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My girlfriend beats me and verbally abuses me, HELP I don't know what to do
My girlfriend of 1 month just recently started abusing me physically and verbally. She really seemed like a cool person at first, but recently she started hitting me with items such as her high heels, purse and back of her hand. She also calls me names such as "FATSO", "LUMPY HEAD", "MUCHO RETARDO", and "HITLER". I really don't know what to do. I work out a lot and people would say I'm pretty good looking, but I just cant see myself without her in my 12 year old life. I cant take my eyes off her when I see her playing kick ball. I know its not right for her to treat me like this, but I think she might be possessed by a demon or something. Seriously, she likes the Dolphins and she used to like the Chargers....something has to be possessing her! anyway...please HELP!
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I wonder why you would put up with that. It's not healthy behavior and indicates that if you are willing to accept it, that you have a warped view of what a healthy relationship is. Do your parents or other relatives treat each other this way? You had to learn your view of relationships somewhere.
Trust me, this is not good and will only get worse. She needs to be in counseling for her verbal and physically abusive behavior. Perhaps one of her parents abuses the other. Whatever a child grows up to experience in the abusive behavior of their parents, they grow up to be the same, abused children grow up to abuse others.
If you don't feel strong enough to stand up for yourself and say enough is enough and walk away, then guess what....your whole life will be an endless string of this until you decide to leave and avoid such behavior in favor of loving yourself more. How do I know this? I didnt learn when I was your age. Got married at 20 to someone I thought was nice and he ended up verbally abusing me non stop until 30 yrs later I decided to really love myself. That was the lesson I had to learn and likely is the one you need to learn in this life. If you really loved yourself, you'd only be willing to place yourself in situations where you are loved unconditionally, and encouraged, supported, built up. I hope you learn faster than I did.
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Well it doesn't seem like this girl likes you as much as you like her. If you feel like you are being physically and emotionally abused by her then break up with her. Don't force your self to be with her. I highly doubt that she is possessed. There are plenty of other girls that would probably treat you better.
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