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I like this boy and I was wondering how can i make him figure out that I like him please help.? (link)
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what do you have to lose just tell him?if he says he doesnt like you then you just move on good luck..X
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Hello. Me and my boyfriend have been dating ever since May. We used to text a lot and then after that he had to go to two camps for two weeks and couldn't talk to me. Well now since he returned he does little to no texting me at all. He's ignored me for two days. He posts stuff on instagram but idk why he wouldnt see my texts! What should I do? Help me please!!! :( (link)
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Could be he's moved on and met someone new either way you deserve the truth.
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F. 16.
I recently got in to a relationship, 3 months after I split from my ex of 6 months. I fell in deeply emotionally with my ex boyfriend. Cut the story straight, I don't see or speak to my ex and I don't have a problem. He still crosses my mind everyday everyday the tine, but when I see him, I get quite upset. Every time he sends me a message, my hearts beat really fast, not through excitement though. He sent me a message, telling me he missed me and he asked if I still cared. It made me become so hot, like a hot flush and I started crying. He didn't want to know me before, when we were together, we didn't quite work out. It was his emotions, it was like he was emotionally unavailable. Anyway, I really do like my boyfriend at the minute, he makes me laugh, smile and he brings out the best in me. I do genuinely like him, my friends say he may be a rebound, but I know myself that he isn't. I go to bed thinking about him, he's my first thought in the morning and even when my mind is really busy, I still think of him. So, what is this? Why do I feel the way I do about my ex boyfriend, am I not totally over him? Sticky situation. (link)
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What I've heard from my girl friends the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else hey worked for me my ex is a mess i love him but i am engaged. In time you will find the answers within yourself. XOXOXXX
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My "boyfriend" is really selfish. Whenever I ask him to get me presents, like a puppy, or a trip across the country, he says, "isn't the gift of my love enough?" What a fairy. Also he says he's giving me the gift of "sexiness" and "great hair" and "perfect teeth" and "seduction". All of this is true, but aren't girlfriends supposed to get puppies from time to time? Is that really too much to ask? Also, I am 12 and a half and don't tell me that's too young to have a boyfriend because you don't understand TRU LOVE. But then I wonder, doesnt true love involve a lot of presents? :( How do I make him appreciate me with money? Help!
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Okay your really not gonna like my answer but anyway advice is for free.. your 12 your way to young and it's not true love and i highly doubt you need a trip around the world or money your 12??and if you keep acting like a fairy sweety you might just lose him for your own selfish reason's I'm engaged and i don't get trips around the world or money i work for my money to be independent. xoxo hope everything comes right good luck.
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Okay, I'm 16 years old, and a girl. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins still, He's the same age as me. We both were talking about losing it to each other, But we're a little bit scared we don't wanna use a condom either, I said we should wait a little more. We love each other very much too. Are we like still too young to have sex ? Should we just get it over with? (link)
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You still way to young and its probably not the guy you will end up with and if you don't use a condom you could get:HIV/AIDS, PREGNANT or a STD.hope you be wise good luck.
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I am a 14 year old girl and I really miss my old best friend. So, it was about four years ago I was at Day Camp with my relatives for a week or so and at the end of the day we would go swimming in an inground pool and I was on the deep side but my sister pulled me under when I wasn't ready and I almost suffocated, it really scared me. Now, 2 years ago at the same Day Camp I met this very sweet boy. I was too afraid to go on the deep side because of what happened the summers earlier so I stayed on the shallow side by myself but the boy was so sweet, he would hang out with me, stay on the shallow side with me and just talk or swim with me, take goofy pictures with me and well we were best friends. He never said one mean thing to me and neither did I. I really miss him and I think he liked me (like that) because my sister said she could tell he "had a thing" for me but I know I'm probably never gonna see him again but would there be a way I could find him because there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him. I really miss him..please help. (link)
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You can try Facebook if you know his full name or going back to camp next summer maybe someone there knows him? Mxit maybe..best wishes!!
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Hey im a 15 year old male and have been texting this girl for about 4 months.we've gone for walks and kissed 3 times but arent officially going out.i really really like her and she says she likes me too,but shes going away for 2 months now and i dont know what to do.i feel like theres nothing for me when shes not here and i need her company because it makes me so happy.i honestly dont think i can last 2 months without her.please help me is there anything i can do? (link)
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Maybe it's not such a bad idea it can be like a sort of test to see how strong your relationship is just try not to forget you are young and there are other girls out there if it doesn't work good luck..
