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okay i have a motorola razr from verizon. for the past month, i've been trying to get to my voicemail. i type in my password, it's 7 numbers, and it always worked. but now, everytime i type in my password the robot for voicemail keeps telling me to enter my password and eventually shuts the phone on me. i have over 8 messages and i really want to know how i can reset my password,or why my phone is doing this?
Call up verizon & ask them. It's probably just a mistake. Are you sure your password wasn't accidently changed?? Or are you sure you're pressing the # key?? For passwords, you have to type in your numbers & then press # directly after them. If you're doing that, ask a verizon employee. For numbers in customer service, you can either find it at the end of your contacts in your phone or go online-
www.verizonwireless.com
You can also ask questions in the FAQ section of their site.
-hope that helped!♥
So I'm going back to school in september, and I'm going to be a junior, I don't know why I'm so anxoius. But I am, and it makes my stomach hurt. Why do you think I'm so nervous? It was fine freshman and sophmore year. I'm actually considered upperclassmen now, so i don't know why I'm so worried, do you think once school starts I'll be okay?
Don't worry about it. You're probably anxious because your Junior year is the most important year according to colleges. You're finally an upper classman & you have the SATS ahead of you. Don't think too much about it. You're in the same position as mostly everyone in your grade, other than people who aren't going to college. Stay focused on your studies & things will go fine. My tip would be to stay focused on your work & don't fall behind. Start studying for your SATS by August. You'll need it. They are very difficult. If you aren't going to take them, then obviously you shouldn't be feeling stressed, especially in July. Relax & be calm about it. There's no need for stress. Junior year was actually a lot of fun. You're more responsible than freshman year & sophmore year, most likely, & you get to do a lot more.
-hope that helped!♥
ok, my best friend (we'll call her "mary") asked out my other best friend since 1st grade (lets call him "joe"). but i didn't know that since i go to a different school then they do. so, "joe" said no, because they were friends... then, a couple months later, "joe" asked me out. i said yes because i liked him more than a friend, and because i didn't know that "mary" already asked him out. then i told "mary" and she got all mad at "joe"... not me. but now, there is this awkwardness between them. i donno what to do.
ok, now i have a second problem. "joe" and i have been together for 2 weeks and 1 day. and i asked him the other day, "if i was a flower which would i be and why" and he said, "rose because i was beautiful"... so i was happy with that responce... until i asked him "if i was a color, which would i be" then he said "green because i'm a vegetarian". i didn't think that was the greatest answer. what should he have said???
now i have a third problem. every time i get off the phone with "joe", he says "well, i gotta go, i'll call u later, bye"
then i say bye back... and that's it... he doesn't even say i love you or ne thing... do you think it is too early??? should i make the first move????
i also have a forth question. tomorrow, "joe" is going on his first plane ride to florida... and i wanted to say "before you leave and go on your trip, i wanted to tell you that i love you". do you think i should say that????
plzzz answer quickly cuz i don't have very long until tomorrow.
First off, talk to Mary about the whole situation. Obviously since you don't go to their school, you didn't know what was going on between them. Appologize & ask her if she's mad at you & what not. Hopefully Joe and Mary can work problems out between themselves, but that's between them & there isn't much you can do. You should not feel guilty though, since you didn't know her feelings for Joe.
I think the 'green because you're a vegetarian' comment was meant to be funny. Vegetables are green. He was probably just trying to be cute. There are no 'right answers'. Don't let it bother you. It really isn't a big deal whatsoever.
You have only been dating for approximately 2 weeks right?? Most people do not love each other that quickly. True love that is. Just because you're dating, doesn't mean you need to say that because it may not be true. Don't take it offensively. Maybe after time he'll feel love but right now he probably just likes you as his girlfriend. Try asking him how he feels about you. If you truly feel as if you love him for sure, then you can tell him. If not, don't because you would just be leading him on. You have to make sure of your feelings before you let him know what they are.
Basically, sort out your problems with Mary and Joe seperately. Let her know that you had no idea she felt that way & you obviously wouldn't mean to hurt her since you guys are best friends. Talk to Joe about his feelings & let him know yours. Ignore the vegetarian comment. It isn't a big deal.
-hope that helped!♥
I'm gonna try to make this a s short as possible. My man and I have been together two years and we have a 7 month old son together. Our relationship has been very rocky pretty much the whole time but we can't seem to get enough of each other. We have destroyed each others property, said tons of hurtful things to one another, and I even had him put in jail twice. Our families and friends have watched and had opinions to give the whole time and I'm scared of what they might say when I tell them we're back together (again). What should I do?
