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Am i too young for sex ?
Okay, I'm 16 years old, and a girl. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins still, He's the same age as me. We both were talking about losing it to each other, But we're a little bit scared we don't wanna use a condom either, I said we should wait a little more. We love each other very much too. Are we like still too young to have sex ? Should we just get it over with?
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If the strength of your feelings for each other are pulling you towards wanting to show each other these feelings through making love, then you need to be responsible like adults. If you really wish to not use condoms, both you and he should get tested for any STDs before you do so and if they dont do that at Planned parenthood, ask where you can go for that. Get on a contraceptive while there. Some like the pill you need to have been taking a while before you will be protected. These days, kids are trying to have sex at 13 already. Not everyone does. But the ones who seem to wait until 16, 17, 18 usually are dating someone they have deep feelings for. It's that loving caring concern for each other that will make sex mutually satisfiying if both all equally doing all they can to please the other, not just one sided. I wouldnt talk about it as something to just get it over with. That means you have in your mind that it is something distasteful that has to be done. No its not distasteful and no it does not Have to be done.
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Why don't you want to use a condom?
In my opinion, you're too young because you won't be able to handle the consequences of sex. If you're not going to use a condom, you could end up pregnant or with STDs.
Not only that, your body is still growing so it will hurt and won't be very enjoyable for you.
Getting it over with isn't romantic or sweet. And then on top of that, something bad could happen so I wouldn't chance it.
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You still way to young and its probably not the guy you will end up with and if you don't use a condom you could get:HIV/AIDS, PREGNANT or a STD.hope you be wise good luck.
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