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How do you ask your parents if you can start dating??? (link)
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well firstly you start off by thinking of your age and your partner and how your parents would react :).. but i wouldn't recommend this for my parents lol i think it's best you open up to them and be honest with them and maybe they won't take it so hard good luck xoxox
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How long can a penis stay erect ? Does it always have to be erect during sex?
From: curious teenager (link)
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it will only feel good if its hard and ur question to how long it can stay hard depends man to man.
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So I've been with my current boyfriend for a little while now, not a super long time but I'm much much closer to him than I've been to anybody else.
We're looking at getting our own place together and he's been talking about how he's looking for the perfect engagement ring. I see him almost every day and we really just fit so perfectly together and I never thought that would happen. I was one of those girls before this that rolled their eyes and thought all of my friends who talked about being in love were just victims of romance books and fantasies.
Anyways before him I'd never even gone further than making out because I never felt hot around any of my couple ex's.
With my current boyfriend something about him woke me up sexually and he drives me crazy and I'm tired of holding back because I'm scared of losing my virginity.
I'm very small and thin and he's much taller than me,athletic and he's large (if you know what I mean). We actually planned it out for Monday but as the day gets closer I get more scared and nervous about it.
I don't want to keep pushing him off of me though because I get so worked up myself. He's totally okay with us waiting but I don't want to anymore, I just want to get it over with so we can move past this point in the relationship. I mean we'll be living together soon but we haven't had sex.
I'm also tired of feeling pain when he tries to stimulate me with his fingers. It's just a horrible feeling for me and I don't want it to be like that and have to keep telling him to stop because I'm not used to it.
The other problem is if it hurts so much with just a finger I know it's going to be so much worse when he's actually inside of me. I thought about maybe having an alcoholic drink first but he's really against drinking and I don't want to make our first time weird if I get a little tipsy since I've only drank twice before (btw we're both adults).
I just don't want it to be this disgusting horrible,terrifying experience for me and I don't want to panic, freak out and throw him off of me or something.
What should I do about this? Should I take a pain killer or something first to numb me a little bit or will that kill the moment?
Any thoughts/advice (other than use protection I know that)?
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nothing wrong with your question at all okay so its gonna hurt the first time but the second time if he knows what his doing its gonna be amazing!!! so relax and make love to your man!:) and id doing think pills are a good idea maybe a drink
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i like this guy but i am in a relationship with a cute and sweet boy. what do i do????????????
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Really depends on you yourself and how serious your relationship is but you sound really young so if you feel you wanna try the other guy out hey no stress its YOUR choice.
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I have been with my fiancé for quiet some time now and she just dosnt trust me. Like yesterday for instance I left my house like at 520pm I got to my parents house like at 550 pm and well I don't live with them anymore so I stayed a while besides my dad was helping me fix some things in the car . So it got pretty late like 9pm got home like at 930 and well like all this morning she's been giving me the silent treatment I mean I don't think that's right or even normal or what don't guys think
Advice please thanks
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i think you can help her by learning her to trust you cause there's no point of a marriage with no trust and its perfectly normal for you to miss your parents and visit them she can either start going with you and seeing you doing nothing wrong or she must stop complaining or in your case the silent treatment.