Be honest. The sooner you tell them the better. They might get even more angry or even offended if you don't tell them & they find out by someone else or any other way. Just sit down with them [it might be better if your bf was there too] & explain your feelings for each other & why you made your decision. Don't worry too much about it. It was your choice to date each other & that's what you should be concerned about.
-hope that helped!♥
hi
im 13/f
i havent gotten my perid yet, but have been getting discharge for a about 2 years mabie.
about a couple months ago i noticed brownish blood in my underwear. about a lil bigger than a quater.
havent gotten any since.
was this my first period?? im confused.
srry if its gross but hey all girls have it too so.. this is all i have
pubic hair
discharge
32A in bust.
so usally your suppost to get ur period soon after discharge but ive had it for a while now.
and ive had grown some what boobs
whats the deal?
It wasn't necessarily your period, but a lot of girls get that before their first real cycle. Everyone's different. No one can tell you when you are actually going to get your period. You're still young. You're only 13 so you still have plenty of time. I know a lot of people who didn't get their period until they were 16. You shouldn't worry too much about it. You'll probably get it soon since you said you did have some blood. If you are still concerned, nothing is wrong with going to the gyno. I wouldn't suggest it for your situation though, only because you're only 13 & usually some blood is a sign that your period is coming somewhat soon. Like I said though, no one can predict. Here's a website-
http://www.coolnurse.com/menstrual.htm
You can look up information there & it will be very helpful if you have any other questions.
-hope that helped!♥
15/f
I'm an emotional wreck. And it's almost hard to believe that this has been caused by one guy. I used to be in love with him. He told me he didn't like me in that way (I suppose because he's older). Okay. I accepted the fact that he doesn't like me. But I still am always thinking about him! Always! Always waiting for hours on MSN, while we were in school, anywhere. I'm constantly thinking about him. I can never stop. He's just always on my mind. I don't know what to do. I can't concentrate on anything anymore. It's like, my whole life revolves around one guy. I know he will never like me and that nothing will ever happen, but I'm just so emotionally attached to him. I don't know how to overcome this and stop it. I've tried getting my mind off him; impossible. And jealousy...is a feeling that never goes away as well. *sigh* What can I do to keep him off my mind?
=[
Unfortunately, your feelings for him will not just go away. It is not impossible though. First, you have to be confident that you will find the right person for you. Why waste your time on a guy who doesn't do the same with you?? It isn't supposed to sound harsh, but you said he only sees you as his friend. Why spend so much time on someone that won't date you?? You have to go out & be with other guys. Date around. You don't need to go jumping into a relationship, because obviously you'll still have feelings for him. Go on a few dates here & there. Make new guy friends. Go out with the girls & meet new people. Any of these things will help improve your self esteem. You need to realize that if it isn't going to happen, it isn't going to happen. Don't let your feelings for one guy run your life. You're only 15 years old. You're still in high school. You have so many opportunities to meet someone that will love you for you & that you could date. How can you stop thinking about him?? Don't talk to him. If you talk to him a lot, you need to spend time away from him & try to forget about it. Keep yourself occupied. Whenever you realize you're thinking about him, stop & do something else. Jealousy is extremely common, especially because he is going to go out & date other girls. It's natural. Ignore it. Why?? Because you aren't dating him & since you guys aren't dating, he is obviously going to date other people. Advice isn't supposed to hurt your feelings, but it's a reality. No one should sugar coat it, because it will make things worse in the long run. Give yourself a break. Go out & find a guy who will treat you well & wants to date you. Hang out with your friends from school or your family. Get out of the house & move on from this guy. If you aren't friends with him, it will be a lot easier. Talking casually isn't a big deal, but it may be difficult to get over your feelings for him if you talk a lot. You need to stay focused on other things, such as your school work & your family & friends.
-hope that helped!♥
http://www.officialdualactioncleanse.com/default.aspx?adid=gbb3001
does this actually work?
That stuff never works. It's all ads & they trying to get people to believe their products & take their money. Plus, it's in a pill form. That seems a bit weird to me. This is from the website-
First off
These products were designed for adults. Dual-Action Cleanse and the Maximizer Kit is not recommended for children under the age of 18.
