
I can't wait to talk to you,
Because i long to hear your voice,
Because your voice sounds like an angels,
You light up my world,
In each and every way,
There's not a moment,
Either during the day or during the night,
That you don't make my world brighter,
Your face is the only one that i want to see,
Because when i see your perfect face,
It makes the biggest smile appear on my face,
Like no-one else's could,
I make this promise to you know,
That no matter where i am,
No matter what I'm doing,
Nothing is more important than making sure your ok,
Because you mean to much to me to let anything happen to you.

I think about you all the time,
Your always in my head and on my mind,
I re-read every text you send,
And remember what you say,
I'm always here for you,
Every second of the day,
Every second of the night,
I'm here to protect you,
And will do with every second I have,
When i see you,
I know I'm looking at beauty,
Because your perfect however you look,
Your the last thing i think about at night,
The first thing i think about in the morning,
And for the rest of the day,
Because you are the only person i want to think about,
Even on the darkest night,
You are my brightest star.

What do you think?? (I'm looking for girls opinions most)

I think every girl in your school who isn't dating right now would be thrilled if you were writing this for them. Most guys who are sensitive enough to share like this with a female these days is gay. Most real males don't want to appear gay. Little do they know that if a heterosexual guy (a guy who likes females) has this trait, that they become a hot commodity with the females because they are rare this day. Yet this is how it should be. This is what females need to hear. But the next step is you have to show it in your actions to confirm that you mean what you say. That you tell her the truth.
I think It might be wonderful to you to be there in person to watch her expressions as she reads it. If she has any feelings for you...it could be a very tender sweet moment for both of you.

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17/m

So I have friends that are girls, they all say they want a protective boyfriend. Now I kind of know what they mean by that but also I'm still confused because some say they want one but then they get a guy then say their too overprotective or obsessed or something like that.

What is a general idea of a protective boyfriend?

Could you give me examples lol

Thank you

The focus is on the wrong word here. If searching for what seems to be a protective guy, it will end up that he is more likely the possessive, jealous sort who becomes controlling and may attempt to make all decisions in your life, not allowing you any freedom and its all because he himself is insecure.

Focus instead on finding a loving supportive guy.
One like this if he really is loving will treat you right, not as a possession.

He is very self confident as a male and in the relationship, so he never displays any jealousy.

His focus is not on what he can get from her but what he can give to her

He would never do anything that hurts her.
He encourages her and her dreams, he knows her favorites and her fears and comforts her when needed. That is what you are looking for because a guy like this will also like to protect and keep his girl safe. He would be willing to give his life to save her. That is what girls really want but they are looking at the wrong guys.

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Am from S.A.(cape town)Am a guy am(17)and my girlfriend (15) we've bin datin' for 2 years and six months and i think its time for us to have sex but i dont if shez ready nd i thnk of askin her bt am afraid it myt freak hr out,nd i dont want to lose her.thank you plz help

2 and 1/2 years is a long time. So what kind of relationship do you have? That may answer when she is ready or if she ever will be.
Are you just activity partners...you go do things together...like girlfriends would too, go on bike rides, swimming, shopping, etc...
If its just that, nothing romantic going on between you, no kissing and cuddling and holding each other, maybe making out. If One or both of you lack a feeling of chemistry, then there should not be sex, because all you have is a friendship.

By this time, you should feel comfortable talking to her. If you feel horny, thats not a good enough reason to ask. If you are in love with her, then making love is one of the best ways to show it. If you love her. Let her know and tell her that you dream of loving her in all ways, not just by supporting her and being there for her no matter what, but you wish to show her also in worshiping her body in bed, by making love. Don't be false and just say it to convince her. Many females come with built in radar and can tell when something is not right.

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I have a male friend (we'll call him Bob), and a female friend (we'll call her Jane)They are not really friends with each other/ don't know each other well. But Janes best friend went out with Bob for a while. Thier relationship was on and off. Now Bob is the kind of guy who goes out with a lot of girls (never at the same time though)

Recently Bob broke up with a girl. She said it was because he showed her his you know what on web cam... but he said she showed him her you know whats too... then he broke up with her becasue she lied to everyone and made him out to be a perv... I believed him.

But now, I found out from Jane that he had told her friend that they could work it out, and that they should have sex so they could feel closer... then he slept with her and ignored her for 2 weeks before saying it wouldn't work out. If this is true, then I know she is nieave, and he is a pig.

The thing is I don't know what to believe. Is my friend a pig, who took advanage of the girl, or is she just stirring things up???