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my mother has custody of three of my children i have custody of my fourth one. she is willing to give it back to me.i am a recovering drug addict thats been clean for almost two years. how hard is it gonna be to get them back into my custody. (link)
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Firstly!! IF you've really been clean clean for 2 years then you know for a fact drugs is not addictive and congrat's on being clean!make right by your mom go to a court say you would like a 3 week 0r 4 week trial to prove you can be a mother to YOUR babies at the same time and the court will give you a chance if you play your cards right. ****good luck****
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How do i start a 'dirty' conversation with my boyfriend (link)
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Men Don't always want horny women so be careful cause my boyfriend is the happiest his ever been and we don't have phone sex, so from personal experience I'd say the choice is yours have a bit of fun babes but cross the line (nude pics and strange stuff) well then when he gets what he wants a moves on,.... then you will feel not so nice and think things over.and honey advice is for free!!! So take it or leave it the choice is yours! ****Best of luck!****
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Whenever I talk to this guy I"m confused because he won't say much but he has a smile on his face. Now I'm not saying anything funny or flirting, I'm just asking him questions related to work. When I ask he only gives one word answers and has a big smile on his face. I'm confused why he is smiling so much when all I asked was a simple question and why won't he say more than one word? I feel so awkward and it makes me not want to talk to him anymore. What's his deal? (link)
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Hi dear..it could possibly be that he likes you and maybe he smile's cause he likes that you take an interest in asking him anything it really differs from person to person could be his happy to see you or even spend time with you :) it's defiantly not a bad sign others wise he would of said stop asking me questions or something like that...so all you can actually do is maybe ask why he smile's when you ask him a question say it in a friendly open way...or you could tell him he has a beautiful smile to see what he possibly says hope I've helped best of luck. Jesse. xoxoxxx
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I wash myself "down there" twice a day, the same times I wash my face and brush my teeth in the morning and at night. I make sure that I've dried myself completely, and everything. I don't understand how I could have this smell even though I clean myself twice a day. It makes me very self - conscious and I get nervous that others can smell it. There are certain stretches and things in gym at school that I can't do because of it. Someone please help me.
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like the other columnist said no bodywash or shower gel down there and no soap either also could be something you eating maybe spicy food?and it could very well be an infection which a doctor would have to give you pills to kill the infection. So, what’s the best way to stay smelling good?
Washing with mild soap is the best way to avoid any perceived crotch funk–stay away from harsh deodorizing soaps and exfoliating bars down there–Youch! In addition, breathable natural-fiber undies allow air to flow to your vagina, reducing sweat and moisture. Drinking lots of water is also necessary for a healthy, functioning body. If you’re fanatical, panty liners can also be worn and then discarded to keep undies fresh. Plus, it hasn’t been scientifically proven, but many women swear that eating tons of fruits and veggies makes them smell better. Bonus? More fruits and veggies are a great way to show your body love either way.
Read more: http://www.gurl.com/2012/06/30/your-vagina-smells/#ixzz285gnUEMA hope i helped with your situation. Jesse xoxoxxx
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I have yellow discharge its not smelly, i am not sexually active and i havent gotten my period. What does this mean? (link)
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well discharge is normal it's how a women's body cleans it's self . What is normal discharge?
A discharge that is clear, milky white or slightly yellow/straw in color.
A discharge that does not have an unpleasant odor or causes excessive burning or itching.
Normal discharge may be heavier at certain times of the month, particularly midcycle in ovulating women.
What is not normal discharge?
A discharge with an odor that is offensive such as fishy or rancid smelling
A discharge that is heavier than usual, lumpy (like cottage cheese), gray, yellow, green or bloody
A discharge that causes burning or pain with sex or urination
But for more information here's a link i got just for you http://www.vagisil.com/vaginal_discharge.shtml otherwise if it continues to really bother you i'd advice you to see a doctor just to make sure nothing's wrong or that you don't have infection. well best of luck hope i helped. Jesse xoxoxxx
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how is it to audition for an performing arts high school???? (link)
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HI there l'd just like to say if it's what you into then you should diffiantly check it out and see if you like it, you won't know what it really feels like until you really experiance it yourself and if you still not sure take a gap year maybe to decide and as someone once said "Creativity needs an outlet, or it will wither and die." and to really answer your question....its different for everyone some people are scared(which is normal by the way:) ) and some are really excited so at the end of the day it's up to you hun so i hope i've helped you :) and i wish you the best of luck. Jesse xoxoxxx
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Photos of me: http://imgur.com/a/UtAqm
Obviously the second one is really bad quality but I took it with my iphone.
Today I went to Bealls and saw one of the girls from my old school (I graduated in June) there.
The whole time I was there I couldn't help but think she was so much prettier than me and I'm sick of just being "cute" or "normal" pretty.
She's the girl on the left: http://imgur.com/Rv1Pe
It's inspired me to make myself become more noticeably pretty. I'm deciding I've had enough with my bad habits like biting my fingernails. I'm stopping that once and for all tonight. I want long beautiful fingernails so I'm applying Sally Hansen's Maximum Growth nail polish.
