My boyfriend doesn't love me, he doesn't give me money
Question Posted Monday June 24 2013, 2:21 am
My "boyfriend" is really selfish. Whenever I ask him to get me presents, like a puppy, or a trip across the country, he says, "isn't the gift of my love enough?" What a fairy. Also he says he's giving me the gift of "sexiness" and "great hair" and "perfect teeth" and "seduction". All of this is true, but aren't girlfriends supposed to get puppies from time to time? Is that really too much to ask? Also, I am 12 and a half and don't tell me that's too young to have a boyfriend because you don't understand TRU LOVE. But then I wonder, doesnt true love involve a lot of presents? :( How do I make him appreciate me with money? Help!
Are you used to being spoilt or something? I hope he breaks up with you. Not because I'm nasty, because I think It'd make you a stronger person. Then you can come back here and honestly realise what a silly question this was.
lightoftruth answered Tuesday June 25 2013, 8:04 pm: Your idea of love is so screwed up lol I can't even take this seriously.
If your boyfriend is around the same age as you, how much money do you think he has?
I think you're too into fairy tales or movies thinking that boys always have to get you things.
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and I'm 18. He has never bought me a puppy or a trip across the country. That's ridiculous. And to think your parents would even let you go across the country?
Anyways, in all seriousness, yes that's too much to ask of anyone. And no, trust love doesn't involve lots of presents.
All he needs to give you is respect and loyalty. Maybe get you something special from time to time like a flower or a pretty necklace but you shouldn't be expecting those things. You should be grateful and you aren't.
I won't go on about how young you are. That's not much of the problem. I just don't think you know what true love is and I don't think you're mature enough to handle a relationship if this is what you think it is. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
AskCupid answered Tuesday June 25 2013, 7:53 pm: Okay your really not gonna like my answer but anyway advice is for free.. your 12 your way to young and it's not true love and i highly doubt you need a trip around the world or money your 12??and if you keep acting like a fairy sweety you might just lose him for your own selfish reason's I'm engaged and i don't get trips around the world or money i work for my money to be independent. xoxo hope everything comes right good luck. [ AskCupid's advice column | Ask AskCupid A Question ]
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