-She told a lot of people but 'didn't want to make it a big thing'(even set it as her status on a social networking site)

-She asked me not to tell him she told me

-He has always seemed a very nice guy to me, a really good friend who I can trust

-Could the whole webcam story be true, and I just ignored it?

Who do I believe? My friend, or my friends best friend?


When someone is pretending to be someone they are not, the truth will eventually be glaringly clear, because it takes a tremendous amount of energy from the mind to keep up the false persona. Most all people finally drop the falseness and show their real self once they think they have you convinced.
So who ever is not being straight with you will eventually make mistakes so it will be easy for you to see.
Don't try to 2nd guess everything. Just spend time around both people and watch what they say and do.
Do they take themselves out of integrity? Do they lie to themselves, others, not able to keep their word/their promises, They don't stand for anything...no consistant morals or ethics. The person who shows themselves to be anything like that is someone you must
never believe what they are saying. People like that are best not allowed to be your close inner circle of friends...that includes boyfriends.

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I want to know what's the easiest way to get a guy hard.? Thanks

Not knowing if you are real young and have not had sex yet or if you are the mate of an older man who is having some difficulty getting hard makes it hard to give you an answer.

If young, you don't have to do anything. Young men can get hard many times a day, where ever they are, not just when they are about to have sex. This is because the mind is connected bodily to ones reactions in sex. Plus they have a very active libido when young. So just seeing a pretty girl fully clothed is enough. Don't worry, you don't have to do a thing.

If we are talking an older male, there can be several medical reasons why he is having difficulty so its best he have a check up to rule out something like prostrate cancer. If he is taking medications for heart or other conditions that too can affect it. If he is reasonably healthy, extra exercise, aerobic for heart included, could condition his body to be able to generate more blood flow. If there is no physical reason why he shouldn't be able to get erect easily or he does but it takes lots longer, you can first of all have patience and not make him feel bad about it. Having too much worry about it will make him shut down even harder. A caring woman who truly loves her man no matter the difficulty will continue to love him, kissing him passionately which is one thing that will make a man grow hard quick because he feels how much he is still wanted and desired. Holding and playing with, sucking on the flaccid penis and playing with the balls will also make him hard after a while. Once hard, he should be able to remain so long enough for you both to enjoy climax as long as he is feeling a good amount of stinulation. If you haven't learned yet how to squeeze your vaginal muscles, do those kegel exercises. Also imagine in your mind your vaginal muscles squeezing his cock inside you. That is a great way to excite men, keep them hard and get them to cum. Hope this helps no matter which situation was yours.

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Hello. I have a russian hampster and she squeaks everytime I put my hand in the cage to feed him! Why does she do this. I have never hurt her and don't have any children or animals which can spook her so why does she keep on squeking?

I went surfing the net to find your answer. It's amazing what you can learn on line if you put the right search phrases in. I put "Why do hamsters squeek a lot" An article on dwarf hamsters came up saying they squeek louder than other types but they all squeek for the same reasons. Mainly its a fear isssue. Either they don't like how aggressive another hamster is or they haven't been handled much by a human yet so they don't know it they will be hurt or not. The fear is due to how small they are compared to your size. Once you have gently handled your hamster often, she will know that you mean it no harm and the squeeking should stop. I can't say whether it will have a personality of its own and squeek briefly to greet you later but now you know. It's normal, nothing to worry about.

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Hi!! My boyfriend has been recently diagnosed with urinary tract infection..Even so, we've been having sex ; and he hasn't worn a rubber..Can this be risky, dangerous or something?? Because I haven't had any strange symptoms ever since..thanks in advance!!

Here's what you do hon to put your mind at rest. Start drinking lots of cranberry juice. Cranberry is a known natural way to deal with urinary tract infection. Yes, I have gotten them all my life and I know the very first signs, feeling like I have to pee more often, and then once I've emptied my bladder, I have that urge to pee still as if the bladder is still full. I have gotten rid of infections that way.

If you might have gotten any germs from him, taking cranberry now can kill it in the early stages. Make sure thats all you drink for a few days when you do have an infection. You are more likely though to contract an infection from having the runs and some of the runny liquid from the bowel movement making that short distance to your pee hole. Thats how most women get it.

How do I know? Because I am very careful about cleaning myself whenever I have had diarrhea for whatever reason, but even with all the care I take to wipe and hand wash, I get the symptoms of urinary tract infection right after or during the runs.

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