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How can you know she's ready
Am from S.A.(cape town)Am a guy am(17)and my girlfriend (15) we've bin datin' for 2 years and six months and i think its time for us to have sex but i dont if shez ready nd i thnk of askin her bt am afraid it myt freak hr out,nd i dont want to lose her.thank you plz help
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You should talk to her. Since you've been with her for a long time, you should feel comfortable enough to talk to her about it.
Are you guys intimate at all? Do you hug, hold hands, kiss, ect? If you don't, then you guys aren't ready for sex. If you do, then you should be able to ask.
When you do talk to her, don't pressure her. Just bring the topic up and ask her how she feels about it. If she says she's not ready or she's not sure, don't ask any more. Just say that you love her and you do want to have sex but you'll wait till she is ready and then leave it at that.
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2 and 1/2 years is a long time. So what kind of relationship do you have? That may answer when she is ready or if she ever will be.
Are you just activity partners...you go do things together...like girlfriends would too, go on bike rides, swimming, shopping, etc...
If its just that, nothing romantic going on between you, no kissing and cuddling and holding each other, maybe making out. If One or both of you lack a feeling of chemistry, then there should not be sex, because all you have is a friendship.
By this time, you should feel comfortable talking to her. If you feel horny, thats not a good enough reason to ask. If you are in love with her, then making love is one of the best ways to show it. If you love her. Let her know and tell her that you dream of loving her in all ways, not just by supporting her and being there for her no matter what, but you wish to show her also in worshiping her body in bed, by making love. Don't be false and just say it to convince her. Many females come with built in radar and can tell when something is not right.
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