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Doing it with hhim again....
Well my name is Allison 13/f and there is this guy named Hunter 13/m. Well we dated before and we always met in the band room at our school because no one is down there. As you can imagine we did things. I started feeling like he just used me for my body. I asked him if it was true and he said no that he loved me for me. Well, we broke up and he started dating one of my good friends. But he asked me to be friends with benefit and I told him I guess. But then it confirmed that I thought he was using me. But they broke up. Well yesterday we both ended up in the band room. He asked me if I would do things and I told him no because he hasn't been talking to me. He told me he would start so I said we would do things on Monday if he did. So, do you think I did the right thing? :)
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wait so you were friends with benefits with him while he was dating your good friend? in all honesty ask yourself : " am i doing this because i wanna be with him (and someday get married in the far future) or because he said ' i love you for you' ? " like really your only 13 you shouldnt be letting boys do things to your own body, because in the very end your the only one thats going to get hurt not him. and stop trying to act older then you really are ! im 16 and i never even knew anything about those things when i was 13 like really is this generation THAT messed up. your body is a temple not a mall. and "if you do let any man do anything to your body he is just ruining another mans property. " <-- thats a verse from the bible but in this case it should be boy not man and if you are going to do anything make sure your well educated and dont do anything to mess up your future. god bless your soul young one. (:
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No, actually I don't think you did the right thing at all. He just said yes he'll talk to you more just to make out and possibly have sex with you. Is that what you really want? If he were a good guy, he could have at least told you he was dating your "good friend". And please trust me on this, no proper guy should ever ask a girl to be friends with benefits with them. Point blank. I think you can do better... much better. Good luck.
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