How do i start a 'dirty' conversation with my boyfriend
Question Posted Sunday April 21 2013, 3:24 am
How do i start a 'dirty' conversation with my boyfriend
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Thursday April 25 2013, 2:33 pm: Many questions come to mind such as "How old are you" and "Have you had sex yet" "Is this your way of wanting to get the ball rolling to experience sex for the first time?" "If this boyfriend is also your lover, is he asking you to do this for him?" "Is this something that you WANT to do or are you feeling forced to have to learn to do it to KEEP him?" There's so much we don't know that it makes it hard to give you an answer.
For me at least, talking dirty isn't really using dirty 4 letter words to arouse my man. I have had the experience to get to know my lovers well enough and be comfortable enough with them to know instinctively what to say that will arouse them. Each man has his own tastes and styles. With my husband now, I say enticing things to him that are a promise of what is to come tonight. Once we are making love, I give him a blow by blow of how it feels to me, what it is doing to me, what I want right now...tone of voice and body movements along with convey much too. Teaching you how to talk dirty is much like saying, "teach my how to copulate, (have the sex act)" It doesnt need to be taught, all humans have a natural instinct to know how without having done it before.
So what is the real question or situation that is laying heavy on your mind? [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
AskCupid answered Monday April 22 2013, 9:12 pm: Men Don't always want horny women so be careful cause my boyfriend is the happiest his ever been and we don't have phone sex, so from personal experience I'd say the choice is yours have a bit of fun babes but cross the line (nude pics and strange stuff) well then when he gets what he wants a moves on,.... then you will feel not so nice and think things over.and honey advice is for free!!! So take it or leave it the choice is yours! ****Best of luck!**** [ AskCupid's advice column | Ask AskCupid A Question ]
girlhelper answered Sunday April 21 2013, 7:08 pm: It depends on whether this is in person or through text etc.
A good way to start in both situations is to catch your boyfriend off guard- be blunt and obvious- this will show confidence and make him return the feeling.
A good starter to this conversation could be something along the lines of "Hey babe, I want you bad." [ girlhelper's advice column | Ask girlhelper A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.