If you're under 18, you shouldn't be using it. Also-
"Slow infrequent bowel movements may cause fatigue, bloating and overall sluggish feeling. Colon Clear contains a proprietary blend of 22 fibers and herbs to enhance peristaltic action and support your digestive function (promoting 2-3 bowel movements per day). This natural action tones and cleanses the colon while eliminating unnecessary toxic build-up. Colon Clear delivers such ingredients as Psyllium, Alfalfa, Pau D'Arco, Oat Bran, and Lactobacillus Acidophilus in a proprietary blend to enhance elimination of built up toxins and waste matter. Colon Clear should be taken every 30-days, followed by a 30-day "break," and is not intended to be taken on a constant basis.*"
That really doesn't sound quite healthy or something anyone would want.
If you want more information, check the FAQ-
http://www.officialdualactioncleanse.com/e-faq.aspx
I would not recommend using this product.
-hope that helped!♥
16/m
so i dated this girl Ashley about 4 months ago and we broke up. We went out for a little longer than 4 months and i even told her that i loved her which is a huge deal to me. She was my first really serious relationship and i thought that we were perfect for each other. We then broke up bc we went to different schools and we realized that i wasnt working. I thought i had moved on since then but i havent had any serious relationships just like hook up kind of things. I recently found some pictures we took together (just normanl ones) and all of a sudden i cant stop thinking about her and i keep thinking that i made a HUGE mistake breaking up with her. Im scared to call her again but i really want to talk to her. Is this normal? should i feel this crappy?
Completely normal. She was your girlfriend & apart of your life. Even though you've only dated for a little over 4 months, she was with you for those 4 months & you can't just forget them. There would be nothing wrong with calling her. Check on her & ask her how she's doing. She might really appreciate it. Did the breakup end badly?? If so, it may be a bit more difficult to talk to her. If not, you have nothing to worry about. Ask her how she is, what she's been up to, etc. You would just be being a friend. You probably shouldn't say "I want to be with you again" right away. It may sound suspicious & confusing. Try approaching her as being her friend. Gradually you should let her know how you feel & how much you missed her. Before you do this, make sure your feelings are correct. Not saying you're wrong, but sometimes people think they're feeling a certain way when they aren't. You could just miss a relationship. If you feel that your feelings are truly for her & you want to be with her again, she has to know that. Just don't throw it at her all at once. I wouldn't say you should feel that crappy. You broke up for your own reasons. It might've been a good idea to keep things going even though there was distance or you didn't go to the same school. If you think about it, it isn't a big deal. You can keep a strong relationship going if you truly love each other.
-hope that helped!♥
Thank you
The only problem is is that I'm using Microsoft OfficeLive for designing my website, and you can't switch the hosting if you want to keep the domain. On OfficeLive, there aren't really any teen-friendly backgrounds, and I don't think that you can import your own background either, but I'm gonna contact support and see if I can and how.
Is there anything that I should do besides change the background and layout?
Advertise. There are plenty of ways to get your site noticed. Actually, I had a good idea.
www.Buddy4u.com
That's a site for girls from ages 11-18 usually. They design their own sites & actually go donate a lot of time/effort in their sites. If you make a site on there [I've made many top sites], you can advertise your site & give reasons why they should visit & join. It is the right crowd you would need.
Google is also another option. Your friends can also tell people at school about it.
-hope that helped!♥
15/f. So, I was friends with this guy who lived in another state last summer. We talked online a lot and he talked to my two best friends also. We kind of stopped talking during the school year and then I was kind of a bitch to him because he was kind of a bitch to one of my other friends. Then, around April, my best friend (who was still talking to him) told me that he really disliked me. Then, in anger, I deleted him from my Facebook friends AND Myspace friends. Then, I started missing him, and in around June, I Facebook-poked him and he poked me back. And that was it. Should I message him? What if he wants nothing to do with me? I really wanna sort this out and be friends with him, but I'm afraid that he'll want nothing to do with me.
You might as well send him a message. Even though he told your friend he disliked you, he never told you that. You could send him a message appologizing for your behavior & even though you aren't expecting his friendship, you'd appreciate it if he would accept your appology & you'd be open to be friends with him again. If he really wants nothing to do with you, he won't reply or will tell you in his reply message. You shouldn't be wondering "oh what if I messaged him & things worked out". That could get irritating & annoying. Just see what's up with him & ask him how hes doing.
