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Member Since: September 6, 2012
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Last Update: September 8, 2012
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Is it stupid for me to be irritated with myself that i still haven't lost my virginity at 18? I've only had one boyfriend, 2 years ago..And I'm slightly ashamed of that..not about not having sex yet, but It's irritating to me because I want to lose my virginity. Not just to some random guy, I want to find a guy and be in a relationship with him and have sex with him..I know it's not something you're just suppose to give away, but I've been wanting to have sex for suchhh a long time. It's like i'm sexually frustrated even though i've never done it before. I feel like masturbation is definitely not cutting it, or not getting the job done i should say. thats probably tmi but yeah...idk what im asking really. just want some advice.
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You r very lucky to b a virgin in this day and age.
The ones who gave it up to anybody or the wrong person regret it.You shouldn't let society dictate ur virtue,I wish I waited for the right one but I didn't. But the guy I'm with now is my husband and sex is the greatest when you love someone. You should keep it until you find that someone special and then give ur mind, body, and soul over to them.Ur very blessed to have this special gift that will be unwrapped by that special person.


Hi i had sex with my gf for the first time about a month ago we weren't protected but i pulled out extra earl so wouldent get her preggo she took a test about 2 weeks later to she if she was preggo and it came back negative we had sex after that but protected this time this was about to weeks ago. she was taking BCP, she was complaining of head aches like 2 weeks ago and today she said she didnt feel good, and that she was late on her period, is it possible that she got pregnant even though she was taking the pills and i pulled out early. i also read that after being on birth control for a while can screw up your period is that true? and maybe she just didnt feel good or nerves from missing her period. if she pregnant her parents will kill me, whats the best thing to do? (link)
Pulling out doesn't always work,best to use a condom if she is on the pill for double protection.If she misses one day on the pill she can get preggers,better that she gets the depo shot than she doesn't have to remember to take it.Go to Planned Parenthood and get a test for free done,if she's not preggers ur lucky.Next time b more careful


i want to kiss my lover but when i see her i can't do that please help me i have 17 years old

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Good luck!!


hi,
i wanted to get some advice about staying with my on and off again husband. we ve been married for 7 yrs and seperated for 1yr off and on. we have a history of abuse only because i use to pick arguments and fist fights with him to have my way. we now have 3 kids together. he has a son thats 2 months younger than our 1st born and he and her are 8 yrs old. although we werent not married when our first child was conceived but just the confirmation of the dna test for the son he has devasted me so bad i beat him so bad. he continues to take me back even though i ugly and mean to him. he continues to forgive me over and over again, but not this time even though the physical abuse stopped i still continue to pick on him but now he doesnt want me at all or at least for now. i desperately want to seek counseling both marital and self but im not sure how to convince him that i love him more than he knows and im truly sorry for negectly and abusing him.

please help,
apologectic wife
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Well my sister use to beat her husband and he secretly moved out when she went on vacation.You need to get help and be alone no one deserves to be abused,This is not love your talking about it's abuse and control.He did the right thing by leaving,you could end up killing him!





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