Question Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 1:01 pm
Well my name is Allison 13/f and I told this guy Jordan 15 that I would want to have sex. He has already told me he wants to. Well we have already been having to sneek around because we are not supposed to be together. Well, we have been because we are both in a play. So, he keeps telling me that we have to figure out where we can have sex. But I can never meet him anywhere because my dad doesn't let me do anything. Anyway I think when I see him today we are going to make out and stuff. But was it right to tell him that back? I don't feel bad though.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Simone101 answered Sunday November 11 2012, 7:27 pm: Im 15 and I'm waiting to have sex. You should too. Don't do it, I've heard stories how some girls I knew hated the experience. So no you're too young and you don't need to be doing that. He'll have sex with you and then dump you afterwards. Then you'll be dealing with emotional scarring issues which could take decades to heal. And um do you WANT to get pregnant?? Yeah I didn't think so.
midnight0heart answered Saturday November 10 2012, 11:55 pm: Please, take my advice: I lost my virginity when I was thirteen years old. It wasn't special, it wasn't even fun. I, like you, was not even dating the guy. You will enjoy sex much more if you wait just a few more years, until you are with a boyfriend who means a lot to you. Your first time is supposed to be meaningful. Still, it is your decision to make and if you do it, please at least make sure he wears protection. That should always be your number one priority. You do not want a baby now, or worse. And to answer your question, it was not wrong to tell him that, that's just your hormones kicking in. When I was your age, I hated being told I was too young for anything. So I did not wait to do it all. Sex, drinking, you name it. Now, I'm eighteen and wish I had waited. I really hope that I helped. [ midnight0heart's advice column | Ask midnight0heart A Question ]
cammie1996 answered Saturday November 10 2012, 11:01 pm: Sweatie you are way too young....I know you feel right now that your ready and that this guy is the right guy but I lost my virginity to a guy at 13 and felt he was the right guy...turns out I was just another one of his "hook-ups" the best thing to do is just wait...You'll regret it later in life if you do it now. Be a kid while you still can [ cammie1996's advice column | Ask cammie1996 A Question ]
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