-hope that helped!♥
I need some help with my website, which is for teenagers.
Can you please look at it and see if there is anything that I can change, because for some reason, when most people visit the website, they leave right away, and I want to know why and how I can make my website better.
Here's the link: http://byteens4teens.net
Thank You :)
Mariah
I think the site is a great idea! I think you just need more advertising and a better layout. Don't get me wrong, the layout isn't bad, but it seems kind of plain & not really eye catching. Different fonts, colors, etc. will really spicen it up & make things more interesting. Also, accessing different parts of the website doesn't seem easy. You have to look for things & even though that may not seem like a lot, if you're looking to grab someone's attention, it will make your popularity go down. If you had big links for people to click that can take them to different parts of your site, it will make them stay longer & look around more. Design is a large part of a site becoming successful. It has to be eye catching & trendy. You're on the right track though. If you ever need any help, leave me an inbox. I do a lot with advice & HTML [layout design] & had a few sites myself.
-hope that helped!♥
yesterday and today I have felt starving 24/7 no matter what. Like i'll eat a meal, then feel really painfully starving 2 hours later. (or less)
But before 2 days ago I rarely ever felt hungry!
What's wrong with me?
this is driving me insane b/c i'm on a diet and this is making me gain weight.
im a vegeterian if that helps.
Your body is just hungry. Your metabolism must be somewhat fast if you're hungry only an hour or two after a meal. Even though you are on a diet, you need to eat more. Eat fruit & veggies when you're hungry & try eating eating every 3 hours. This doesn't mean pig out though. Stick to fruit & veggies. Also, try drinking water every hour or so. You should probably have at least one bottle with every meal. It will fill you up. For dinners, try having 3 portions. Since you're a vegetarian, I would suggest a veggie, a salad, & some kind of side, whatever you'd like. Water helps fill you up though.
-hope that helped!♥
15/f
soo me and my one friend were walking down her development, up and down like the main development street, and its where all the hot guys hang out. lol so, we walked up and down, well these two really popular boys, were there.. and we saw them, and we talked to them, and they were nice and everything. and then, they were like to us, why do guys keep walking up and down here? and then the other one was like, because they're fit. and they like to exercise. well so, my friend, was like mad. and she thought they were calling us fat. and i mean, i didnt think so, because there like, heyy can we come with you, and so i was like " okay come on" and so they followed us for awhile. and then, so i was just wondering.. do you think they were saying we were fat?
i mean me and her are not fat at all. she only weighs like 105. andi weigh like 110. and shes 5'3 and i'm 5'2. so i mean, i don't know, i dont think were fat. lol sooo, what do you think? were they being mean? or did my friend just overreact to the comment?
No! Definitely not. Guys say stupid things sometimes, but they weren't saying "you guys are fat" indirectly. He was just making a comment how you kept walking back & forth which is technically exercise. Don't worry about it. I doubt thats what they meant. I guess you could always ask though.
-hope that helped!♥
i just recently got close with my friend jake. i ALSO just broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. anyways, hes been there all through the break up and everything helping me out and making me feel better. we talk almost everyday, if not twice a day and we really do have an amazing friendship. about a week or two ago, we started talking about relationships (since we both recently got out of one) and we started comparing what we want in one and what we like/dislike. ever since then, we're even closer & i think im starting to like him. im really afraid to tell him though because i'm afraid it'll screw up what we have, and how close we are. i have one of my best friends talking to him trying to get a feel of who he's interested in, but i really want a straight out answer. i mean, if i dont tell him and he really does like me too, i could be missing out on something great you know? sorry its so long, but any advice you can give me would be great. thanks.!
Try talking to him a bit more as friends & see. You definitely should tell him how you feel. Since you guys are such close friends, there would be nothing wrong with explaining your feelings towards him. He would actually probably really appreciate your honesty. It shouldn't ruin the friendship. My boyfriend is my best friend & I think that relationships really work out if your bf is a good friend of yours. You guys will know a lot about each other. There are situations where friendships were ruined by dating, but it definitely isn't all of them & you don't want to regret anything. You shouldn't be worried about it now either. You should give him a chance & see. If you guys are such good friends, a more than friends relationship shouldn't hurt anything. You should go for it & see how things go. Talk to him about it. He might feel the same way as you do.