I have sort of white teeth but they are a little yellowish so I picked up some maximum whitening flouride toothpaste and I plan on brushing them at least twice a day! I don't get acne but my skin without makeup is a little blotchy around my cheeks and the bottom of my chin, I also want gorgeous clear skin so I bought an $8 salycic acid maximum cleansing daily face wash and I'm going to start using it twice a day as well.
I'm about 4ft 10 in and 78 pounds so I am very skinny but I want to get rid of that "womens tummy pouch" thing. I've heard people say every woman has it but I know celebrities don't so tomorrow I think I'm going to start doing situps until it's gone.
I want to get tanner as well but I don't know how. I stay inside most of the time and we don't have a beach in my town and I don't have a yard since I live in an apartment. We have a balcony so maybe if I lay out there I can. I'm not going to use any of that fake chemically crap or go to a tanning booth though.
Other things I want to get rid of are:
Wearing sneakers, I think that's a big no-no because they aren't cute or classy they're just like lazy shoes. I really need to buy a pair of flats. Right now I have two pairs of boots (both high heels),two pairs of sneakers that I normally wear out,one pair of sandals and two pairs of heels (one stilletto) and obviously I'm not going to wear heels 24/7. I don't want back problems so I think my only choice is to get a cute pair of flats.
Pants: I AM SO SICK OF WEARING PANTS! I get so mad at myself every time I look in the mirror and my skinny jeans look faded or just bad. They are really starting to drive me crazy! I want to wear skirts and dresses but obviously I don't have a ton of money so I can't go and buy a whole new wardrobe so this one is going to take a lot of time and money to get right.
Makeup: I think I need to start buying more high priced makeup. I used to like my makeup but I hate how my mascara seems to dry out and flake or look kind of clumpy and how my foundation starts fading and looking powdery about 6 hours in. Or when I have to reapply lipstick every hour. I usually spend $7 on mascara,$7 on foundation and $5 on lipstick but it isn't working so I think I need to start saving up to buy the more expensive stuff like Urban Decay or YSL.
I'm also going to regularly dye my hair a reddish brown so it looks vibrant and not so dull like in the second photo.
Does anybody have any other ideas? I don't usually wear my makeup that bright as it is in the photos so that's not a problem. (link)
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Firstly I would like to tell you. You are beautiful and I think what you doing is amazing because a lot of people don't worry about their appearance and then they don't look after themselves and that becomes unattractive but you are at least taking time to look good so that is a great thing as for the lipstick try avon maybe a 24/h lipstick or 16/h and Jeans you could try a nice white pair that won't fade easy and hair you have very nice hair but adding some color could be a good idea and as for the other person who tried to give you advice they wrong if I had to rate you 1 to 10 you are that 10 big 10 because you make the effort to look after yourself good luck with the rest. Jesse XOXOXXX
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I was just wondering, how much looking would be considered over the top in a realtionship? Because my boyfriend is very attentive to the way other girls look physically. He told me he likes to "appreciate". At first i was like, he's a guy. Obviously he is going to look. But he was full out staring at all the girls in their bikinis when we went on vacation together. I love him with every aching bone in my body, and I know he would never ever cheat or do anything to hurt me. But the way he stares like that can be really suggestive sometimes and might give the wrong idea. He recently went off to college and he has been making a lot of friends that are girls, and i just asked him how much looking he actually does and he told me openly that he does it a lot. We are best friends as well, which is why he tells me all these things haha. But i still can't help but feel like it's a slap in the face to my self esteem. It's not like he would ever do anything, all he does is look. But sometimes he even does it in front of me and i have to admit, it really hurts. Sometimes he'll even talk about it, which is kind of worse in a way. I understand he's comfortable with me, as i am with him. But even though were close doesn't mean i want to hear everything. Some things are better left unsaid.
I just need opinions on whether what he's doing is over the top or not. Thankyou! (link)
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Hey its not necessary to break up with him just talk it out with him and tell him it hurts when your turning your neck so far around it could break just to check out another women and if he continues play him at his own game for a while when his talking pretend you can't hear a word get up and go greet some other guy if that ticks him off tell him you giving him a taste of his own medicine you can't be with a guy that's hurting you a man should make other women jealous of his girl not his girl jealous of other women so good luck hope all goes well. Jesse XOXOXXX
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