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What are some good items to masturbate with that are in-expensive im a 13yr female and i have been tolled that a cuccumber is perfect but i dont know please help! (link)
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......? You're too young to be wanting items like that. You don't need that.
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Hi. So I'm 13 and I'm a normal girl from Singapore. I have no idea how I'm going to go about expressing my problem, but here it is: I have tutoring classes in the weekends that I have been skipping for three weeks, without my mum's knowledge. Moreover, I have tickets to a concert I'm going to with my friends. It costs $218 and I don't have enough money to pay for it. I have told my mom about this before and she flared up and said that I cannot go for the concert. Thus, now, I'm not going for the concert, and I haven't told my friends yet. Does anyone have advice on this matter? My mom found out yesterday that I have been skipping classes and she's obviously angry, saying that (and I quote) "Four lessons can pay for your tickets to the concert!" (Yeah, I don't understand too) please leave some advice. (link)
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LOL YOU ARE NO WHERE NEAR A BAD TEENAGER. You should see what we so down here in America. I won't get in to all the specifics but just let me tell you, some girls would think what you did was being a "angel" to their parents eyes. Alright, just apologize to your mom for skipping weekend tutoring!
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Im sorry, I can't BELIEVE YOU DO TUTORING ON THE WEEKENDS?!!!!!! That is just downright a crime! lol
No,all kidding aside tutoring is good...its great.
You may not be able to go to the concert, but at least you are establishing your first steps to being a successful businesswoman once you grow up. Develop a better communication with your mother. Talk to her about your dilemmas are problems. Tell her how you want to have fun with your friends sometimes without compromising your studies.
I tried with this advice, I hope this helps you!
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15/f hes 15/m im a capricorn and hes a taurus if that means anything but it helps me. im going to try to make this as short as possible. anyway this guy i've been talking to for about a month we have a lot of classes together and we talk and text alot i feel like i've been best friends with him my whole life. we started talking and we found out that we are physically each others types and we wouldnt mind hooking up and being friends, since we already are, kinda like a friends with benefits thing. but then when we were gonna hang out and hook up, he suddenly couldnt so we were gonna hang out that week, so i was like ok (this was about a month ago) but i never got his text to hangout so then that day he told me over text that he likes me and kinda has feelings for me and i didnt tell him i liked him until two days later and but then he started getting kidna shady and it felt weird becasue he didnt ask me out or anything and still flirty with other girls, becasue thats how he is and he said he wasnt intrested in any of them. so i just told him flat out that i dont want this to be weird so lets go back to being friends and if we hook up then i guess it happens. then like two days ago i guess our feeling for each other never diminshed because he wouldnt tell me who he liked and said he would only tell me if i told him, becasue this time i think he was scared i would reject him becasue i told him i would probablly never want to be serious with him. and so the next day he finally told me how he felt that he still kinda has feelings for me and likes me. when he told me over text that he liked me it was bittersweet i guess you could say because i like him, we would hookup, i like him as a person/friend but then he just made things so complicated again! this is the whole reason i wanted to back to being friends again. so far i havent told him how i felt but the thing is what am i supposed to do? i dont think he's gonna ask me out, not that i want that, becasue im not sure if i want a relalitonship. but its like i dont get it like he likes me, he wants to hook up, were still frineds but no relationship, and i think i want the same..is that bad? BUT i havent seen him two days which is when he told me he like med, and he hasnt texted me in a day which is weird for him, and now i think he feels awkward because he said he liked me but i never told him that i liked him and now i dont know what to do before this get awkward and lose my friendship with him or something bad happens i dont know what to say to him? thanksss also i feel like im going crazy because i like him but he flirts with girls in front of me and then we get into fights and i just dont know what to do (link)
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Girl, this is too much complication. If you two were REALLY meant for eachother, it wouldn't be so much confusion. It should be so simple. The points been miscommunicated between you two, and he needs to be straight forward about his feelings for you, and you too. You both should come out and say what you really want out of this. Also friends with benefits situation never really works out. Regardless someone ALWAYS gets feelings for the other person down the line. It's just human nature. So both of you make up your minds, and deal with it!!! Just be together if that's what your hearts really want. If not, then don't. Time's being wasted here!
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Well my name is Allison 13/f and I told this guy Jordan 15 that I would want to have sex. He has already told me he wants to. Well we have already been having to sneek around because we are not supposed to be together. Well, we have been because we are both in a play. So, he keeps telling me that we have to figure out where we can have sex. But I can never meet him anywhere because my dad doesn't let me do anything. Anyway I think when I see him today we are going to make out and stuff. But was it right to tell him that back? I don't feel bad though. (link)
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Im 15 and I'm waiting to have sex. You should too. Don't do it, I've heard stories how some girls I knew hated the experience. So no you're too young and you don't need to be doing that. He'll have sex with you and then dump you afterwards. Then you'll be dealing with emotional scarring issues which could take decades to heal. And um do you WANT to get pregnant?? Yeah I didn't think so.
So NO, NO and hell no! Don't do it!
Take my advice and use it well!