-hope that helped!♥
Okay I have a brother who is 13 and he has a friend. This friend has a brother thats my age. I really want to meet this boy and his mom and little brother want me to meet him too. Except everytime i go to a soccer event (which is how my brother and my crushes brother know eachother) he is never there. I have known this family for 3 years, never met the boy at all. But something tells me if would be a good thing if i did. Well they had a party on the beach and my crush didnt go but his little brother went and he goes my brother has a girlfriend now! and i was like oh shit great. Now i dont know what to do because basically i got my hopes up but i can get over it. But its just the fact that i know something could happen if we just met!
What would you do in this situation,
Wait it out?
Forget?
Go after what i want?
They're dating, not engaged. There's nothing wrong with meeting him & being friends. Just because you guys can't date, doesn't mean you can't be friends either. You can never have too many friends. Maybe you won't even actually like him as a bf, only as a friend. Hang out & see how he is. There's nothing wrong with giving him a chance.
-hope that helped!♥
Ok so theres this girl at my school. (i'm going into the 11th grade by the way) Well, she use to be friends with my two best friends and me. Let me tell you about her. I meet her in the 9th grade. I thought she was nice and innocent you know nothing bad but in the 9th grade I noticed she would lie. I thought nothing of it of course because i really didn't know her that well. In the 10th grade things all changed. She LIED even more. About things that she didn't even have to lie about and this one time she lied to one of our friends and he thought I was the lier. She cheated on her boyfriend with his best friend. She calls her 'best friend' a bitch behind her back. She copies EVERYONE. She trys to be preppy one day then skater the next and she steals my words. She lies to our faces. (we know this for sure) She makes fake profiles on myspace and talks to her 'friends' on there. Shes immature. She'll laugh at the word toliet really loudly. We didn't like how she was like this so we decided to tell her the truth. We didn't go all crazy on her, we just had a talk. She tells us that shes glad she told us. Then she goes and says that she didn't ask for our opinion and blah blah. Well you would want the truth right? She started hiding from us even though we still wanted to be friends. So we decided to have another talk with her and i told her a couple hours before it happened that we were going to have a talk and there she goes and trys to run away. We all went into a group and had a talk. My best friends and me aren't friends with eher anymore but even though we aren't shes still a problem. She still copies us and she doesn't even like us either. Shes pretty pathetic. Oh yeah, and i don't want to hear that coping is good because it isn't AT ALL. If your trying to be unquie it doesn't help if someone is taking it away from you and your credit for it. We were over her about a month ago until we started seeing stuff that she had written of us. She doesn't know how to get over things. Shes a obessed person. Not only with us but with ex-boyfriends as well. Shes also friends with some of our friends and because of what has happened are friendship with them has chaged. What should we do?
Ignore her. She can obviously see that by copying you guys it bothers you. She probably thinks she's being funny about it. If you ignore what shes doing & don't let it get to you guys, she'll probably drop it. It is almost like dealing with a child. She is acting like one & being completely immature about the whole situation. Maybe she felt that even though you guys talked it out, you ganged up on her without meaning to?? I mean, it obviously is all of your friends & yourself against her. I'm not saying she has any reason to lie or betray your trust, because she doesn't, but she might actually need help. Not everyone is able to make friends easily and be sociable. She might have trouble making friends & feels that she needs to lie. It would probably be a bad decision to even try talking to her about it. Let it go & move on from the situation. You all tried to be her friend & it didn't work out. Not saying you do this, but don't trash talk her either. It would be better & a lot more mature for you guys to just ignore it & not say anything about her. That would show her & others that you are over the situation & are being adult about it. The whole ex boyfriend thing is ridiculous though. They are ex's so just let it go. As long as she isn't chasing your recent bfs, let it go. Revenge is always fun, but definitely not the mature way to go about things. So just ignore it & let her do what she wants. She's her own person & if she feels that she needs to copy people, then that's her decision. Not yours & you won't be able to stop it, so ignore it.
-hope that helped!♥
so i'm about 5'5 nd i weigh about 130 according to a certain scale. but when i use a different one i'm 120. anyways, either way i wanna get down to 115. so what can i do to lose weight? i walk 2 miles everyday & drink nothing but water, plus i do eat proportion wise. & for example i eat like a banana & yogert for breakfast, and healthy wise. so do you think i can lose that weight about 10 pounds before august ends? plus i tone like crunches & ect.
