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so i dated this girl Ashley about 4 months ago and we broke up. We went out for a little longer than 4 months and i even told her that i loved her which is a huge deal to me. She was my first really serious relationship and i thought that we were perfect for each other. We then broke up bc we went to different schools and we realized that i wasnt working. I thought i had moved on since then but i havent had any serious relationships just like hook up kind of things. I recently found some pictures we took together (just normanl ones) and all of a sudden i cant stop thinking about her and i keep thinking that i made a HUGE mistake breaking up with her. Im scared to call her again but i really want to talk to her. Is this normal? should i feel this crappy?
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aww thats sooo cute
you should feel crappy at all
its a very normal thing
who knows chances are shes going through the same thing
call her up and let her know how you feel
and going to diffrent schools doesnt affect anything,in fact its better
so every time you see each other it makes you more happy and you can focus on school also
wish you luck ♥christina
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Aw, yeah that's completely normal. You just miss her a bunch. Four months & even you saying you love her means alot in a relationship. You shouldn't be scared to call her. Most girls would love that..Just call her and tell her how you feel. You shouldn't even feel crappy! Maybe she will feel the same & things will go back to how they used to me. & if not you know you have it a try & that's all that matters. Good luck! ♥
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No, you shouldn't feel that crappy. It's normal to feel like that. You just feel like you have a hole somewhere in your heart and you need your ex-girlfriend to fill it up again. It's basically, you miss her to death.
You should call her! I bet she would like it, she probably feels the same way back if your relationship with her was really that awesome. Talk about really good times that you both had in the past, and that would make her realize that she wants you back.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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it's normal. you're heartbroken. my advice? call her and talk to her like you're friends. talk to her a few times and if the subject doesn't come up, like if she doesn't bring it up, ask her about it. tell her how you feel, even if she has a boyfriend, she needs to know how you feel, and for you to feel better, you have to tell her.
good luck.
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Completely normal. She was your girlfriend & apart of your life. Even though you've only dated for a little over 4 months, she was with you for those 4 months & you can't just forget them. There would be nothing wrong with calling her. Check on her & ask her how she's doing. She might really appreciate it. Did the breakup end badly?? If so, it may be a bit more difficult to talk to her. If not, you have nothing to worry about. Ask her how she is, what she's been up to, etc. You would just be being a friend. You probably shouldn't say "I want to be with you again" right away. It may sound suspicious & confusing. Try approaching her as being her friend. Gradually you should let her know how you feel & how much you missed her. Before you do this, make sure your feelings are correct. Not saying you're wrong, but sometimes people think they're feeling a certain way when they aren't. You could just miss a relationship. If you feel that your feelings are truly for her & you want to be with her again, she has to know that. Just don't throw it at her all at once. I wouldn't say you should feel that crappy. You broke up for your own reasons. It might've been a good idea to keep things going even though there was distance or you didn't go to the same school. If you think about it, it isn't a big deal. You can keep a strong relationship going if you truly love each other.
-hope that helped!♥
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