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Shes going away for summer
Hey im a 15 year old male and have been texting this girl for about 4 months.we've gone for walks and kissed 3 times but arent officially going out.i really really like her and she says she likes me too,but shes going away for 2 months now and i dont know what to do.i feel like theres nothing for me when shes not here and i need her company because it makes me so happy.i honestly dont think i can last 2 months without her.please help me is there anything i can do?
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It sounds like you sort of depend on her to feel complete. You don't want to make someone your everything if you are not even in an official relationship. You may not be sure of what will happen to the situation. Also how long have you known or hung out with her? Four months? You have so much time ahead.
You can definitely have a life when she's not around. It seems like this relationship is barely a sprout. Don't depend on someone else so early on like this, you are not committed to anything, and you are very young. If one day she decided to change things up, as in, get with someone new, what are you going to do? Dig your head into a pillow and sob? Remember that you are important too. This thing you have going involves two: her and YOU. So care about YOU.
If you drown yourself into this one girl, you may just forget what it's like to care about YOU. I can't stress enough how important it is to not forget about yourself. She chimed in, and now you're attached. Crazy things can happen, people turn 180 degrees, but when you look in the mirror, who is left? (YOU) You're not going to know how she feels later on. Don't sweat it. If you get going doing things with friends, having fun, doing other stuff that distract you, you will get home at the end of the day and see her as A POSSIBILITY, NOT A NECESSITY!!!!
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TELL HER THE TRUTH. Tell her that you like her otherwise she'll never know!
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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I understand how you feel, for hubby and I everything in life is more fun even the ordinary stuff just because the partner is there experiencing it with you. But you also know you don;t need her to have joy in life. So think of an activity you like and focus on that and time will go by faster. If you sit doing nothing the time will drag on. Maybe even earn some summer this summer...walking dogs, doing mowing or washing cars for folks. and when she's back you'll have money to treat her out. Keeping yourself occupied is the key
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Well this doesn't sound good at all. You can't depend on people for happiness. You need to be your own person and make yourself happy. You can't be clingy and you can't make yourself think you're nothing without her. It makes you look clingy and not independent at all and it's not attractive.
So what you need to do before you get serious with her, you need to learn to be your own person and not set all your happiness on her. Because if she's gone (like in this situation) you'll be all alone and you'll get depressed. It's just not good for anyone to do this.
So learn to be on your own and learn to be happy without a girl.
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Maybe it's not such a bad idea it can be like a sort of test to see how strong your relationship is just try not to forget you are young and there are other girls out there if it doesn't work good luck..
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