Ps. If he says he'll break up with you if you refuse to, then so be it. The doucebaq isn't worth your time. ;)
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Ok this is a long question i'm sorry but this is how lost I am right now, i'm asking a question on the internet.. my friend.. she lives a state away from me, and her mom is pretty much evil and hates her, she made her stay with this 19 year old guy last night and he did stuff to her and i know he sexually assaulted her, shes 15, she told her mom and her mom said, well since you had so much fun, you get to go back there next week for longer, her mom wants this guy to do this! what can i do? i'm a male and i'm 16 (link)
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You need to report this situation. The girl is my age and if I were her and my mother was evil like that, I'd want someone to help me. Knowing she's probably afraid to really do anything, you can help her by reporting the guy. However, she could be taken away from her mother because of CPS. The mother failed to comply and actually help her daughter??? Then she doesn't deserve her. This is about keeping the girl in a safe situation and if that's being in a new home or foster care, then so be it. One thing I openly admit is that the foster care system might not be any better. I'm not sure.
ON THE OTHER HAND. Just get the girl to report the guy or you can do it. That way this ADULT is put in jail for a very long time.
Hope this advice kinda helped! ;)
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Soo, me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 2 weeks now. And he said he loved me. so i said it back...and i mean it,he said it to me first. And i know he means it. but theres a girl. she is crazy obsessed with him. and shes making up rumors about me, and saying that he shouldnt be wiff me. And that shes gonna fight me for him. i took boxing for 3 years now, and i still box...but i dont like using boxing for defense, its just my passion...and it feels like shes breaking us apart...what do i do? And how do i get her to stop? (link)
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That girl is obviously a very jealous obsessed broad that couldn't get a boyfriend if she tried. She's talkinq sh*t to people about you? You should go up to her in a calm manner and ask her why she's spreading rumours about you. If she's rude and the argument escalates, then with your boxing experience , fight her. But ONLY if she hits you first. That way you can claim it was self defense AND talk to the principal about what she's actually been doing to you which is a form of bullying. Bullying includes spreading rumours about others.
Hope this helps! ;)
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12/F well I have a 18 year old boyfriend and he wanted to have sex and I'm to scared that if I say no he won't love me anyway now he's always expecting me to have sex with him and when I don't want to he asks me if I don't love him anymore and he has naked pictures of me and I don't know how he got them what must I do(my mom doesn't know about our relationship) (link)
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OKAY HOLD TF UUUUUUUP.
I don't blame you because you are 12...he is an adult. He's 18 trying to have sex with a 12 year old. That is against the law and he can be registered as a sex offender because of that. Believe me, don't have sex with him you are too young. I'm 15 and there is no way I'd ever do that for one, and not even with an 18 year old. He's supposed to be off to college in a couple months and you have not even experienced highschool yet. Listen. You are an intelligent young girl, and it's best to just tell your parents everything even about the pictures. Your situation can only get worse if you don't. No matter how embarrassed you feel or disappointed they get, remember they will hold your boyfriend responsible for all of this. For one he is manipulating your feelings and being very calculated trying to convince you to have sex with him. If he released your naked photos he would get in trouble as that is against the law to exploit an adolescent and he is an adult. This is wrong and letting your parents handle all of this is only the right way to go.
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ok so my ex boyfriend wants me back and these other 2 guys like me which way do i go (link)
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You can't help the way you feel. If you still have feelings for your ex then go back out with him. The problems with people mostly are they'll move on not really wanting to. You have to come to grips with either moving on or making it a try one more time.
If that's not the case and you guys are cool and only friends then maybe try something new with whoever guy you're interested in.
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I'm 11, and I already say I love you to my boyfriend.
We haven't kissed, and we've been close friends for a year before we started dating. We've been dating a month now, and we say 'I love you.' all the time.
Is that bad? (link)
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Saying I love you is never a bad thing. I'm 15 and I can't get enough of "I Love You" ...or maybe I can! lol
Are you sure you guys mean that you really "love" eachother? It's the 4 letter word. The heart wants what it wants but you are only 11 years old! Sure you know what "Love" is? When you have your first boyfriend or fall in love for the first time, when you're young and its really just puppy love as I quote it.
Anyway, no it's not bad. Just make sure you two are on the same page with the I love you card.
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i dnt want to live .... i wanna die.. as i always wanted to be what i thought and as per that i put more effort bt still i can't achive d opportunity 4 wat i've been waiting along...... i thnk god has
forgotten to write happiness n success ,in my life.
i was in a chronic depression from couple of weeks.. bt i thnk now its d end.. i wanna die.. i jus wanna leave this place, universe.... i jus wana die.. may b u all think that its a selfish or a coward.... bt i thnk its d best way .... to say gud bye to all ur problems!!!!
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Please.....dont do it. Trust me you dont want to end your life when you still have so much to live for. At some point in our lives we all feel we want to die, whether its over hurt, anger, depression, sadness. But then there is always a light at the end of the tunnel and I don't mean taking the easy way out by committing suicide. Live your life first. YOLO it all the way thru if you have to! Do things that are fun, but if you still feel this way then get professional help, it really will work.
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