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my ex boyfriend wants me back and these other 2 guys like me also...
ok so my ex boyfriend wants me back and these other 2 guys like me which way do i go
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Never move backwards... he's your ex for a reason.
Pick a new man and venture ever forward! If he doesn't work out, there will always be other men.
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You can't help the way you feel. If you still have feelings for your ex then go back out with him. The problems with people mostly are they'll move on not really wanting to. You have to come to grips with either moving on or making it a try one more time.
If that's not the case and you guys are cool and only friends then maybe try something new with whoever guy you're interested in.
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I know it sounds cliche but what does your heart say. Sometimes when we desperately want to make a decision, it makes it all the more hard because your heart stays with each person so you're stuck. One way that I did it once, was I held out two pictures, of the guys I was stuck between. (Since you have three you're going to first have to decide which one you aren't as attracted to.) I dropped a random picture, just let one go. When I let that one go, I dropped the other one, and picked up the first. It make me realize who was more important to me. But you need to make a decision fast because this isn't fair to all the guys here.
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Why did you guys break up? Are the issues that caused it resolved? Has he changed at all? You have to ask yourself these questions. Couples break up for reasons, and getting back together rarely works out. You might have a chance if you guys still love each other, are able to work out the issues that caused the break up, and are willing to put the past behind you.
I would tell you to go with the guy you can truly be yourself with and you don't have to pretend. The guy who truly cares about you and makes you happy.
I hope you choose right!
Good luck :)
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Ex's are usually ex's for a reason. You should figure out who you care about and want to be with.
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