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Should I lay off dating for a while
F. 16.
I recently got in to a relationship, 3 months after I split from my ex of 6 months. I fell in deeply emotionally with my ex boyfriend. Cut the story straight, I don't see or speak to my ex and I don't have a problem. He still crosses my mind everyday everyday the tine, but when I see him, I get quite upset. Every time he sends me a message, my hearts beat really fast, not through excitement though. He sent me a message, telling me he missed me and he asked if I still cared. It made me become so hot, like a hot flush and I started crying. He didn't want to know me before, when we were together, we didn't quite work out. It was his emotions, it was like he was emotionally unavailable. Anyway, I really do like my boyfriend at the minute, he makes me laugh, smile and he brings out the best in me. I do genuinely like him, my friends say he may be a rebound, but I know myself that he isn't. I go to bed thinking about him, he's my first thought in the morning and even when my mind is really busy, I still think of him. So, what is this? Why do I feel the way I do about my ex boyfriend, am I not totally over him? Sticky situation.
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What I've heard from my girl friends the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else hey worked for me my ex is a mess i love him but i am engaged. In time you will find the answers within yourself. XOXOXXX
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This really is a sticky situation.
You'll know if you're not over someone. I'm guessing since you're asking if you're not over him, you're not over him. Don't message him anymore, don't talk to him. You will not get over someone if you keep getting messages from him.
You have a guy who treats you right, correct? But if you're not happy and you're not over your ex, it's not fair for him.
You need more time to move on.
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If you are still crying, feeling upset etc. Then you are not over it. Staying in contact with him is not going to make things any easier for you as you will cause yourself more pain.
If you want to move on then you must leave the past the past. Focus on you and only you and when you are over it, Then you will be ready to date again.
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