10 lbs shouldn't be extremely difficult, but you need to be focused and willing to do it. First off, don't deprive yourself of anything. It will only make things worse & your diet would most likely fail. You can eat anything you want to in moderation. If you are seriously craving cake, eat a small piece of it. People make it a lot more difficult than it should be. Small desserts/greasy food here & there is not going to make you gain weight. You gain weight when there's extra fat stored in your body from constantly eating unneccessary foods. Here are a few tips-
1. Always eat breakfast. You will actually store fat if you don't. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Have cereal with fruit, oatmeal, toast with jelly, half of a bagel, granola bars, etc.
2. Try eating 2+ servings of fruit and veggies a day. At least make 2 servings your minimum.
3. Eat before 8 pm. That way you can burn calories while you sleep, not store them.
4. Exercise a few times a week. Go for a run, jog, go walking, jump rope, climb stairs, swim, play a sport, etc.
5. Either eat 3 full meals or 5-6 small meals.
6. Snacking is okay to do. Don't go overboard. Try 100 calorie packs, fruit, veggies, cheese, crackers, etc.
7. Always watch what you put on foods. Don't use extra sugar/salt. Try not using a lot of butter or any at all.
8. Protein will help you lose weight. Try eating peanut butter, chicken, milk, eggs, etc.
9. Don't starve yourself. It will make things a lot more difficult. When you are hungry, eat.
10. Stay focused & determined. Have a friend help you with exercise.
If you stick to those, you'll most likely be very successful. Also, only weigh yourself once a week. Its a lot more accurate. Here's a website-
http://www.freedieting.com/tools/calorie_calculator.htm
That will help you decide how many calories you should intake daily to keep you on track.
-hope that helped!♥
I went to my friend's house with my girls and there were these guys that came over. After they left, my other friend told me that she had sex wit two of them before and gave one of them head that nite (we are 'new' friends and I just learned she was like that!) ... to make a novel a short story, I was talking with my friend at work and she knows they guys who came over. She tells me that 1 of they guys 'supposedly' has aids and there's a really good chance he does (he ALSO has a girlfriend of over a year. That's who he supposedly got it from)! So I textd my friend and told her she needs to get tested and everything. Her response was "Yea." Apparently this chick doesn't care. She gives head I guess on a regular basis? My other friend doesn't think that she's going to get tested (I don't either)! What can I say to her that will make her go? And where can I tell her to go?
Talk to her about going & emphasis how important it is. If someone finds out they have aids/hiv asap, it will make the process a lot easier.
http://www.knowhivaids.org/prev_gettested.html
If you type the information in that site, they will give you listings of local testing centers. They also give tests at the hospital. If you try to explain to her why she needs to go & still doesn't, there isn't much left for you to do. It is her responsibility to get tested. If you are really concerned for her, you could talk to an adult.
-hope that helped!♥
Omg..I cannot stand it when people use your instead or you're or their instead of there or they're.
OH MY GOSH. Example : Your so stupid. & Their retartarded. & Their you are! & You're shirt. And...would you look at that...another error! : Are princess. -_- (meant to be "OUR princess")
GRR. This happens a lot to me. Like I see people doing it over and over and over again. It annoys the hell out of me! Would it be too rude to correct them? They should know by now, right!?
Ugh.
I don't see a problem in correcting them. Try not to be rude about it. These are common mistakes, but should be corrected. Its something learned in elementary school. Its proper english grammar.
-hope that helped!♥
Well theres this girl and a few weeks back she said she liked me, which was great but she had and still does have a boyfriend, i talked 2 her and she likes us both and doesn't know what to do.
one night i got confused by it all and said something stupid "i know u dont like me" so got angry bt this, we didnt talk 4 a while now we made up, but it's not the same, she wont talk like she used to, what should i do, but i dont want to sound to clingy, i really like her. like seriously.
You should just remind her how you feel. She does have a boyfriend though, so you can't expect her to run off with you and forget her whole relationship with him. Also, how would you feel if a guy was trying to date your gf?? Probably not so great. If you really like her and she knows your feelings, there's not much left you can do. Its her decision and when she's ready to make it, she will. Try not being upset with her though. If shes leading you on, thats one thing, but if she really is confused with her feelings, thats another. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, you have to move on. Harder than it sounds, but you can't be clinging on to a girl that has a boyfriend. There isn't anything wrong with being friends though. Just make sure you keep your "dating" feelings out of your friendship if she is going to stay with her bf and not you.
-hope that helped!♥